This is a disappointing discovery in a new relationship, and Iwonder how many couples face the prospect of a man needing manual manipulation because he cannot seem to "get there" inside a woman. Is this part of middle age?
2007-10-21 03:34:04 · 17 answers · asked by Yenelli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The relationship is new for him too, so these kinks still need time to work themselves out. He's been single, so manual stimulation has been his only way for awhile. Be patient, and as the intimacy grows, the sex will improve and feel comfortable for both of you.
2007-10-21 04:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I'd have to say that this hasn't ever been a problem at this end. Maybe sometimes just for variety alittle manual manipulation by both parties can certainally be fun but not on a regular basis.
2007-10-21 10:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, especially when the man has brought the woman to orgasm and then may feel that it is "over" for her. I kow it is disappointing for the woman, but that's not something men can very well control. I would be patient about it; once your partner and you have become more comfortable with each other he may well be able to "let go" inside you.
2007-10-21 10:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by cyranonew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if it has anything to do with middle age. We are in our 40's and seem to have no problem. My husband does like to pull out and finish manually once in a while. I think he just likes to do it cause its like what they do in porn movies.
2007-10-21 10:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Girly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never happened to me with anyone...my current partner is always happy to be in when he is getting there..but there are time where he wants to get out quick and go somewhere on my body, which i usually turn down cause i find that disrespectful to me in a way, but i think that is just the kinkyness inside of him not so much him needing to finsih manually,....Good luck!
2007-10-21 11:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes. It is not part of middle age that I am aware of. Perhaps he is not getting enough stimulation while inside. You can work with that, but I would ask him what the deal is. It is odd.
2007-10-21 10:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would only happen if I didn't want to be inside that woman. No way, maybe he is really gay. Go out and buy a man mask and see if it likes it doggie.
2007-10-21 23:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does not sound normal. He should be able just like you to find some postions or ways that are more stimulating than others.
2007-10-21 10:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle age. Or prescription drugs can sometimes be the cause.
2007-10-21 11:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by csiders30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't part of middle age. This is something specific to your man.
2007-10-21 10:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋