Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

many a subject . . but he/or she pretend it is not so . . yet it manifests itself everytime you get in touch with one another, in some form or another, what would you do?
How would you treat this covert manouver from the covert grudge holder?
If you have no grudge for this person and have assured him so, what would you decide to do, in order not to fall for his actions of friendliness which are false, but done anyway to keep you a hostage to a very unfair and tiresome situation?
Thank you. Would appreciate any responses!

2007-10-04 07:13:08 · 2 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6 in Friends

a DNA test was done to the child, and is my husbands child. I cannot forgive him. I found out he cheated and had a baby with some else through a phone call. I have a baby with him too who is 10 months old. Should I try to work things up ? or should I leave him?

2007-10-04 07:12:56 · 21 answers · asked by BONITA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many secrets have you been told that you will never repeat and of those secrets would someone’s life change if you would sever the confidence placed on you?
Are you a good secret keeper or would you rather not know?

2007-10-04 07:09:44 · 19 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I hear it all the time at work at winn-dixie. It sounds like an hispanic guy singing it but nothing is in spanish.
What is the name of this young and who sings it?

2007-10-04 07:05:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband lost his beloved sister this weekend, and we were discussing periods of mourning and what it entails, for example no social gatherings, not going to movies, etc...? I needed some help and want to know what is the acceptable time period, and what activities one should not engage for during this period? I know people mourn in different ways, some go on trips and some year black for a year or so. I guess it depends on the person, their culture, and religion. I feel guilty accepting a friend's dinner invite, but my husband seems not to have a problem if I do accept, or so he says. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-10-04 07:00:09 · 22 answers · asked by Laura C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short...a guy I was seeing told me he "just wanted to be friends for now" ...yet he still flirts and wants to see me this weekend. He's always complimenting me on my looks and is very honest about his attraction towards me. Here's the question..since we're not dating anymore, does he still want to hookup? Not that I would cuz I have more self esteem than that, but do you think he's gonna make a move when we hang out? I'm planning on looking extra hot.

2007-10-04 06:59:40 · 3 answers · asked by shanamoakler 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 06:58:35 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a friend asked you to paint them nude would you consider it?
I have a friend that is an artist, and want to ask him to paint me nude, I am afraid that he would think that would be ackward. Should I ask anyways?

2007-10-04 06:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

with denis having a kid that is not mine

2007-10-04 06:54:51 · 16 answers · asked by BONITA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't get it

2007-10-04 06:54:41 · 12 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26, been married for 9 years, we have kids together and I've been completely dependant on him. I stayed home and took care of my family. So, I have no way of supporting my children let alone myself. I can't go to anyone in my family since they don't have enough room for us. What do I do? I'm at my wits end. It's not just being unhappy; it's also putting up with abuse. I don't want to take my kids to a shelter but what other options do I have?

2007-10-04 06:52:17 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Son and GF and new baby live with hub&me, the gf's family is driving my fam crazy with their constant visits, her mom comes early in the morn'g and stays for hours leaves around lunch time and comes back with her hub and another grandchild and stay for another couple hours. Even if gf takes the baby to there home for 4-5 hours they show up here in the eve'g. The grandchild they bring with them takes over our tv and because our L/room is small to begin with her family sits and we are forced to sit in another room. My hub & i both work and when we get home in the eve'g we'd like to sit back and relax,watch a little tv and even enjoy the grandbaby,.My son told gf that this is getting ridiculous and that they need to cut back on the visiting so far it hasn't stopped them.. ANY ADVICE, I don't want gf to be upset with us. They are looking for a place of their own but who knows how long that could take and we don't mind them being here, this is our first GC, but her fam is driving us nuts

2007-10-04 06:52:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really need to leave home i am 14yrs old but i dont want to run away. I live in England what can i do?
I get treated badly by my parents please HELP ME

2007-10-04 06:52:04 · 5 answers · asked by everybodylookatme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

adults only.

2007-10-04 06:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is very dear, but his jealousy does not do our relationship any good. today he crapped all over me for taking one of our workers to his work site in my car. to me I am simply doing our job. we have a construction business together and is doing very well, but I cannot accept living under this continious strains anymore. after the "drama' this morning I switch of my cell and just "disappreared" for the day...how do I handle this

2007-10-04 06:50:01 · 22 answers · asked by wife in South Africa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 06:46:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

met last weekend and hung out one night... went really well... talked to her all week and am supposed to hang out with her again this weekend... if all goes well can i kiss her this weekend?... now i finally found a girl i like so keep in mind i'm trying to keep her not screw around with her...

2007-10-04 06:46:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look men, please help me understand you. Now I know not all guys are like this, but I know some who are and so please advise: What if you meet a woman you're really attracted to and you get friendly with her over a period of months and then you realise that she too is attracted to you! This is where your 'fear' seems to start. Then you 'get together' you know have a kiss. She's NOT coming on too strong. You really like her but you kind of act really casual even if she asks to meet you again, you can't give a direct answer. You keep contacting her by the way but sort of 'friendly' as opposed to heavy love affair. Are you in shock? Please explain this! Are you afraid of love?

2007-10-04 06:42:15 · 12 answers · asked by gentle girl 1 in Singles & Dating

advice?

2007-10-04 06:38:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok... all of the questions about relationships - the general answer is always: Leave him/her... have people gotten lazy? What about WORKING on a relationship? and maybe considering the OTHER SIDE OF THE STORY? generally people post questions when they are angry or depressed, they may be distorted or blown out of proportion due to the person's emotions at the time...

but all the time - the general gist is alway: Leave/get rid of the person... no wonder there is such a high divorce rate - it is the same as the obesity epidemic - Laziness...

2007-10-04 06:36:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-04 06:32:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just recieved a call from the prosecutors office saying my ex says my son lives with him 50% of the time. But he only is there 6 days out of the month. My brother watches my son so I don't have reciepts for all the daycare expenses. Now he says he is getting a lawyer to take it to court. Any advice?

2007-10-04 06:31:46 · 7 answers · asked by Intrigued..... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when a boy says ,i want u for urself not 4 a sexual relationship?

2007-10-04 06:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by farzane l 2 in Singles & Dating

orally let her husband, you know, do you think she will be mad if she finds out?

2007-10-04 06:30:26 · 19 answers · asked by It wasn't me... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandma is quite a mean person, and I don't know what to do. When I was born, she referred to me as a fat moose and made fun of my face. When I was three, she hung boots in the chimney on Christmas telling me Santa was stuck. She told me to go outside to play, and when I came back inside, there was a fire in the fireplace. I asked her if Santa got out, and she said no and laughed as I cried, thinking Santa was dead. She has always told me I was born for the sole purpose of being made fun of. She won't stop saying cruel things to me, and she tells me horrible stories during supper that make me feel sad. There's a lot more, but I am running out of room. My mom keeps forcing me to be around her, and then she makes me feel like a horrible person because I don't want to speak to my grandma. I want to explain to my mom about how I feel about my grandma, but she always makes me feel like I'm a horrible person. Does anyone know anything I could say or do?

2007-10-04 06:30:10 · 10 answers · asked by armadilloelf 2 in Family

Hello i want to know that is there any way to find in first night that my wife is virgin or not

2007-10-04 06:29:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

because i always wanted to be a actress and im the best in acting in my class and my families kinda against im 13 pls answer im desperate

2007-10-04 06:28:28 · 18 answers · asked by drama angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad's always had a drinking problem and thats realy unusal since we're an indian family his drinking has really affected our familily bonding and due to his drinking he can never keep a job becuase he's always getting fired.. so there's alot of pressure on my mother.. but she's now getting really sick ( phtsically) and can't work as hard.. i'm getting sick of living with them and have to worry about him and my family.. my mom won't get a divorce becuase of the culture but it's traumatizing me and i have a younger bother who i dont have a heart to leave- what should i do.. should i move to another state away from all this and abandon my family.. or should i stay for the stake of my brother and mother. please help

2007-10-04 06:28:20 · 17 answers · asked by shanekwah 2 in Family

Some girls can get their boyfriends to do exactly what they want even if it doesnt make sence, but my boyfriend argues out everything even when he knows that I have a point. Whats the difference btwn those girls and me?

2007-10-04 06:27:28 · 8 answers · asked by cleo s 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7 years (together for 10) We both came from troubled pasts (abusive parents, rough childhoods) and have had some bad luck in our marriage as well with-job loss(2 full years), money trouble, health troubles etc. We have two children and like most people very busy lives. My question is that it seems we have lost each other...we don't get along like we used to, we fight, I feel bitter towards him and I am sure he feels the same towards me...neither of us really feels like the other respects the other. One day things are good and the next it's like we barely like each other. I love my husband and I want my family to be happy. Can you give me some marriage advice to try and bring the happiness back into our marriage? What do you do in your marriage to get over the rough spots? I feel lost and like I can't make it work. I want so much to be a great wife and mother. I want my house to be a safe haven for my family....any advice would be helpful. Thanks

2007-10-04 06:26:54 · 27 answers · asked by aerofrce1 6 in Marriage & Divorce