I date guys,but then get bored very quickly,i am seeing a great guy who treats me well and we get along great but i'm already starting to get bored,i dont want this to happen but i wonder if i'll ever get married one day,my longest realtionship lasted 3 years and he was my first love and i was in love,what you think?
2007-10-21 03:43:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to me it sounds as though you have commitment issues!
have you been hurt badly in the past??
i am the same i get bored in a relationship within 3 months but i was hurt badly a few years ago
since then when i get to a certian point in a relationship and if feels like you need to start getting personal and sharing feelings and secrets is when i start running away
2007-10-21 06:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by mike l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Parkfiel,
As the king used to say "Your caught in a Trap" "You cant go on" Do you know that this is a lot harder getting out of than the ordinary person might. For years I bummed around drifting from one girl to another, Then I met her, The One, She was everything that I wanted, I could never do better, We was in love.A few weeks later the old feelings started to come back and I had to move on. What am I looking for? I dont know, Will I recognise her when we finally meet?I dont know. But I must stop soon. If you can figure a way out for me then let me know I can use a bit of help
2007-10-21 04:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how old you are but spice up the love life/relationship with little but cute and creative ways...leave little notes in his pocket/wallet about how you feel about him, make dinner together have dessert with each other, go out and have a good time Just you two...no phones, computers, email, ect. Try something new...a dance class, going to the gym together, watching an entire series of your favorite show
I write on my b/f mirrors with my red lipstick, just little things so he knows i am thinking about him... I watch star wars at least once a week b/c he loves it.. .( i don't understand it, but i sit there with him)
and he soon will start returning the favor...my boyfriend sends me flowers for absolutely no reason, he takes me out without hesistation, he calls of work so he can take care of me when i'm sick....
you just have to keep the relationship interesting...
Try reading Chicken Noodle Soup for the Soul...there is one about love has a bunch of cute little ideas.
it always could be that you just haven't found the one yet...you'll find him...everyone has someone, fate or God, or whatever you believe in will bring you two together.
2007-10-21 03:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say what happened to this first love???
it sounds like maybe you need to take a break from dating and see in a year maybe how you then feel. or try telling this guy that you are bored that it s not him but you and try and both of you think of a solution
2007-10-21 03:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date one guy in particular on a regular basis until you are sure that is what you want. You just havn't met THE one yet. Also don't make the mistake of comparing them to your previous love or you may miss out on the right one.
2007-10-21 03:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get bored of girls very quickly, that was until i met my current girlfriend and fell in love. Maybe you are just waiting for the right guy, or maybe you are comparing them too much to your first love?
2007-10-21 03:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe someone sexually abused you when you were younger and that could be the reason you get 'bored of guys' so easily. I have some issues with abuse and it is still a struggle every day to make myself realize, I am not in that situation.
2007-10-21 03:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Silly-Little-Pagan-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i have the same problem - and ive recently realised i get bored of guys so quickly cos they are not right for me...when you meet one you could really love you will know...and you won't get bored anymore because he is special! i hope you find him soon x
2007-10-21 04:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably going out with guys that are so into a routine that you get bored with them. Maybe you'll meet someone who is spontaneous.
2007-10-21 03:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I get bored too, I'm "known" for leading guys on, then dropping them off even though I'm only 13! I'm like WTF, I told him before all of this started I saw him like a brother.
But anyways, are you Scorpio? I am, Scorps get bored easily I think.
2007-10-21 03:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by crazygolucky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋