I didnt say anything just let him go to work but he knew something was wrong.I always follow him to the door but this morning after setting his lunch and breakfast on the table I just got back into bed,He had to come back into the room and kiss me good_bye..and asked what was wrong ..so he knew something was up..I am sad
2007-10-04 02:44:34 · 25 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh ya'll are making my day the more humor and the more you ladies agree with me I am feeling so much better...
2007-10-04 02:55:42 · update #1
I need ya'll more than you guys will ever know..please dont stop corresponding with me this morning lest I fall apart
2007-10-04 02:57:14 · update #2
Her name is Toni and she called him this week and she is the first girl he had sex with whe he was 15
2007-10-04 03:12:56 · update #3
True its only a dream. Lets hope it was now a wet dream. Did you wake up with a wet leg? lol If he continues to call out her name ask him straight out if he is seeing her again. It is strange though that you say she rang him the other day.
2007-10-04 11:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't one of us that can control our dreams (perhaps the rare lucid dreamer out there). Think about it. Haven't you had weird dreams that just made no sense? Where people from your day appear in odd situations? You might see the mail man dressed in a tutu or a family friend naked in your shower. Maybe he was calling out this woman's name right before she got hit by a bus! You just don't know. Relax and lighten up on him. This is more about your insecurity than anything. If you are having issues there, work on them. While you can certainly tell him what happened and how you feel, don't expect him to be able to control his dreams and don't blame him for something he has no control over. It was just simply a dream. Laugh it off! Good luck :)
2007-10-04 10:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could have been strangling her in his dream..or maybe she was strangling him --- you never know.
Sometimes when you talk to somebody - or you do something that night- you dream about it. that was just something that was on his mind - that does not mean he wants her - maybe he was thinking of something she said - maybe he's wondering why she talked to him - most likely its nothing..but, yea, I would feel sad too.
talk to him- when he gets home- ask him...what did you dream about last night..
trust me..he's going to feel totally bad about it- how could you not?
this is to YOUR advantage..... He will be kissing your butt for a week straight...
and the next week...... tell him he did it again..(even though he didn't)... so he kisses your butt for another week!!!! : )
also- think about your dreams. have you ever had a dream where the name of the person didn't fit the face of the person?
The name could be TONI- but, it was probably your face - happens all the time to me. and, btw...doubtful it wasn't about being with her - i'm sure the dream was stupid - and didn't make sense...
2007-10-04 11:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by ★★★ Katharine ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well its something to be concerened about but not freak out about. For all we know this person could be an old childhood friend or just some random person. Dreams are dreams and we can't control them. Now on the other side he could be done something else that we all fear for, I don't wanna put anything negative in your head but just hint around if your not the straight up 20 questions kinda person. But either way i wish you luck in your situation. Hope everything works out for the best.
2007-10-04 09:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by saenz1705 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you got the name ask him who she is. It may be nothing or someone who's from his past that he has no intention of seeing. I think you may be over reacting until you know who about the other woman. When you ask him you can judge from his reaction. I dreamt recently where an old girlfriend from 20 years ago was in the dream. You need to communicate better so you can ease your mind. Chances are it is not important.
2007-10-04 09:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, I am wondering did you left something out...when your husband call this other woman name out in his sleep, did he said anything else? like if he was working with her and need her to get something for him? Or was it in a sexual manner? maybe he was trying to warning her from some kind of danger? Next time is what kind of work your husband do for a living? When he come in from work today, after he settle in and talk to him about what you heard last night while he was sleeping. Let him know it bother you very much and like to him to explain why this other woman was on his mind last night.
2007-10-04 09:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some say is a dream,maybe!but if u have doubts is best to confront them,you r not going to have peace until u r sure.Its good to bring things out in the open with your partner.
2007-10-04 09:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Gilbert 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C'mon it was a dream. God if I was held accountable for my dreams I would be single for life!!!! O the affairs I would have had but wow - I'm just thinking of the stories I could see the slimy goss magazines.
Give the poor guy a break - he can't help who he dreams about!
Perhaps give him a bit of good loving before he goes to sleep and he will dream of you instead! lol
2007-10-04 09:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by x_swat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We can't control what comes up in our subconscious mind, and being sad and angry about a dream isn't normal....
We all have ex's, pasts and etc. Some of us dream more vividly than others. I have had dreams about ex boyfriends before, which meant i was probably thinking of them...
If you get upset easily and have jealousy issues, perhaps consider therapy... jealousy is destructive..
2007-10-04 09:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is better that you open up and tell your husband about it than trying to hide it from him. he will still suspect that something is wrong and he will feel bad if you wouldnt tell him. just dont sound judgmental when you tell him. just try to ask him what he was dreaming about last night coz you heard him say a woman's name. remain calm and dont let your emotions rule over you... just tell him that it bothers you and you just want to have a peace of mind about it. good luck.
2007-10-04 10:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋