I'm his first gf, so he might not have a lot of experience of how to be a good bf. But It's been forever since he called me, the last tie he called was in August and it was on my b-day. But He hasn't asked me out on a date since June. That was our first date, and we've never had a second one. I know, I'm his first gf, but I just keep have this feeling that I should break up with him, because he isn't meeting my needs. What should I do, should I wait a little longer and tell im what he's doing wrong, or should I just break up with him next week??
2007-10-21 05:21:44 · 17 answers · asked by Mystify 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. We've been together for 4 months and 2 weeks.
2007-10-21 05:22:18 · update #1
Wait...he doesn't call, you guys don't go on dates, essentially do nothing at all and yet you're calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend? Uh, how about NO.
Move on. It isn't about meeting needs. It's about companionship and enjoying each other's company which you're not doing. You're a big girl, do things for yourself and by yourself. You don't need a boyfriend to have fun. Live life on your terms, not anyone else's.
2007-10-21 05:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start going out with others and if he says anything tell him that he should have called you. I don't know your age but I assume you are young if you were his first gf so you may have to date many others before you find the right one but don't be in a hurry or go too fast because you have a long life ahead of you and it should be enjoyed one day at a time.
2007-10-21 05:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 13:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you have a b/f? my friend went through the same thing and took a month to realize it was better to just leave him. Guys can use the I've never had a g/f as an excuse. If he is really in to you he would of called by now. And usualy with my experience people going out it take more than one to figure out their going out steady.
2007-10-21 05:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Hey Ya'll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a general rule of thumb we follow, we date our women twice a month. If you haven't gotten together since June, you have a problem.
2007-10-21 05:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by nitemareslayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u sure u guys r going out.....I mean if u were is gulfriends he would have definalty showed up very often. I guess u better talk to him straight and c whats happening with u guys, cuz ireally don''t c any relationship over here! Sorry!
2007-10-21 05:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like the guy take the initiative and ask him out on a date for once
if you're not really interested anymore then yes break up with him.
2007-10-21 05:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him because if you end it with him then he might do the same in the next relationship he has with another girl but he'll not know what hes doing wrong unless someone tells him.hope everything works out :)
2007-10-21 05:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain you expectations to him. Yes, you should tell him what he's doing is wrong and what he should do. I think that would be a real you. Good Times with your bf.
2007-10-21 05:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
u should tell him its time for u 2 to go a diff way
hes not a good bf
plz move on
u guys wont be happy
plz...
2007-10-21 05:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by kazi i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋