Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

...ok you are dating someone each day...and how do you realize that you are in love...?

2007-10-04 03:25:09 · 17 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 03:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you find out that someone you have loved and trusted and treated as a "close" friend" for YEARS, has been talking chit about you the whole time you "thought" you were friends? This person is a family member. Someone I see on a regular basis.

2007-10-04 03:22:00 · 11 answers · asked by darlene_tassone1971 2 in Friends

2007-10-04 03:18:55 · 13 answers · asked by ki-ki 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a counselor supposed to do with a 6-7 year old in the room?

They only play she doesn't seem to ask him questions or anything is that okay? or should i change counselors

2007-10-04 03:18:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

.....does it make you feel sexy or is it pride, do you do it for your man or yourself.........is it the trend to have a fully bald *****

2007-10-04 03:16:10 · 32 answers · asked by tezz 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 03:14:21 · 24 answers · asked by J S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife cheated if i divorce her who will get house? we have children.....if shes cheated then she should go and i keep house??

2007-10-04 03:13:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I chat with someone I think I just get so caught up in how cute I am. I am so funny and just love making people laugh and want people to like me. I think I have more to offer then most girls like having that validated. The problem is I when I talk to someone of the opposite sex I end up liking myself more and not them. (I sound like I'm so into myself which isn't the case: I think it's just cause I don't hang around with very many people). I get hung up in the thrill and think I could end up leading them on. I want to have a relationship in the near future with someone but I feel this could get in the way as to were I could never truly like someone.

How do I stop this before it get's worse?

Please be kind in your answers as I am trying to fix the problem before it errupts into something huge proportions.

2007-10-04 03:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

loss of job, bankruptcy, theft, taxes, divorce.....and how did you get through it?

2007-10-04 03:11:53 · 27 answers · asked by georgeygirl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my x wife is not happy when it comes to the time i spend with my son. he is 10 years old . we have been divorced for a year or so it is and i cant understand what her problem is when we did the big D . I walk away from the house but stilled payed the billes for 3 mos and she had her boyfriend living with her at the sametime . i know im dumb but now all out the blue she wont to keep my son away from me from time to time and it wears me out . Why cant she just stop being a ***** and go on with life

2007-10-04 03:09:38 · 22 answers · asked by clifton f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mother in law has moved in with me and my husband.the plan was she has half the bottom of the house as aself contained unit,bedroom,living room,bathroom,small kitchenette.but she is driving me mad! she walks in and out of my house when she likes and if i dont agree with something she thinks is a good idea she goes behind my back to my husband.that can be anything from getting a shed to solar power!!at the moment she is in germany visiting her daughter and we had agreed that her friend and her friends husband could atay in her bit of the house for 1 week as they are looking to buy a house nearby.but that has now turned into 4 different times,with them arriving again tomorrow to stay until wed! Also she has e-mailed to say her,her daughter,her 4 grandchildren and her daughters friend will all be arriving wed to stay until the weekend.which means i have to put my 7 year old son in with me and my husband so they can have his room.am i right to feel put out?

2007-10-04 03:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by min m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We now do not know what to do. Are we married? Do we need to do anything?help

2007-10-04 03:08:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just because the individual has done this before, with an unloaded shotgun, and didn't really mean anything with the "chitty chitty bang bang" talk?
The unloaded device gives credit to why it's cool to keep police & schools out of the circle?
Doesn't every mature individual deal with stress like this?
Is there any other option?
Police won't and the schools don't?

2007-10-04 03:07:57 · 2 answers · asked by Migsoon 2 in Family

How many men would would date & possibly want to have a long term relationship with a Bi woman that has mostly been with women, disease free & ready for a long-term relationship with a Man?
~This question was not posted to be made fun of!~
Thanks for all the serious answers!

2007-10-04 03:06:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going against my father in court , because he tried to come after me with a knife 2-3 weeks ago , and physically tried to threaten me and intimidate me with it . so i ran outside crying calling the cops . They came and arrested him .
Now i have the proof with me that he was yelling and screaming at me in a high voice in my Voice Recorder ( i got it because that's how much of a scary situation i am in in my house rt now ).

i started rebelling against my father since i was 17 due to his immoral and violent ways that he treated me . I went through depression , panic attack , social anxiety and everything by the time i was 24. . Due to his nature of lying , and deceit , my mom and bro are also with him . They are all going to go against me in the court . They don't know that i have this recording
and right now my mom and dad went to see a lawyer because i told them i am going to pursue the charge against him .

but I am really worried if i will lose this case in court. Will I ?

2007-10-04 03:04:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When you were dating you probably thought about what kind of husband and/or father your boyfriend would be right? Were you right about your prediction? Specifics please.

2007-10-04 03:01:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to limit this question to ladies only so that I can get a full perspective on their point of view.
First, let me say that I love my girlfriend of 7 years. We have lived together for 7 years and are now in the process of building a new home. She really wants to get married....the ring, the wedding, the honeymoon.....the whole shabang. She has never been married before......I was married for 3 years when I was 20.....I'm 36 now.

Marriage just doesn't mean a whole lot to me. In my opinion, we are just great the way it is. I am fully committed to her emotionally and in every other way. I know that it is a lot of women's dreams to get married and I probably will...but my reason will be to make her happy.

Is my thought process wrong for not feeling the need to get married? It won't change my committment level...to me it is a lot of money and a legal piece of paper. Let me know what you think.

2007-10-04 03:00:54 · 37 answers · asked by Jay E 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 02:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've always been a good girl, kind, considerate of others, etc. And I date good boys. But they never satisfy me, because my 'sexual' life seems incompatible with my 'normal' life -- it's embarrassing, but I'm actually very submissive and have always fantasized about being with dominant, aggressive men, or being someone's 'sex slave'. I like being dominated and 'used' to a certain extent.

Only problem is, the 'good boys' I date would never fit into this category, so I'm always left sexually dissatisfied in my relationsips. I don't know what to do. I don't want to date some asshole jerk who is awful in every area except for sex. But at the same time, it seems like asshole jerks are the only kind of guy who would be able to satisfy those desires. Help! Has anyone ever encountered a problem like this? What can I do?

2007-10-04 02:57:49 · 18 answers · asked by cajun m 2 in Singles & Dating

that her divorice was not final till 11 days after our wedding, what do we do? are we marraid?

2007-10-04 02:53:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They are relatives of whom is now the Yankee family.

2007-10-04 02:49:48 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

if so, why?

2007-10-04 02:48:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I were home the past two days with bad sore throats and colds. I miss him so much today, being away from him.

2007-10-04 02:48:04 · 11 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

It would be the greatest thing when someone asks your hand in marriage (right girls?). All things between engaged couple become sweeter and almost inseparable before the big day. But there are things you forget to deal with until it's really near. The religion you share is different from the start. It won't matter at first but when you get too serious and you think about sharing forever with someone, you think of the future of course. Many questions come out of your mind related to religion. Maybe some married couples can relate to this. I need to hear your smart and candid advices pipz.

2007-10-04 02:46:39 · 41 answers · asked by maui 1 in Weddings

I didnt say anything just let him go to work but he knew something was wrong.I always follow him to the door but this morning after setting his lunch and breakfast on the table I just got back into bed,He had to come back into the room and kiss me good_bye..and asked what was wrong ..so he knew something was up..I am sad

2007-10-04 02:44:34 · 25 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 17 years old. i am in college first Semester since i graduated high school a year earlier. I work in a store part time and recently found a job as a striper. I know im too young for that but i make good money working as a striper. I was thinking about taking a semester off although college has already started. I cant handle both jobs and college therefore i was thinking to work in a store during the day and then 4 times a week at night in the strip club. I want to save money to buy an apartment. I just think that if i got the chance right now i should use it, becuase i could go to college anyways next semester. Suggestions?

2007-10-04 02:43:45 · 19 answers · asked by victoria v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 13 year old daughter who lives with my divorced wife wants to move in with me because she and her mother do not get along. My ex-wife is the custodial parent and I pay child support for my daughter. I have heard that if my daughter were at 14 years of age, I could go to some kind of couthouse and a judge will ask the 14 year old where she would rather be. with her mother or her father. does anyone know anything about this? My daughter is very unhappy with her mother and I want to help her. I live alone and am not attached to anyone. I can provide for her without any problems. I am retired and can be at home for her at all times. I just want to help make my daughter happy. I love her very much and would love to have her live with me. What can I do? Do I need to speak to an attorney? If so what kind of attorney? If you know what I need to do please help me with this issue. Thank you very much

Loving Dad

2007-10-04 02:42:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok I'm 14...
and I'm in 10th grade..I skiped a grade ...so everyone is older then me..(15-16).and have more experience then me,some arent even virgins anymore....and I've never even made out with anyone or had a bf.....some say that its too early..is it??should I just wait until some one right comes up??or should I do something...if so then what??I mean I'm not ugly or really beautiful!!I'm ok.....plz help??

2007-10-04 02:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by Rebeka T 2 in Singles & Dating

Situation: Dad and daughter. Starting at age 11and on or so. Always being too open in talking about sex with her. Tickling her sides almost like the sides of her breasts. Goofing off in front of family and/or friends and taking her shirt off and making a joke of it. Making her feel guilty by giving her the silent treatment when she voices it makes her feel uncomfortable.Smacking her on the butt when she walks by. popping bra straps. Untying bathing suit while walking by. Girl asks what a hickie is and dad (in a goofing away in front of friends and family) leans down and says I'll show you and gives her one. Giving her titty twisters while wrestling as a "cry uncle" thing.

the reason i ask and am confused is this was like a normal way of life growing up. We always just called him a pervert and laughed about it. My mom was always there. She had been molested when she was little and I figured she would say something if it was that. He never pulled out himself or had me touch him...

2007-10-04 02:41:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family