My boyfirend is the SORT OF the best boyfriend...our school are 45mins away and i just sense he's cheating....i mean we talk all we can and when i see him we have great sex...but i just dont trust people....we have been together for three months and when he met me he said im the first girl that could honestly take him saying he wouldnt cheat me, and run with it. I looked in his history on his computer and he WAS LOOKING AT SOMEONES PHOTOS ON FACEBOOK THREE TIMES DURING THE WEEK. when i ask him he says hes tired of me accusing him and the next time I ask him hes leaving. Also his phone is OFF LIMITS PERIOD....WHATS GOING ON?
2007-10-21 02:30:18 · 6 answers · asked by Sherry Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His phone is "off limits" ??FLAG!!!! He's a kid, some guys in high school promise you their deepest devotion but all they are looking for are strong hips. I have a firm rule for women of any age. If you suspect he is "cheating" he probably is. Trust your instincts and find a guy who lives closer and who doesn't push all your insecurity buttons. Dump him by not contacting him and if he tries to use your phone to contact you tell him quickly your phone is "off limits".Don't explain why, he knows why. Then smile and look around for a few cute guys you can drool over and they are worth it. Good Luck. Don't ever waste a tear on a scam operator. Particularly the ones who lie to con you into "great sex". Do you know his mom???
2007-10-21 02:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by sliverofmoon2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talk about a subject for a long time and if he changes the topic quickly tell him to kiss his *** good-bye. Or if he's out on a date with you take him to the restaurant. If he says his stomach hurts that's a sign. Also if he's looking at the book ask him if you could see if he says yes then he's not cheating. If he says no then you look at the page. E-mail me at unknownpheonix360@yahoo. Tell me how many girls or on the page he's looking at.
2007-10-21 09:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by unknownpheonix360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, this is hard b/c he lives apart from you. Is he buying new clothes, buying new cologne, worrying about his appearance more than usual ? What's up with the phone. That is very suspicious. Women have great intuition, there is a reason you sense he is cheating. If he has a past reputation of cheating I would say he is going to continue to do it.
2007-10-21 09:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by cbsncmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no trust only suspicion on your part, you have nothing.
Unless you know for sure, keep it to yourself. If you think checking up on him is the answer, you are wrong. you are not his mother......... quit acting like one......
It sounds like you have issues and are not grounded as a person. You need to get yourself emotionally stable before enterring any relationship.....you sound very immature and certainly not ready for anything.....
2007-10-21 09:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think of Beckham situation or someone well known. In the end they go back to their partner but it happened. what do you think
2007-10-21 09:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't trust him, then maybe you should leave the poor boy alone already.
2007-10-21 09:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by clit_niblr28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋