I dont know what to do...i feel so wrong...I have a girlfriend who i love and have been going out with for a long period of time...last night i was at a welcome home party with my cousin because he just got back from Iraq...we all got so plastered i couldnt even see...and i made out with 2 diff. girls...Now ive always been the guy who hates with all his heart a cheater...ive been cheated on many times...i didnt mean what happened...the girls i made out with were sober and i feel like i was kind of taken advantage of...i dont know what to do...i feel like such an asshole...i love my girlfriend and would do anything for her...can anyone help me...Please...
2007-10-21 04:14:01 · 6 answers · asked by David C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ive been reading your advice...and your right...I always planned on confessing...i wouldnt keep that from someone...thats not right...and what i did was not right...i just needed you guys to basically tell me im an asshole and to 'fess up...
2007-10-21 04:40:22 · update #1
You weren't taken advantage of by those girls. You were the one who put yourself into a situation that you: didn't invite your girlfriend to go with you too, didn't control your own behavior, and didn't control your alcohol intake. If you really loved your girlfriend, you never would have put yourself into that situation in the first place.
2007-10-21 04:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot blame it on the drinking. that is such a lame excuse. "oh its not my fault I was drunk" bull ****. Be a man and tell your girlfriend. Do not lie to her because you know the truth will come out sometime and when it does I hope she dumps your sorry ***. You guys just don't realize when you have got a good thing.
2007-10-25 03:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by iceprincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and stand up and tell your girl the truth. There is no reason in making the situation any harder. If she decides to leave you that is her right, but by God you have to tell her if your relationship has any chance of making it. You can't build on a lie. What if the shoe was on the other foot? Wouldn't you want her to tell you. I hope and pray that you used protection and that you draw from your experience and become wiser.
2007-10-21 04:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah and then he blames the alchool! that is the lamest excuse ever! so does it mean if your gf drinks she can make out with boys and she could get away with it?
They don't care if you drank or not, they did not take advantage of you and even if they did, it is no excuses!
If you don't know your limits then don't drink! I hate when people blames alchool, YOU took those drinks, you drank them so you are responsible! that's it...
And you should tell her before she hear it from someone else.
what are you gonna do? just stand there and look at her in the eyes pretending that nothing happened?
sorry but i don't have pity for people who drinks too much and then they blame their mistakes on alchool or girls/boys!
2007-10-21 04:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume you have learned your lesson here? Never do this again. And, I would keep it to myself. There is no sense in hurting your girlfriend unnecessarily. You will feel better by telling her and getting it off your chest, but then the pain will be hers.
2007-10-21 04:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her.but tell her it wasnt most of ur fault that u were drunk.n they took adventage of u n nutin more happend.n u should always go with ur girlfriend to a party when you knw ur gna drink
2007-10-21 08:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by blue star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋