Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

i was just wondering because my brother was bragging about him and 6 of his boys running a train on this girl and how they were all taking turns one after the other..I just wanted to know from a male point of view if you would ever share the same hole with several other people..i mean, is'nt that like a total turn off?

2007-10-04 05:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are your deepest desires for your children? To become "X", go to college, be happy, stay off drugs, be independent, move out, etc... what is it that you want for them.

2007-10-04 05:32:01 · 9 answers · asked by Angie Milhous 2 in Family

how many men would actually even think about marrying a woman who doesnt go to work, just stays home and cleans up the house, the typical stay at home mom,

im sorry but i get red in the face with steam coming out of my ears when ever i hear a chick say shes a stay at home mom or housewife, you have got to be kidding me, go to work bi*ch do something, get your own money, is there anything more in the world that screams leach than a housewife. i would never in my life even consider marriage with a chick who thinks shes gonna stay home all day and collect my money while im at work, this is 2007.
whats your opinion? guys who have house wifes are you a lil fed up, do u think this is perfectly ok

2007-10-04 05:31:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the midst of a custody case with my ex over our two year old daughter, I am looking for some help with what is going on, I have held a steady job for the last few years making three times as much money as my ex, renting a two bedroom apartment for myself and our daughter, have been the one paying for insurance, and all other bills and am paying child support under temporary orders as of now, have never had trouble taking care of our daughter; changing diapers, feeding , putting to bed etc. ex has not been able to ever take care of herself having to live with other people to get by and have a place to live, they are now staying with a family member of hers living together in the same room still sleeping in the same bed, they are paying all of her bills, etc. she has shown no ability to be a responsible adult, relies on others to take care of our child and is putting things into our daughters head to make her scared of me, slandering my name saying I beat them, can I do anything?

2007-10-04 05:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by JC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Yea So My mom and I are close but not close enough to telling her Who I'm with. its just not the right time to explain It to her since She's getting a divorce with Her 2nd marriage. Ugh...My boyfriend is getting tired of it....!! He's like I texted you to go to the movies. or Why didn't you text back. I'm like huh? I only get my phone back from 2:45- 6:00!! I don't even wanna charge it anymore... why does your mom have your phone. She doesn't pay for it....Which is true my Dad pays for it...But why go through all the trouble of snooping into my contacts and messages??

2007-10-04 05:27:09 · 7 answers · asked by ALY 1 in Family

which do you prefer? :)

2007-10-04 05:21:17 · 19 answers · asked by Rawwr* 3 in Singles & Dating

i have told a friend my feelings for her. she didnt feel the same way. i have known her many years. as a friend i thought that we would be able to get through this and still be friends. so girls what are you thinking when a friends tells you his feeling and you dont feel the same. what makes you think you have to ignore him. and not fight for your friendship.

2007-10-04 05:20:20 · 8 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

If your husband/wife bought a new smaller wallet and needed to get rid of some of the things from his old wallet and one of the things that he got rid of was your picture (which is a fairly old picture). Would you feel hurt or how would you feel and how would you approach it. I didnt go through his new wallet but was going to throw away his old one and saw that my picture was in there.

2007-10-04 05:18:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or the few times that you have fallen in love. What were the most memorable? and what did your guy do to make you feel like so?

2007-10-04 05:18:18 · 12 answers · asked by Sicilianguy 2 in Singles & Dating

Having some friends coming to stay with me tomorrow night. I rang them last night to say I had been to the supermarket and had bought food and would have dinner for them when they arrive. She has just texted me to say she is going to to make dinner and bring it with them and for me to do nothing. When I go to stay with her, she always makes dinner and I feel it right for me to make dinner when I have friends stay. This is not the first time she has done this and I'm starting to think that she doesnt like my cooking or something. She knew I had gone and bought stuff which will probably now go to waste. I'm feeling a bit cross about this now - why the hell do I bother ?! On top of this, I wanted another friend and my parents to join us for dinner - I cant do that now as I can hardly say to her 'ok - can you make enough to feed 3 more people?'

Why do you think she does this?

2007-10-04 05:16:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

In the matter of a relationship where non exsisting feelings can be concluded, u left and u feel the pinch.But trying to act smart bold , various ways leaving town doing something for urself once even it is not you but ur arrogance making u feel it do it.Have anyone felt like tis before?And did it manage to let u free or end in a tie breaker.Serious answers please.

2007-10-04 05:13:48 · 2 answers · asked by cool_honeybabe 4 in Singles & Dating

He only wants to see me with the other woman, he doesn't want to do anything to the other woman. He said that he realizes that if I were to see him with another woman, he could lose me and he doesn't want to do that.

2007-10-04 05:13:48 · 34 answers · asked by escapee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How to act helpless or how to become lovely in order to get men's attention and love?

2007-10-04 05:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 05:12:04 · 19 answers · asked by toni ann l 1 in Family

My husband says he is more attracted to me now ( i just gave birth to our daughter a month ago) then he even was when we first started dating...I don't have a problem with, actually i love it i am just curious as to why? And if this has happened to anyone else?

2007-10-04 05:10:14 · 8 answers · asked by cynical girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the SS-5 form filled out, I also have my certified copy of the marriage license to put with it. What other copies of stuff do I need to make to put with it all to mail to the social security office? We live too far away from one for me to actually travel there and present my stuff in person. So, I have the SS-5, the certified copy of the marriage license, and what else do I need to enclose in the envelope to mail? Do I need a copy of my drivers license or anything in there with the marriage license?

2007-10-04 05:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my confusion lies in the fact that he tells me "I just don't understand how it is" and how he is different when he is home. Do they downgrade and talk bad about their wifes and girlfriends, to make them look good? He also tells me they have to watch what they say when women are working on the site with them, cuz of the sexual harrasment stuff, even though it isn't directed at them, it's what is said around them? I previously posted a question, just wasnt' sure how to add to that....Im a newbe !!!

2007-10-04 05:07:46 · 6 answers · asked by ki-ki 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 05:03:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

huge problem. me and my ex still like eachother, but we cant even talk or see eachother :'( we're both disappointed and i dont know what to do. ive lied to my family 4 times about talking to him cuz hes also one of my best friends. he makes me so happy and he does care about me and he still likes me. i dont know what to do! (we cant see eachother cuz we got the cops involved on accident). any advice???

2007-10-04 05:03:29 · 11 answers · asked by Halley T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 05:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by julieann 1 in Family

2007-10-04 05:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by misticbaby21 4 in Weddings

2007-10-04 04:58:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok if u saw da first question i asked i said i didnt know wat to bout dis boy i really like...c we been talkin 4 awhile and he got a gurl,they broke up, and then found out she was pregnant so they are back together, for now. they cant stand each other and they are always arguing and she is way to controlling. he wants to leave her but dont want to seem like a bad person, i truly like dat boy like a lot and i dont want to tell him to leave her but he deserves better and i know i can treat him better. cant he be with me and still take care of the baby? what are we suppose to do?

2007-10-04 04:58:20 · 2 answers · asked by klbabygirl13 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my fiance for three years now and we are not only best friends, but we have a truly happy and healthy relationship. We are completely honest with each other and the trust between the two of us is unbreakable. This marriage will be a first for both of us, and although we are doing fantastic and couldn't be any happier, what does it take to make a marriage last forever? We are both constantly willing to compromise and listen and we are both there for each other when the other person is down. We take care of each other because we love each other. So two people that are happy together, best friends, honest, loving and caring... what else does it take to make a marriage work? Serious answers only please, I will pick the best answer. Thank you :)

2007-10-04 04:57:43 · 21 answers · asked by LeAndra 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,

I am new to this community and am seeking sound feedback. I have been attempting to resolve some family conflict for a long time but always seem to come up short.

I have been faced with a difficult family situation for many years. My father who is a wonderful and accomplished man remarried after my mother died in an automobile accident. My stepmother tends to be a controlling and strong willed person. She has some wonderful qualities but when it comes to me, sometimes I truly wonder whether she wants my happiness.

I was adopted by her when my parents got married. She was given a dominant role in my upbringing. But the games that are palyed, have over the years taken their toll. If I succeed, its because of her, if I fail its because of me (I did not obey her every command). Big occasions in my life always become all about her and really, anti-climactic moments.

Despite turbulence and discord, I have managed to become a medical doctor in a foreign country. I have just returned to the US to sit my licensing exams here. More discord seems immenent despite my efforts. I know many people have these sorts of problems so it seems that I should not feel alone with this sort of thing. There are many convoluted aspect to this relationship that I won't go into, but what I have provided here are the surface details.

Finally, I will say that I adore my dad, but he does have his flaws. He has made it clear that a relationship with me is what he wants. However, I see that it will always be dictated to some extent it seems by my step mother.

I continue on my journey towards becoming a doctor here in my home country with hope and optimism despite setbacks. I truly want to help those in distress and need but find it difficult being my best at this when I cannot seem to over come my own difficulies.

Any and all feedback welcomed. Best wishes.

2007-10-04 04:55:36 · 13 answers · asked by brave.heart 1 in Family

I had to re-ask this, because people were not getting the question. I don't sleep around, because I have class. And I think that women who do have no morals. And I think that men sleep around, because they know they can find an easy woman who sleeps around. Yes, I am a woman.

2007-10-04 04:54:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been married for 2 years and have a year old son. We have sex about once a week, but I want to be more adventurous with her. I enjoy the sex we have, but its quite 'normal', 5 minutes foreplay followed by straightforward sex. I want to give her more orgasms, but its hard to get her do more foreplay and I'd love to do more oral with her too. Any suggestions on how to get her to be more open and experimental? Thanks.

2007-10-04 04:54:23 · 18 answers · asked by silverfoxdmt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married for 20 years and became widowed 4 year ago. I have not dated in 25 years. Dating and all these on line sites are all new to me. The other day I found an email on my boyfried's computer responding to a message from another women. When I asked him about it he said he met her on this porn/dating site, which he is a paying member. (He does not own a webcam.) He said he uses this site for entertainment purposes only and never intended to meet this women or any one else in person. I don't have a problem with him looking at these sites, (I don't think it is any different than watched a porn dvd) but I am not comfortable with him contacting, emailing or IM, other women. I have talked to him about this and he assures me that there is nothing to worry about. He thinks I am making to much of this. He did go in and changed his profile to read that he is in a commited relationship and is only looking for online flirting

2007-10-04 04:52:38 · 8 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex-girlfriend and i are still dating. and when we first broke up we were dating others too. then a few weeks ago we kinda desided it would be just us 2. but now she is talking to one of the guys she dated over the summer again. and not just "lets go to lunch" this just started a week ago. they doing to whole sneaking out and going somewere thing. normally i wouuld just leave. but i really like her. and i think its just that there is something missing she feels she needs him for. some very important info is she dont like to talk about these things. or about our relationship in general, she never has. its out of the question. and second thing is she HATES being told what to do. she like to feel at least someone in control. i want to atleast try to save this. i know she dont want a serious relationship right now. thats why we were not just going out. and p.s. she HATED me dating other people. she couldnt take it. thats kinda why we stoped dating other people in the first place.

2007-10-04 04:50:48 · 1 answers · asked by music man 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee and i have been together almost a year, since last december. Well his x came over with a baby monday saying its his. She brought over paper work proving its not whose she thought it was, so i guess shes narrowed it down. They were last together in the beginning of November and the baby was born August 4th. What should i do? Should i leave him? Stay?I do not know if i can handle the impact it will have on our relationship if the baby is infact his.

2007-10-04 04:50:19 · 11 answers · asked by Babysmom303 1 in Other - Family & Relationships