Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

She wanted to talk "as friends" and said it would be good to hear my voice. She hoped I was doing well. Truthfully, I'd be doing much better if she hadn't been unfaithful and left be with no choice but to divorce her. She has remarried and has her own family now.

2007-10-21 03:33:27 · 28 answers · asked by pistonclash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a month. and I know he's the one for me. He has told me he wants to one day marry me and spend the rest of his life with me. In the beginning of our relationship we've had a rough start. we were both previously cheated on and have been badly hurt. Then in the beginning of our relationship his friend decides to hit on me and ended up kissing me. I told my boyfriend everything that had happened and he still wont let it go. He says he'll never forget that and he'll always have trust issues because I dind't do enough to stop it from happening. I've always been faithful to him. But now he's saying that he loves me and always will but he needs time to find himself. He wants to continue talking but I told him that I will not do that. I don't want any contact until he knows what he wants. I feel like it's not fair nor right for me to call and cry to him when he's the one putting me through this. I just want to know if he'll be back for me.

2007-10-21 03:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend and we have been together for nearly 4 years and have 2 kids together and my family like him but they dont want me to marry him. As I said I do love him but im not sure myself if I want to marry him. He's caring and treats me lovely and is great dad but he can be sarcastic and ignorant and sometimes I feel I wont be able to put up with it for the rest of my life. All he goes on about is gettin married and I keep making up excuses like we cant afford it etc and I have told him the truth and he just says we meant to be together. I'm 19 and he's 24 and I keep telling him we have got alot of time before we have to think about getting married.
What should I do?

2007-10-21 03:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Natz 6 in Marriage & Divorce

im asking because my bf and I had intercourse the other night and he swears up and down he had an orgasm. We're trying to get pregnant, so we have unprotected sex. He said he did C** inside of me, but I didn't feel it.

He made noise and was moaning all through sex, then he was silent for a minute, then got off of me and said he had to lay down for a minute.

can it be possible he had a quiet orgasm when he was inside of me? or was he too turned on that it came out quicker and didnt even have time to make noise? like a quick orgasm?

2007-10-21 03:30:30 · 10 answers · asked by mmcchic23 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband is an alcoholic and lost his job about two years ago. At that point everything was transfored into the wifes name - including the house. The wife makes all of the money and wants to leave her husband. She does not want to ruin her credit but can not stay at that house. Her husband can not afford to pay for the house on his own. She does not know if the husband will even leave the house once she leaves. How can she lose her house "smartly" without having her credit get ruined?

2007-10-21 03:26:40 · 18 answers · asked by yoyo28 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is leaving me out and i have another friend who tries to act popular and she does bad things and i am scared i am going to turn into that.I have another friend Kathrine and she is like my best friend but i hate to say it but she sometimes tries to act popular.What should I do?

2007-10-21 03:24:36 · 10 answers · asked by jo 2 in Friends

Im very unhappy with my life at the moment. Im 23 years old and live with my parents and we really are not getting along at the moment, on top of that i have had a very difficult year. I have been out of work/further education for the first time in my life for a few months now. This is because i have been quite depressed for the past few months, before you judge i have been a happy person 95% of my life but have not been so recently. One of the things i am really unhappy about is living with my parents they are on my back 24/7, apart from my dad working 9-4 and my looking after my 2 nieces they both have not much of a life. There life is me and my sister which they view through a magnifine glass. The house i live in is not a very happy and social house and one thing that i particualy hate is the fact i never truely get my own space, my parents are in the house all the time, which makes me so unhappy as i just need some space on my own to get things together.

2007-10-21 03:23:18 · 23 answers · asked by scott m 1 in Family

Most likely we will stay at my house. My 2 best friends are coming. Sadly,I bet my best friend is going to bring her friend. She wants to make us all friends,I kinda dont wanna be but w/e any ideas 3 maybe 4 teens can do at home?
Anything like games,makeover ideas,anything?
Any ideas would help and what I would need? I want it to be awesome especailly if my friends going to bring her friend. See I know her friend we were friends but drifted apart and she wants us to re-connect but I just want the friends I have. Weird and Rude...I know! Anyway game or any type of ideas? Outside of home helps to just in case ;)
THANKS!

2007-10-21 03:23:01 · 6 answers · asked by Kiana 3 in Friends

Ok I have this guy friend(more of an aquantance) and I was wondering if he likes me...I've never seen him talk to any other girl before and I don't think he has any girl friends, so I think he talks to me the most out of the whole girl population....anyways, in 1 of the 2 classes that we have together, I sometimes see him staring at me and when I look at him, he shifts his eyes....also, once I got bored so I started puffing out my cheeks and I looked over and he was doing the exact same thing as me...oh and in our other class, he sits infront of me and he always puts his head back and rests it on my pencil case, and a couple days ago, my best friend and I were arguing about recycling and so I asked him if he recycled(even though I knew he didn't) and all he said was "maybe"...I'm leaning towards that he likes me, but I don't want to be wrong considering that we don't talk all that much and he doesn't pay a lot of attention to me...so what do you think???

2007-10-21 03:21:23 · 15 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 03:18:49 · 15 answers · asked by beckster 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does maturity still count.Does physical attributes count the most. Can growing older be a beautiful enriching process to you when a potential male partner is looking at you?

2007-10-21 03:16:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please help me!!!

2007-10-21 03:16:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why not? there are plenty of women who are with men that are physically stronger than them so why cant men date a woman who is stronger? whats the big deal and why?
why is it so wrong?

2007-10-21 03:15:21 · 6 answers · asked by My Name Is Trip 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy i met at a club after school, we started talking and i felt really comfortable with him. He showed some signs of liking me like, only focusing on me in a crowd, to the point where everyone just left us alone and we just kept on talking and we had a lot in common, he said i was pretty and i noticed him staring at me, and even at my boobs, which kinda annoyed me but everyone always does (i dont where slutty clothes i just have big boobs and a small figure) but he's also a 2 years younger then me. Does he like me? if so what do i do? i always mess up relationships, they either end badly or never work out. We are both in high school, im a senior he's a soph, i know people are gonna say he's too young and i sound desperate, but i dont care ive always liked younger guys. I know we only just met, but i dunno, i think there something about him i really like, what should i do to get him to like me what steps do i take?

2007-10-21 03:14:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you really love someone if that person breaks your relation how to overcome that sadness?

2007-10-21 03:12:41 · 14 answers · asked by payal mehta 1 in Singles & Dating

met a guy and it seemed like we were friendly I always talked to him about my crushes. From what another friend hinted and the way he acted it seemed that the guy was probably interested in me. Ok, so now after almost two months of not seeing each other due to Summer break we kept in touch through text messaging and phone calls once or twice a week. About a month ago he broke all contact with me! He won't reply to my text messages or phone calls. What's up with that? I never did anything to the guy? It's like he just broke our starting friendship for no reason. What is up with that?!

2007-10-21 03:11:16 · 3 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Friends

2007-10-21 03:10:58 · 16 answers · asked by oh really? 4 in Singles & Dating

I feel so disgusting inside. My husband and I have been separated for three months. However, we attended my sister's wedding yesterday and my children and I were part of the wedding party. I did have chapmagne making me relaxed by the end of the night. I went to bed, was awaken by him telling me he wanted to make love to me. I said no and he did anyway. I feel horrible since he has a history of degrading and disrespecting me. I feel awful inside and keep crying. I feel raped. He took advantage of me......... AGAIN. I just feel so horrible inside. Was this wrong of him? We were separated (at my request) and I thought I could trust him home for the night.

2007-10-21 03:10:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 03:09:59 · 15 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a badly hurt leg and everyone makes fun of me the way I limp around! I walk down the playground and when I turn around there is people limping behind me or when I was standing in my line and this little girl starts stepping on my foot which is hurt! I mean I told her to stop but she started stepping even harder! its not my fault I have a hurt foot! I even started crying from the pain! HELP!

2007-10-21 03:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by Laganasita 1 in Friends

something thoughtful but not too expensive....

2007-10-21 03:06:07 · 16 answers · asked by veronika 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 03:02:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How was your proposal done?

2007-10-21 02:57:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I live in Phila, PA. I don't qualify for Legal Aid as I'm what you would call the "working poor" I'm barely making it as it is yet my current salary puts me out of the realm any "Legal Aid" services.
I share legal and physical custody of my daughter with her Dad. We were never married. This past summer he filed a false report of abuse against me with DHS and my daughter was removed from my home. I finally got her back but this past weekend her Dad missed his weekend with her and he called DHS again with another false report. I need to fight this but don't have the cash and again do my qualify for legal aid. Are there "Pro Bono" lawyer listings anywhere?

2007-10-21 02:57:32 · 5 answers · asked by strawberriesilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hi everyone.. i just want to ask your comments about this one. i have this special friend and we have been constantly having a communication for about a year. he was a highschool friend. im not really sure if there is something special between the two of us. but heres the catch for a year that we had this thing, i think i began loving him. we even had sex a month ago. i did it with him because i love him. but he is the typical jerk and i don't know if he loves me too. the only reason why am i continuing to love him is becasue i know that he needs me. im the only one he runs after when he is down. i tried neglecting him but i just can't. the only thing that i am sure of this very moment is that i do love him and i want to be the one to change him.even if it really hurts sometimes. i even planned my life with him. am i stupid? please let me know. by the way im maria. =)

2007-10-21 02:56:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I has one relationship for longer time but about over 5 years i alone , i'm a person to always bring oportunity to talk about what go on face to face, i'not accept lie, well if my partner not be honest turn face and leaving forever,the life is for a couple(i'm catholic) scared about second bad experiene for that i do my hobby travel but i feeling alone.If can tel me other tips to make my mind busy i really appreciatt it.

2007-10-21 02:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by EC J 1 in Singles & Dating

To feel such a strong attraction to someone you work with who you barely know? He shared a couple of deep coversations with me. One day he brought some frieght up to me and just stopped in front of me and we starrred into each others eyes. I said thank you and we both walked away. I feel like the feeling is mutual and I gave him my number and asked him out for coffee he said, "yes".

2007-10-21 02:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by CuriousChick 1 in Singles & Dating

i was thinking of becoming one i heard they make good money but my boyfriend says thats a hoe is that true?

2007-10-21 02:47:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you react if they flirt.

2007-10-21 02:47:40 · 13 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok my parents are currently building a house and they don't know weather to make it with 3 rooms or 5 rooms. The extra 2 rooms would be for me and my future husband. But I don't want to live with my parents because me and my dad don't get along almost at all. My future husband would agree because it would cost us cheaper than building our own home and we can use the rest to buy a good car. Now we would be somewhat separate from my parents either one of us upstairs and the others downstairs, either one of us in the left and others in the right wing of the house. But still the Kitchen would be one for everyone....So I am kind of afraid that most of the fights I will have with my dad will be in the kitchen (which I think it's dangerous for both of us, we had some pretty ugly fights)...and besides I've always dreamt of having my lil cottige and what about when we have kids...should I live with my parents (and husband) for all my life???

2007-10-21 02:43:03 · 7 answers · asked by crishu 1 in Family