Family & Relationships - 21 October 2007

This boy I'm in class with at school was with his friends(about 8 of them) and he said "I'm sure alice(me) is really a man" and they all said "yeah" and "yes,I thought that too".

Why would they say this?
I've never been told that I look like a man(in fact I look girly and have quite big boobs) and I'm also not a tomboy so why did he say this?

I'm so upset!

2007-10-21 04:20:49 · 39 answers · asked by IloveNewYork 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 3 years keeps standing me up. Its not like once in a while either, its like out of 5 times we are supposed to see each other, he will stand me up 3 times. Everytime I confront him about it, he always says that he has many things to do and other responsibilities that he has to take care of but he loves me so much. He has stood me up so much that I have dumped him the past because of it but took him back because he says that he loves me and would not do anything to hurt me. If an emergency situation came up or he had to work late then I would totally understand but thats usually not the case. He is either hanging out with his friends or falls asleep but either way I'm so tired of it and he will not stop no matter what I say. He has even tried to turn it around on me and make it seem like I'm wrong for being upset that he keeps standing me up with no phone call. I have even planned many romantic evenings only to get stood up. What should i do because i'm so sad?

2007-10-21 04:15:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okkk well I like this guy..
He is one of my bestfriends. He has a girlfriend though. But I think his girlfriend isn't right for him.. He could do wayy better. He is really hott and a lopt of girls at our school like him. Well his girlfriend isn't right for him cuz she always has an aditude*. She yells at him to do things. I just don't like her in general. Now some people think I am jealous. But I never liked her before they were going out. I have to admit I think I am a little jealous. But like I can't tell him she isn't right for him. He is happy.. I think. But I just wish I could help him. Last year I know he liked me a little bit..or no he said he didn't know if he liked me. But he never asked meout or what ever.

Do you know how I can break them up? It would be better for him... I am just looking out for a friend. =]

2007-10-21 04:14:45 · 23 answers · asked by Unknown. 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do...i feel so wrong...I have a girlfriend who i love and have been going out with for a long period of time...last night i was at a welcome home party with my cousin because he just got back from Iraq...we all got so plastered i couldnt even see...and i made out with 2 diff. girls...Now ive always been the guy who hates with all his heart a cheater...ive been cheated on many times...i didnt mean what happened...the girls i made out with were sober and i feel like i was kind of taken advantage of...i dont know what to do...i feel like such an asshole...i love my girlfriend and would do anything for her...can anyone help me...Please...

2007-10-21 04:14:01 · 6 answers · asked by David C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is a perfect date for you ladies. and when is it a smart move to kiss? I'm kind of rusty?

2007-10-21 04:12:15 · 20 answers · asked by Can't Stop Smiling 2 in Singles & Dating

I have both of those because my boyfriend broke up with me like a week and half ago. Can you? Please answer honestly! I am getting sick and tired to the stupid and pervert answers you gave me on my pervious questions! Thanks so much!

2007-10-21 04:12:01 · 9 answers · asked by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 in Singles & Dating

im 17 and shes 18 and i do do anything i just want to make sure she cant get in trouble for anything

2007-10-21 04:10:59 · 5 answers · asked by muffincaptain96 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I saw my crush the other day for the 1st time in like five months. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. It was like he was in a trance when he staring. He was acting all flustered and stuff and yet he was with some other girl. It looked like he didn't care he was with her because I was there. Then as he was the leaving the place we were at he was staring even more and his face got even redder. He even was pretending like the girl wasn't there. It was like he didn't want me to see the girl he was with. Why does he do this? Does he like me or what? Why won't he just come and talk to me?

2007-10-21 04:10:54 · 5 answers · asked by shanta 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello
Me and my husband have been married for a little over a year now...My husband is in the military..While, he was away on tour everything seemed to be perfect..When he first, came home we had already been married for 7 months without seeing each other..Things where good...The sad part is that he is stationed across seas, so thats what keeps us apart..He promised that I would be coming with him..But it's been 8 months now and I still haven't madeit there yet...He said, our paper work will not go through..For all different type of reasons...Even though everything is find with me and they shouldn't have any reason to hold us back from not coming..However, he's been over sea's by himself...And the man that I married seems to not exsist anymore. I mean he calls...Every now and then but mostly I call him... He seems so distant and distracted..But in the next breath will tell me how he needs his wife and wants to keep his family....

2007-10-21 04:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by The'Truth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been seperated for 4 years. If we decide to eventually divorce whose state law will take precedence? He lives (we lived together)in a community property state. I don't. Also they have vastly different alimony laws. (We have been married 30+ years)

2007-10-21 04:10:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im in college, and this girl from my highschool used to like me a lot, text messaging me a lot and always messaging me on my computer... I was always nice to her, but never asked her out because i dont like her in that way... only as a friend... now.... she'll message me... and when i ask her "how are you" she wont respond and ignore me..... but she still texts me nonsense lol

2007-10-21 04:08:23 · 9 answers · asked by puaporn3 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't bear this much longer..I can't be the only one out there, right? Come on, share..misery loves company

2007-10-21 04:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me nd my girlfriend were together for nearly a yr when we just started arguen over everything nd so forth we ended up splitting up but i still loe her with all my heart also she sed she feels the same way. she said sheneeds time to think it throught because she wants it to work. how log should i give her and also when we broke up she found out i was going to have a fight with this lad from her area she got upset nd so forth nd her parents found out i dont know if they still like me what do you think the best thing to do is?

2007-10-21 04:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 04:01:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance wants a lavish reception costing several thousand pounds with guests I don't even know. I think we could put the money to better use. How do you compromise?

2007-10-21 04:00:44 · 14 answers · asked by Ginny Jin 7 in Weddings

It seems as if this women has him brain washed. He lets her call me on the phone & cuss me off & call me terrible names. He has lost his sons & grandchildren & family over this other women. I don't want him back, but I wonder if he will ever realize what he's doing, and come to his senses. Please tell me what you think.

2007-10-21 04:00:21 · 31 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You see, everytime I play with my girlfriend's breast, at some point she'll always say something about being gentle and such. I don't know if I really have a very firm grip or her breast is just too sensitive but I want to know when I'm already giving her pain instead of pleasure. Can anyone give me some helpful tips and "hints"?

2007-10-21 03:59:43 · 7 answers · asked by napoleon 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend the other night said " I know i don't show it often but ( pause) your really awesome?" He seemed like it took him alot to say it. Is he trying to tell me he likes me more than a friend?

2007-10-21 03:59:04 · 4 answers · asked by Beeskneez 1 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this woman for 9 months. We were boyfriend and girlfriend for about 3 months. Then all of the sudden I find out she was in another relationship since before we met. She said that when we met she was just looking to have fun and had no idea we would fall in love, then she didn't know how to tell me about it when we did. She ended it with him and says I am more important to her, but she needs time to get her life in order. She still calls me, but she seems really confused right now. I want to give her the time she needs to get her life in order, but all I can think about is calling her. I mean how do you go from loving someone with all your heart to waiting to see where things will go. I know she is worth it and she is the woman for me. I just wish she could let me help her and open up to me about what is going on. She is out of town for work this week and says we will talk when she gets back. I want to be patient but it is so hard not to bother her while she work

2007-10-21 03:58:31 · 6 answers · asked by dhack567 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-21 03:57:40 · 5 answers · asked by The Lost Elf 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-21 03:56:04 · 24 answers · asked by The Lost Elf 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband is sleeping. The women who I think he is having an emotional affair with has just texted him three times. Do I violate his privacy and read the messages? He has caught me snooping before and it causes big fights. He deletes his textes and phones to and from her so I can't see them. According to his cell phone bill online they text and talk constantly. What do I do? Please help, I'm going crazy..

2007-10-21 03:55:21 · 27 answers · asked by BreakingHeart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

In a relationship with boyfriend. He promises he will move in with you if you move somewhere else as current place isn't big enough. You find a house (you are 7 month pregnant with his baby) you pay the deposit etc and begin to move in, he changes his mind as he says his exams at xmas are more important right now than me & baby. He says he'll maybe move in after exams. Exams are 5-6 weeks away, baby is due in 10 weeks. I love him to bits but feel being put at 2nd priority now to exams does not bode well for future. I'm wondering now if this relationship really has any future.

2007-10-21 03:55:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it people always blame for woman if a guy has an affair(this has nothing to do with me,I've just noticed this)?

For example:Rebecca Loos,EVERYONE blamed her for having an affair with David Beckham,but hardly anyone blamed HIM(of course they were both in the wrong,but without him saying yes to Rebecca the affair could not have taken place).
Some people even layed the blame on Victoria Beckham for not being a good enough wife.

Why do people do this???

2007-10-21 03:54:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 2300 square foot home in Knightdale, NC. It comes with a heat pump heating system and a propane fireplace. Should I use the heat pump or the propane fireplace or should I use a portable kerosene space heater. What is cheaper?

2007-10-21 03:49:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-21 03:48:11 · 14 answers · asked by gordon_abi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I date guys,but then get bored very quickly,i am seeing a great guy who treats me well and we get along great but i'm already starting to get bored,i dont want this to happen but i wonder if i'll ever get married one day,my longest realtionship lasted 3 years and he was my first love and i was in love,what you think?

2007-10-21 03:43:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you believe that men should have an equal code that protects them from domestic violence? i would like to know people's opinions on this.

2007-10-21 03:42:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure how this works if they don't have money for a lawyer. They want to draw something up and all involved parties sign. They want to put my last name on the birth certificate. Would I be able to raise the baby this way. would my insurance cover them? Or do we draw something up, sign it and have the lawyer just finalize it? And does anyone know the cost of something like that?

2007-10-21 03:34:47 · 27 answers · asked by NeNe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is a disappointing discovery in a new relationship, and Iwonder how many couples face the prospect of a man needing manual manipulation because he cannot seem to "get there" inside a woman. Is this part of middle age?

2007-10-21 03:34:04 · 17 answers · asked by Yenelli 2 in Marriage & Divorce