okay. i was hanging out yesterday with this boy i like. and he likes me too. but were not going out. anyway. i really like him. and he wanted to make out. but i have never made out before so i just told him right now wasnt a good time. well i think he thinks i dotn really like him. thats not it. i really do like him. so im nervouse bc i have never made out before. so i dont know what to do. i feel really bad right now and i dont know why.
do you think i should just kiss him and it will come natrually or should i tell him i have never made out before. i really need help. please.
2007-10-21 04:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by Kimberly R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way. im fourteen about to be 15 in a few months. and he turned 15 today.
2007-10-21 04:47:54 · update #1
You simply are not ready yet. What you told him, was the proper thing to say. Stick to it! Don't feel bad about it at all. He will just have to understand and get over it, that is to say if you want to continue being friends.
2007-10-21 04:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to rush into anything if it doesnt feel right. But, if you do want to kiss him it will come naturally. I was so nervous when I had my first kiss, I was so worried I wouldnt know what to do but it came so naturally, just like every one had said it would. Maybe you should tell him that you havent made out before and then he wont think you dont like him and be a bit more understanding. But dont let anyone, including your boyfriend, push you into anything you dont want to do.
2007-10-21 12:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Natz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like maybe he has the experience in the making out department, so just tell him you're new at this and let him take the lead in the kissing department. You'll catch on soon. But don't let the making out get too far and just assume that's all there is to it. He may try getting into heavy petting and feeling too if you let him and don't want to do so. So you may want to tell him early on, that kissing and hugging is as far as it goes.
2007-10-21 11:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most likely he hasn't made out a lot and if so he's prob not that great anyway just say u weren't very ready and if u really want to be honest talk to him about it but u don't have to do that if u don't want to
u're just starting out w/ relationships don't worry everyone feels this way
2007-10-21 11:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by sweettea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to prove anything to a boy. You are who you are and if he doesn't like waiting, then he isn't the guy for you. Why should you make out with a guy you have no commitment with?
2007-10-21 11:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just kiss him and just let it flow...dont tell him that u dont know what u are doing! take it slow and everything will eb fine...im sure he isnt some kind of expert either!
2007-10-21 11:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you could perhaps tell him, if it will make you feel better, but if you dont want him to know, then dont tell him, he'll never know.
just go for it, trust me it will come natural, just enjoy it
xx
2007-10-21 11:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to kiss yes if i were u id make out!! u might be nervous but its fun!!
2007-10-21 11:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do the running after.
2007-10-21 11:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋