hey guys. you might think of this question as a mushy one, anyway i just want to know your thought regarding this- whats the difference between these lines:
- "i love you because i need you"
and
-" i need you because i love you"
pretty mushy right? swear im having a hard time figuring out the difference, believe me..
2007-10-21 01:44:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, "I love you because I need you" comes off wrong. It sounds like you have insecurities.
"I need you because I love you" is more positive and focused on her.
2007-10-21 01:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second is definitely the better statement. It says that love comes first, and needing you is a (logical) consequence. When you love someone, you feel that he/she should be with you.
The first statement is a bit difficult psychologically. The "need" comes first, and you don't know where it comes from (could be any kind of dependence). And love a consequence of need? It's like a sick person falling in love with his or her nurse.To me, that sounds a bit weird.
2007-10-21 08:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by cyranonew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you because I need you, sounds like she has something you need. Like money, mechanic, or maid.
I need you because I love you, sounds like you she is your only hope. I wouldn't say either to a person.
2007-10-21 08:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you because I need you:
I have discovered that I need you (for whatever reason), because I need you - I might as well love you.
I need you because I love you:
I love you. full stop. period. Because we're in love, "needing you" has developed.
That's the difference I see - I could be totallyyyyyy wrong or right
2007-10-21 08:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
loving you because i need you ,is not the best way to love someone, you should love someone unconditionally and not need them but just plan and simple love them. then you have to have someone in your life to love them so they are needed in your heart and life to be there to love.
2007-10-21 08:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I love you because I need you"... that tells me that you are insecure, and cant handle being alone... that scares me,, stalker
"I need you because I love you"... that tells me you love me, and truly need me in your life,,, because of love
2007-10-21 08:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by More or less 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋