okay, a couple days ago i went somewhere with a friend that NO ONE would expect me to hang out with. i saw people i knew and they were like completely shocked. i know they are going to tell people and this is going to turn into a big deal when its not. what should i do?
2007-10-21 02:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by Megan Cardwell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh- and the people i saw arent my friends. i just know them.
2007-10-21 02:36:44 · update #1
Who in the world do you hang out with who would make a "big deal" out of who your friends are?
You need to start hanging out with a better group of people.
2007-10-21 02:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hanging out with ur friend is not a big deal to worry but the first thing u need to be careful is to take ur parents in ur confidence.
To do so you can call your friend at your home and let him spend some time with ur family this will bring ur friend close to ur family and there will be no problems in hanging out with him anywhere.
After ur family comes ur other friends. Introduce ur friend to as much of ur friend as u can. The bottom line is all ur friends should be connected no personalization in friendship.
The rest is an easy job, hangout with him/her and also combine other friends together and see that people who know u can see both of u in that group of friends this will make an impression to them that u are JUST FRIENDS
2007-10-21 09:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sushmit M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rumors? It happened to me before too. I was just talking with a friend of mine and they are making it a big deal of it. You won't need to bother with them, you are yourself, not them, you can make friends or hangout with anyone you would like to, they just have nothing to do, so they just make everything they see a big deal about it. If they ask you anything about it, don't explain it to them, its just wasting your time, the only way is to ignore them. Once they are bored of it, they won't fuss about it again.
2007-10-21 09:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~Sieg~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about the other people. It is their problem to be like that. It is your choice as to who you want to be friends with.
2007-10-21 09:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so...who cares? just be like, yeah we were hanging out. Trust me. You've got to value your friendships, but who knows what could happen?
2007-10-21 09:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by JellybeanQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it. if you like the person then hang out with them as much as you want. it's about you not them. just don't sweat the small stuff.
2007-10-21 09:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋