i want him to tell me he loves me every day and that i am beautiful every day. And return the pleasure that i gave him. He has told me he loves me and that i am beautiful but just not every day. I am being stupid?
2007-10-21 02:08:22 · 29 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-10-21 02:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by pixie22406 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not stupid - but you do sound a bit immature. NO, I am not bashing you at all!
Whether he says he loves you or tells you that you are beautiful means nothing - it is how you feel inside...if you can feel his love and if you can feel that he thinks you are beautiful...that's the question.
By the way - how sincere do you think it would be if he called you every morning to say "Good Morning. I love you. You are beautiful."? Wouldn't it be more special if he was allowed to say it when he felt like saying it instead of when you told him he had to?
2007-10-21 02:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Partially u being stupid...
sorry to say that but its a fact..
saying that magical word "I love you" must be said at a special time on a sepecial place..
saying "I love you" everyday wud loose its valuable meaning.
And when your beautiful.. ur bf saying/calling u beautiful wont make a difference??? u will stay beautiful as long as ur young :).
Everyone has his/her own way to express love.
Understand him..
and most of the guys dont like nagging gurls.. so be cool.
2007-10-21 02:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by orchidams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least he tells you that you are beautiful, some guys are so thick in the head you have to write it on their forehead to even hint that you want it said to you.
It's natural to want to be feel loved and be called beautiful, but don't worry if he doesn't say it everyday, guys are like that. Sometimes it's what he does that explains his feelings. Like example. Hugs and kisses, or flowers or a msg asking how's your day..etc
But if you want him to say it, just throw him hints and if he doesn't get it, then eventually tell him.
Good luck =D
2007-10-21 02:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you're not being stupid, honey! like any sane woman, u just want appreciation and admiration from your guy! it isnt a crime to seek praises from him, and i think it's kind of cruel of him to tell u that u are pretty but "not just everyday". i mean, what the hell is that? that is so typical of guys... honey, i suggest u give him a bit of a cold shoulder and if he really cares for u, he will ask what's wrong and THEN u can tell him what's bothering you in a very sincere, yet NOT in a whiny way. if he scoffs and rolls his eyes because he feels u are being super sensitive, give him a punch on a face!
2007-10-21 02:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not stupid, but apparently insecure. It's not his fault your ego needs boosting daily. If he tells you how he feels fairly regularly, that should be quite acceptable...it shouldn't need to be every day (after a while that would just sound obligatory anyway, and not too sincere).
Let him tell you when he's feeling it...don't pressure him to do it on your schedule.
2007-10-21 02:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might be a little extreme. You have to tell YOURSELF you are beautiful everyday. He's going to think you are insecure. You want him to be himself. You don't want him to say what you think you want to hear. I'd want my man to be honest. If something on me doesn't look right, I want the truth. Making someone feel obligated to praise you, can't be comfortable to them and for you, I'd wonder if they were being honest or trying not to hurt my feelings.
2007-10-21 02:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by bizzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, very stupid. if he sayes he loves you u want it to mean something right, well when he is saying it now, it means nothing, it is a forced task like school. u dont wana do it but u got to because if u do then u get a reward out of it. like a good job(hence the school metaphore)
2007-10-21 02:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't request him some things you want but he doesn't really like. If you keep doing like that you want him to say he loves you everyday, then he must be tired of loving you. And you will upset him finally. And maybe he will leave away from you from that.
2007-10-21 02:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Angel H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
The answer to that question reside in other question, why do you love him? do you love him because he do what ever you wants, and said what ever you said? or do you love him because you just like what he is? if the second question is the answer, your trying to change that what you love, sometimes we need to hear things from the people we love, maybe what you should do its just tell him what he means to you and what you would like to hear from him, it could work, but do not expect hear it daily, because that would mean you are trying to change him.
2007-10-21 02:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by Al 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋