many a subject . . but he/or she pretend it is not so . . yet it manifests itself everytime you get in touch with one another, in some form or another, what would you do?
How would you treat this covert manouver from the covert grudge holder?
If you have no grudge for this person and have assured him so, what would you decide to do, in order not to fall for his actions of friendliness which are false, but done anyway to keep you a hostage to a very unfair and tiresome situation?
Thank you. Would appreciate any responses!
2007-10-04 07:13:08 · 2 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
May I place this question to you, and hope that someone does answer? In baiting addition, has this, at any time in your life happened to you?
How did you treat such a situation?
I am a naturally yielding person who finds no satisfaction or gain from punishing anyone passive aggressively for anything.
As quickly as my indignation rises, it also goes away.
I figure that there are more interesting issues to invest my interest and actions into.
Vindictiveness by any other name is a cowardly act!
Anyone out there, with an opinion to share, Will you please come forward and add your opinions, thoughts to my question?
And if not, would you please say why you'd wish not to answer . . all this for the sake of the comfort of Simplicity's sake?
2007-10-04 09:08:07 · update #1
All that comes to mind is to quit talking to him for a while and see if that helps. I have had to quit talking to one person completely because it just kept happening.
2007-10-04 09:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Alright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me, I do not know if this is relevant to your question
but when someone bares a grudge against me for my previous actions, I simply show them how much I have changed to the point where they can be honestly convinced I would never betray or do anything harmful to them again. I let my actions and others who see me speak for me.
2007-10-04 16:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋