well, this friend of mine shes married, really love her hubby but there's a time that she fells inloved with someone... you think my friend is a bad person? is it really wrong to fall inlove with two person?
2007-10-21 04:58:09 · 3 answers · asked by PiE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course it's wrong, but it happens. She's not the first and she won't be the last. She's got to make a choice.
2007-10-21 05:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Don 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is in degrees. you don't love a child or parent as you would a spouse but you love and get into a relationship in order to experience the results of that love - companionship, someone to experience life with, someone to talk and share thoughts with, and so on, and. If a person thinks they love two people, both of those loves are lacking whatever it takes to make one of those love connections perfect so that the other is not a temptation.
I don't think you can experience the greatest degree of love with two people any more than you can wear two pair of shoes at the same time. you pick what feels the best and the other sits in the closet or is even given away to someone who can make better use of it, and enjoy what you have.
2007-10-21 05:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is wrong to do this, but it does not necessarily mean she is a bad person.
Usually a woman cheats because she is missing something emotionally in her marriage. Try not to judge her too harshly, and be there for her when it falls apart.
2007-10-21 05:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋