He has a gf but he acts like he wants me to be his gf, you know when a guy likes you and wants you all to himself thats how he acts... I tryed to not talk to him but if i sees me he will talk to me no matter what... were good friends and hes always there to help me... but hes a little too nice like to the point where it will make a girl question if he does like her?... and thing is he is the one who came and talked to me ... i hardly see him with his gf.. ? his friend even was like to him dont you have a gf? and he was like so i dont care bout her... somethin like that...... its just all really strange.. i would say that i like him but i am starting to not.. because of his lack of respect for his gf... but hes just so damn fine lol... anyways what do you think of all this.. ?
ALso he started dating her before he knew me.. and now that he met me i think.. that he startin to like me... but he doesnt want to hurt her cause he been with her before he knew me?.. so i dunno....
2007-10-04 02:31:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either way...he's got a girlfriend, but looking at you. That says a few things...
1. He's shallow.
2. He is a player.
3. If he got with you, how long before he "looked" at someone else?
Are you going to be able to trust a guy who has a girl, and acts like he wants to be with you? Just think about that because if he is doing it to this girl, more than likely he'll do it to you. But it's your life.
2007-10-04 02:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal he probably does like you, but the big problem is his lack of loyalty. Say he does leave her for you what is to stop him from leaving you for another person? Do you want a relationship where you are always going to be wondering where he is who he is with or who he could be meeting that just might interest him more then you? Because believe me no matter how secure you are you will wonder these things when he is out. I think you should try to find a good decent FINE man who knows how to be faithful and never would disrespect his lady by saying he doesn't care about her in front of his friends....Good luck
2007-10-04 09:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kristie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Right now I wouldn't be worried about who he likes more. I would be more worried about the fact that if you do link up with this slime ball, how long will it take before he's feeling up some other chick. He obviously doesn't care about the fact that he's in a relationship, and what exactly makes you think that he would care if he was in a relationship with you?
Next time he acts like that, stand up like a real woman and tell him that you don't like guys who can't settle for one woman's love, and that as long as he's dating someone else you're not interested. Did you really picture yourself as becoming the "other woman"? YUCK!
2007-10-04 09:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I know is he IS after you. My advice though is he needs to make a choice. If he wants to be with you he needs to make it known to his gf. Don't let him play you by saying he's getting ready to leave her. I went through all that and it really wasn't worth it in the end. Sorry to my fellas out there, I can hear all the BOOOOO's from here. Like I heard one time before, a true playa will let you he has a gf / wife, if she still wants you after that at least there ain't no hiding.
2007-10-04 09:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by SGT in Elgin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He really ought to break up with her before he acts like this with you. If you are all adults, I would say he is a serial cheater, and you need to forget it. If you are still in high school, I will say, he's looking around and that is fine, but he still needs to break up with the other girl first. Not to do so is just not playing fair. BTW, some guys really like to have two girls in competition for him, and do stuff like this on purpose.
2007-10-04 09:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be interested in a guy that would go after another girl? He will just do the same thing to you. Sounds like he might have an ego problem.
2007-10-04 09:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right in the respect that he obviously has no respect for his gf, would he treat u the same when the next girl came along?
But saying that - he could genuinely like you.......jus be prepared for it to happen x
2007-10-04 09:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him about his girlfriend. This might get him thinking about her & you & he may realise what hes been doing. I dont necessarily think he will treat you like this or treat her bad but i defiedently think hes interested. Things may be going bad with them which is why he isnt that interested. Have a chat to him & see where things go
2007-10-04 09:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound Like to me He Want Two girlfriends if that the case? then you know what to do? Right? Move On!
2007-10-04 09:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Afro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it..because the next person he will be doing it to will be you..guys like this just enjoy the conquest and then move on.find a nice unattached guy.
2007-10-04 09:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by anslk6944 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋