Okkk well I like this guy..
He is one of my bestfriends. He has a girlfriend though. But I think his girlfriend isn't right for him.. He could do wayy better. He is really hott and a lopt of girls at our school like him. Well his girlfriend isn't right for him cuz she always has an aditude*. She yells at him to do things. I just don't like her in general. Now some people think I am jealous. But I never liked her before they were going out. I have to admit I think I am a little jealous. But like I can't tell him she isn't right for him. He is happy.. I think. But I just wish I could help him. Last year I know he liked me a little bit..or no he said he didn't know if he liked me. But he never asked meout or what ever.
Do you know how I can break them up? It would be better for him... I am just looking out for a friend. =]
2007-10-21 04:14:45 · 23 answers · asked by Unknown. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should talk to him and let him know exactly what this question says.
if he agrees with you let him make the choice to break up with her.
there has to be a reason they are going out.
maybe she is pretty, and he likes that
or maybe she has a nice personality, minus the attitude.
sometimes guys like attitude.
but if you really want to break them up, get his girlfriend to break up with him so you can be on rebound.
tell his girlfriend he is using her or something, just get her pissed at him.
you can actually tell him she is using him and tell her he is using her.
but things always backfire.
so be careful.
unless you wanna get someone to do it for you.
2007-10-21 04:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't really think you are just looking out for a friend. I think you are being very selfish. How would you like it if someone did that to you? What is wrong with you girls. Why can't you find someone who isn't already attached. You know there are a lot of single guys out there. Is it the challenge? Because if thats it then if you do succeed in breaking them up the challange is gone and then you want even want him anymore. Come on grow up a little.
2007-10-21 04:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Schoolgirl504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you would like a try at a relationship with this guy, should he and his girlfriend break-up. Just keep this in mind, "the way you get a man, can be the way you lose him". I always say if a man is willing to end a relationship for you, that means he's susceptible for another woman to steal him from you as well. Because that's in his character. So, do you really want a guy that is capable of doing that?? I say let him see the light himself, and choose what he wants. You don't want a relationship to start based on such a negative start. And you don't want the drama that will come with that either.
2007-10-21 04:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by KN21212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT break them up. It's immature, rude, mean, etc. Consider his feelings in the matter. If he likes her and wants to be with her, that's his decision. People need to learn the hard way when they do these things. If she's not right for him, they'll know soon enough. Also, how old are you? Most pre-20s relationships don't last anyways. So don't worry about it. Things will go the way they're meant to be. And even though you like him, keep an open mind. Love pops up mostly when you're not looking for it.
2007-10-21 04:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dizzler9347598 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going no place for you, say away from both and find a new object of your interest and affection.
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2007-10-21 04:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant break him up, if you bad mouth his g-friend it will push you to away, and bring them closer, I have a brother i hate his girlfriend she is a tart ( not over exaggerating) and i would do anything to see her go but the more we tell him to get rid of her the more he clings, I think its a male pride thing.
They'd never admit to a girl having the upper hand.
Maybe just let it run its course and hopefully he wil come around.
2007-10-21 04:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't break people apart. that boy is old enough to decide for himself. If he doesn't like the girl, he can break up with her. Otherwise, no matter what you think of her, if he likes her, he should stay with her, and you need to deal with this.
2007-10-21 04:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound any better than his current gf if you are mean enough to want to break up the relationship of one of your "best friends." I hate to think what you would do to someone you don't like.
It's not your place to decide who is best for him. That's his choice.
2007-10-21 04:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, this is like total deja vu.... Same thing happened to me, except he was only going out with her on a bet... Anyway, ask him if he likes her, and kind of suttley ask him to break up with her by giving hints like "have u broken up yet" Maybe he likes her, meaning he doesen't like you making breaking them up pointless
2007-10-21 04:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by sickelsie3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it. you just think you're better because you're in love with him and by consequence want this girl (whom you probably don't like) out of the picture. well bummer, but it's his decision and if he's happy with her let them be.
if he wanted to be with you, he wouldn't be as happy with his girlfriend. sorry. but there are plenty more nice guys out there
2007-10-21 04:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋