Why is it people always blame for woman if a guy has an affair(this has nothing to do with me,I've just noticed this)?
For example:Rebecca Loos,EVERYONE blamed her for having an affair with David Beckham,but hardly anyone blamed HIM(of course they were both in the wrong,but without him saying yes to Rebecca the affair could not have taken place).
Some people even layed the blame on Victoria Beckham for not being a good enough wife.
Why do people do this???
2007-10-21 03:54:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not sure either.....it sure bugs me...because nobody held a gun to the guys head to go out and cheat....and isn't ridiculous that a woman can sue the mistress in some states for "Alienation of Affection" when her husband has an affair? Instead of putting the blame where it really belongs...On the cheating spouse who CHOSE to step out of the marriage.....
2007-10-21 04:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It happens with every president to some extent but Bush has just been totally lambasted with blame. Most people don't realize or care to realize that most of his decisions have to be approved by congress and that the economy is so linked to the rest of the world and oil in particular, that he has very little control over economic happenings. He has done as much as a president can do to try and make the economy better. Only a rotten SOB would blame any president for something as horrible as 9/11.
2016-05-24 00:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by aline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its both ways. From the start of creation, when the sin in the garden of Eden occured, the Lord asked Adam what happened, Adam pointed to Eve saying she did it, Eve pointed to the Serpent and blamed him. From that day until now our human nature will always cause us to point to anything and anyone outside of ourselves. People rarely will blame themselves. When a man cheats he'll say its because she wasn't satifying him as she should or as he wanted. When a woman cheats she'll say he wasn't treating her right and he was ignoring her and such, thus she'll found what she wanted in another man. So that seems to continue as the clock ticks by with nothing ever having changed.
2007-10-21 07:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by Housecat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Victoria Beckham is a monument for silicon. WOW.
Dont know why. I have always seen it the other way around. Of course it takes two to tango. I think the guys blame guys and women blame the women. Of course, guys dont really talk about stuff like that. "Oh yeah, he was bangin' so and so, but did you see the yankees last night dude???"
2007-10-21 04:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by BirdogsID 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because they think they know the person they're with better then that and it's not possible for them to really cheat - so they blame the "other" woman because it's just easier and helps them through it.
But I agree - whoever did the cheating should be at fault, the other person is not to blame!
2007-10-21 04:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature to put the blame on the easiest and most vulnerable person around and in our society thats usually the closest female figure
2007-10-21 04:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are frusterated Farmers ... all looking for a hoe to plow and plant seeds .... I guess they assume the garden at home is Fenced off .....
or ... Not !
2007-10-21 04:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well because men always seem to get out of trouble. no one ever looks at there wrongs. its just how it is men r lil babies and women have to handle everything.
2007-10-21 03:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by kelly p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋