Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

He has a gf but he acts like he wants me to be his gf, you know when a guy likes you and wants you all to himself thats how he acts... I tryed to not talk to him but if i sees me he will talk to me no matter what... were good friends and hes always there to help me... but hes a little too nice like to the point where it will make a girl question if he does like her?... and thing is he is the one who came and talked to me ... i hardly see him with his gf.. ? his friend even was like to him dont you have a gf? and he was like so i dont care bout her... somethin like that...... its just all really strange.. i would say that i like him but i am starting to not.. because of his lack of respect for his gf... but hes just so damn fine lol... anyways what do you think of all this.. ?

ALso he started dating her before he knew me.. and now that he met me i think.. that he startin to like me... but he doesnt want to hurt her cause he been with her before he knew me?.. so i dunno....

2007-10-04 02:31:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married, but ever since before i was ever married, I have this thing where if i get drunk and go to a club, I dirty dance and kiss my girlfriends. My husband has seen it happen. I know he doesn't really like it.........

is it cheating?

2007-10-04 02:29:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Awhile back(About two years ago)my sister got taken away from my mother. I don't really know the complete story, and it's long and saddening but all I want to know is how I would be going about contacting or even just telephoning her.

I am her oldest brother, I have no criminal record, and I live with my mom. If there is a way I can get her back, please post that too(I know it might be hard because you don't know what happened, but post anything helpful). If you have any questions just ask and I'll update the question promptly.

2007-10-04 02:28:25 · 3 answers · asked by pilvlpway21337 2 in Family

When we got in a heated argument he started saying how I am ugly, I look like a pimple face, skinny crackhead. He said that he can pull off any haircut (referring that he looks good) and I cannot. He said that people have told him he is “prettier” then me even though he’s the guy. He said I am scraggly. And the crazy part is-I do have low-esteem but I know I am not that bad. Everyone else around me says the exact opposite of what he said then. I DID say things to him back b/c I was hurt. Afterward when we are no longer mad, he will say he didn’t mean those things-he just wanted to get to me. But if this is the case-why does he say these same things about me every time he is mad??? I don’t get it.

2007-10-04 02:24:56 · 20 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 02:24:53 · 28 answers · asked by alison412305 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 02:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you have followed my sad saga you know that my wife of 5 yrs. who managed her illness and I had a great marriage. My stepson got in trouble all the time, drugs, arrests, underage drinking etc. I tried to set boundaries but my wife felt that she could help him if it was one on one in an apartment so she moved out to help him. We were still together for 5 mos. and then she quit her meds. [doctor told me]. I did all I could to get her back on but she enjoys the mania. Then 3 mos ago she started an affair with a real lowlife who sees she is vulnerable. I gave her divorce papers she wanted. Now I am heartsick and wish I could have a miracle. It hurts me to my soul that this woman who I felt was my soulmate is like talking to a stranger now. Its a helpless ,hollow feeling. I wish I could just let it go but the Love I have for her just wont let me rest. I know shes ill but I cant live like this any advice appreciated.

2007-10-04 02:20:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

keep on falling in love with him and devote myself to him knowing that he did all these all awful things ?
1. He was with 500 sex sex slaves when he lived in Russia.
2. He seduced 2000 other young college women, approximately 4 a week.
3. He fought other men just for the fun of it, one time he even hit a man in the head with a sledgehammer.
4. He went to many, many strip clubs, porn and still talks about women in a suggestive manner.
How do I deal with his past ? How do I quit thinking about it ? Now he is born again, he is devoted to me, but the sex slavery part really bothers me because those women in eastern Russia didn't have a choice...........I know he also has a hard time dealing with what he did.

2007-10-04 02:19:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night i went to back to school night at my former high school(i now attend college). I just went to see old teachers, friends and that sort of stuff. Anyways I was talking to my former math teacher who i am very close to and she made me realize that i need to get away from the things at high school and start gettin involved at my college. Thing is with my busy schedual with my classes then going to work, I dont have any time to join extra activities to try to get to know other people. I really want to start getting my mind in college but its hard to let the past go. I really dont know what to do its verry hard for me to do this sort of thing. I am the kind of person who is laid back and does what she has to do in life. Thats really the way i was brought up, but im also the shy type. I dont know. When I talk to my friends about it they really dont seem to understand. All they do is agree. I just need someone to get me through this. Im afraid to ask for help because im afraid to be classified as someone who is juvinille or immatture. I dont know if this is making any sense but this is whats going on and I need some help.

2007-10-04 02:16:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy online, we've been chatting, we basically know each other's life stories, there is a connection. We have been talking since the end of august, havent met yet, havent talked on the phone either. He seems to good to be true, he tells me the same. I recently found out that he had also been chatting with a friend of mine he met on a similar website! I guess my friend hadnt been talking to him much, and when he found out he asked her a lot about me, said he thought he was in love, etc. She told him well then you two should meet, he said, well that's an understatment.she said, well do it then, he said, well will. SO...why isnt he wanting to meet up? Am i being a fool? Oh yeah his myspace is all women, but he has deleted a few of the people i asked him too

2007-10-04 02:14:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 02:14:22 · 15 answers · asked by Y ask ME! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why is my boyfriend stubborn and does what is right for him why is he a BASTARDDDDDD

2007-10-04 02:12:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated him 10 years ago. He contact me back in 2005 and informed me he was married. I backed off but he kept trying to contact me. March 2007 we began talking again and he says that he and his wife are seperated now. I don't believe him because sometimes he disappears and only text message me. We been having sex and I've fallen in love with him also. He says he wants to marry me and been trying to get me pregnant. He and the wife never had kids and I don't neither. Things were sounding good at first but i just feel that he hasn't been honest about his wife. How can I break it off with him?

2007-10-04 02:11:13 · 19 answers · asked by ms rainbow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i just answered a question about a woman who came to the USA only to marry a guy. My question is: Is this normal are there a lot of women from other countries who are coming here to marry guy and how many of these ladies are being left by their men after getting here. Help me understand this.

Please respond if you are or have friends who have done this or in this situation

2007-10-04 02:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by purejc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

don't worry she's legal and i'm not over the hill yet. it just happen like 10 min ago...my daugther had early morning class in college anyways she's still butt naked in my bed......oh crap! my wife.......i better clean the sheets up too. anyways should i tell this girl to keep it a secret? do you think she will? i'm in trouble aren't I?

2007-10-04 02:09:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i asked my ex boyfriend if he still loves me.. (cause i know i still do).. he just told me that he loves talking to me.. and that his answer to my question was: "i don't wanna say no, and i don't wanna say yes.." that's just how he feels.. btw, we were in a long distance relationship..

but when we talk, he seems to be funny and all that.. he tends to give me his full attention..

what does that mean?? HELP!!

2007-10-04 02:09:16 · 15 answers · asked by ღஐ Lacey ஐღ 2 in Singles & Dating

see me and my boyfriend keep fighting and he says hes not changing but we used to be so close talk and laugh about everything but as soon as school started back he just up and changed i love mr. damin curry with all my heart and every body keeps telling me to just leave him but its not that easy i love him to much to let go...he keeps hurting me and i havent seen him in a month yet all his friends see him everyweekend and he lives on 128 and i live on 146 and we still never see eachother and his friends live all the way across town yet they see eachother ever weekend..i love him so much but honestly i dont feel as if the spark that once lit the flame is still there i try to talk to him about it but he wont listen...so help me out is it time to let go?

2007-10-04 02:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by alwayslovely3 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughters father and i arent together and recently i have been having trouble with his family, mainly his mother, she has called me non stop and made comments to people that i neglect my child just despite me. she knows this is not true and i know that she knows it she is just angry and being childish. they have not given me any financial support nor have they been there for me emotianally through this. they have bashed me constantly and now they wonder why i wont let emma stay w them on the weekends. i am wanting to write them a letter, being very nice and just basically telling them until they help support her financially they will be able to see her and in order for them to get respect u must give respect.

2007-10-04 02:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by emma_love 2 in Family

I was just curious if this is the norm. I looked at other questions and it seems to be, plus I asked my parents and talked to my friends. I've been in college since the end of August and my roommate is really nice. But we barely talk anymore. We were really close the first and second night we moved in together, but now it seems to have gotten so much more quieter. Plus, I feel like she is always eying me and being curious about what I am doing when I am minding my own business at my desk and my side of the room.
I talked to her about it and told her I was shy and I just run out of things to say and she said it was okay and that she had been really busy lately. But whenever I tried to bond with her, she always bails on me. Like, I figured we'd watch Desperate Housewives together when it premiered and she left. So the next day I just told her that Edie didn't die and she got all weird like, "Don't tell me! *Laugh* I haven't watched it yet!"

2007-10-04 02:07:44 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

I ask this because I went to a Velvet Revolver concert last night and I noticed that the crowd (which included LOTS of ppl under 30) went apeshitz when they played Ol' Guns N Roses songs...The GNR songs got more response then the VR songs

2007-10-04 02:06:34 · 8 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Singles & Dating

why do u think it is easier to tell people u don't know ur secrets or past than some one u know?

2007-10-04 02:03:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you date a girl if she refused to have sex before marriage?

2007-10-04 02:02:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my husband 3 years ago due to his cheating and drinking. I since started living with my boyfriend (yeah I know I'm an idiot) but, when we first started dating things seemed great until I found out he masterbated all the time and now it has ruined our sex relationship. I don't think having sex once every month or two months is very healthy for a lasting relationship. Does anyone agree or am I just being stupid. Sometimes he makes me feel like I am not good enough or something. He is a great guy but I don't know what to do to get him to want me sexually. I have tried and I don't complain about it. I feel complaining could make things worse. I have (for the past few days) been sleeping on the couch and he woke me up this morning saying, how do you expect us to have sex when you sleep on the couch. My responce was we don't have sex anyway. Then he comes off with it takes two. I don't understand this because I give alot in this relationship. Together 2 years and it hurts. Any advice

2007-10-04 02:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by cutiepie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 02:01:55 · 15 answers · asked by bud 1 in Singles & Dating

the usual cake bags. I am sure I saw taxedo and wedding dress cake bags but have searched everywhere and can't find them now. Can anyone HelP!!! need to find them.

2007-10-04 02:00:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when me and my boyfriend get loved up hugging and that kissing watchin telly he gets turned on and he said its because he loves me? should i believe him imnot sure?

2007-10-04 01:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing my boyfriend for only about a month. But lately, he's been a bit distant with me. This got me thinking and it occurred to me that throughout the 'relationship' he's only ever phoned me once and the only time he texts me is if I text him first. It's also the case that if we're going to see each other I have to make the effort to go and visit him - he's actually only bothered coming to see me once... Every time we speak lately, he's just really non-committal and sounds distracted, I know he has a busy social life (he's in 2 bands) but it just feels like he doesn't have time for me - or when he does I should act really grateful that he's found a window in his calendar!

I wonder if he's distancing himself because he just can't be bothered with the relationship? (Though, surprise, surprise, sex is something he seems to find time for...)

2007-10-04 01:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Volcano Grrl (aka Emby) 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a big problem...lately, I haven't been able to get my ex-boyfriend out of my head. I "see" him everywhere I go, think of him all the time, and even daydream about him when my husband and I have sex!!!! I haven't dated this guy in over 7 years. We did have a pretty nasty breakup, but we're friends now...although we don't get the chance to talk much.

I love my husband dearly...I feel so guilty for feeling like this...what can I do??

2007-10-04 01:55:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 01:55:12 · 15 answers · asked by that_chic_at_da_beach_xoxo 1 in Singles & Dating

Right, there's this woman you've known and liked for a while. Finally after months of flirting, you go out and have a great time and she kisses you. All good so far. She returns to her city...far from where you live and you chat few days later..she wants to meet up but you're pensive and no decision is made . Then YOU contact her few days later but dont mention meeting up or the kiss. Its very friendly thought and she's not asking to meet you or coming on strong. Say you're a very laid back man..what is the meaning of this behaviour. Does it mean you only want her as a friend or you're trying to digest the new status of your relationship? Do you have feelings for her?

2007-10-04 01:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by this girl wants to know 1 in Singles & Dating