To feel such a strong attraction to someone you work with who you barely know? He shared a couple of deep coversations with me. One day he brought some frieght up to me and just stopped in front of me and we starrred into each others eyes. I said thank you and we both walked away. I feel like the feeling is mutual and I gave him my number and asked him out for coffee he said, "yes".
2007-10-21 02:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by CuriousChick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I must add it is not just the attraction those first two conversations...I felt such a connection with him I almost felt like crying it was a feeling I don't recall ever having before... it was deep.
2007-10-21 02:53:42 · update #1
I'm 26 years old will 27 in march..I thought I was in love once before but I think I was to young to know better. That is why I have a hard time understanding this unfamilar feeling...
2007-10-21 02:58:09 · update #2
Normal? Yes, that's how love starts. Some people call it "love at first sight".
2007-10-21 02:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, it's fairly common to be attracted to a coworker. After all, think of how frequently you see them as opposed to other people in your life (outside of work).
Just remember there are challenges/issues that co-worker relationships have that others do not...getting into a spat or breaking up can make work a tortuous place to be if you have to work around that person. Don't let your personal life negatively affect your career...otherwise, have fun!
2007-10-21 02:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not always a good idea but it's not only normal....it's very common too. Just remember, if the "relationship" doesn't work out....you'll have to deal with that in a working atmosphere. That's where the problems occur.
2007-10-21 02:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's normal. You're going through the initial stages of a relationship. Give it some time to get to know him better before moving too fast.
2007-10-21 02:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ron H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations.
I don't know why you asked if this was normal. People do it all the time. Hope the fantasy you are creating in your head is close to the real deal; he's not married, living with his "woman" and their children, or his mama.
Good luck.
2007-10-21 02:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and it is a wonderful feeling if it is mutual. You didn't say if he had called you yet. Hopefully, things will get going for the two of you soon. We don't have this feeling everyday so go for it.
2007-10-21 02:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful. Office romances can be a problem. Some workplaces do not allow them. If it doesn't work out it could be very uncomfortable and awkward.
2007-10-21 02:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. People we work with we are exposed to everyday. What a great way to meet someone to go out with.
2007-10-21 02:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by mrliteman001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's called love at first sight girl
2007-10-21 02:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by flirtyloverme 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perfectly normal... just be aware that there's more to a relationship than JUST physical attraction.
Have fun! :D
2007-10-21 02:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋