i asked my ex boyfriend if he still loves me.. (cause i know i still do).. he just told me that he loves talking to me.. and that his answer to my question was: "i don't wanna say no, and i don't wanna say yes.." that's just how he feels.. btw, we were in a long distance relationship..
but when we talk, he seems to be funny and all that.. he tends to give me his full attention..
what does that mean?? HELP!!
2007-10-04 02:09:16 · 15 answers · asked by ღஐ Lacey ஐღ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a difference between loving someone, and BEING IN love with someone. It sounds like he loves you, but not the way you want him to, or the way you love him back. If he truly loved you, why wouldn't he just say YES?
2007-10-04 02:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Elle C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't really say for sure unless I know why you broke up and stuff... But here goes:
Possibility one: He is still in love with you but is not sure about his feelings since you broke up. If you were in a long distance relationship, it is even more so, coz you can't really forget but it's not the same if you aren't together in person.
Possibility two: He no longer loves you but doesn't wanna say no coz he dozn wanna hurt ur feelings.
2007-10-04 09:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Riza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think i know what this means because i have said something like this before. he may still love you but doesnt want to say he does love you because either he is with someone else or he just isnt ready to be with you again. and he doesnt want to say he doesnt love you because he doesnt want you out of his life. he is afraid that if he says no then you will be like "well forget you then" and u will find someone else. which i dont think he wants you to be with someone else.
2007-10-04 09:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be happy that he still likes you enough to keep you around as a friend. Not everyone is that fortunate. Don't rock the boat, otherwise you'll lose the friendship too!
2007-10-04 09:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Smurfette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
I have been dumped and left behind for stupid reasons...and here you are all stuck on a guy who obviously doesn't give you the correct time of day.
2007-10-04 09:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still cares but not in love anymore . He doenst want to make a commitment . To me thats what it sounds like .Sorta keeping you on his check list .
2007-10-04 09:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. even i am too kinda into same sort of trouble...
but i felt i could help you...!
when he says yes and also no.. he just wants to be a good friend to you thats it.. and doesn want to be in a relationship may be....
even i am in the same kind of dilemna.. even i had posted s Q similar to this..
my advise to you is.. dont be in a hurry... be his good friend and then work out.. good luck buddy..
2007-10-04 09:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by akash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry ,but its over.he trying to say it like this,so you will give up and maybe he doesnt want to hurt your feelings more.Just stop with the chats,leave it alone for a week,and see if he contacts you..Is he seeing anyone else or are his mates more important.just leave it alone for a bit..
2007-10-04 09:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by shrebee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he doesnt. Keep him as a friend and move on. You are going to be big time hurt. he might as well said No as he means No.
2007-10-04 09:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably make him feel good and take up time when he's bored. KICK HIM TO THE CURB...find someone who can hold you, kiss you on a daily, hourly basis if possible...
Girlfriend he's no good for you:)
2007-10-04 09:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋