how many men would actually even think about marrying a woman who doesnt go to work, just stays home and cleans up the house, the typical stay at home mom,
im sorry but i get red in the face with steam coming out of my ears when ever i hear a chick say shes a stay at home mom or housewife, you have got to be kidding me, go to work bi*ch do something, get your own money, is there anything more in the world that screams leach than a housewife. i would never in my life even consider marriage with a chick who thinks shes gonna stay home all day and collect my money while im at work, this is 2007.
whats your opinion? guys who have house wifes are you a lil fed up, do u think this is perfectly ok
2007-10-04 05:31:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you just wanting to see how many people you can get mad, get them all stirred up. is this a game to you?
2007-10-04 05:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by baylees 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Are you serious? A stay at home wife and mother work harder than most paid workers, and their work day is much longer and is 7 days a week long. I have always wanted to be a stay at home wife, but the way the cost of living is I can't, So for a living I chose a job where I can be as close to a stay at home mom as I can be. I am a housekeeper/ cook for a rich family. I call them my sudo family. I go and do all a mother/ wife does for them, except sleep with the old guy. And I get paid for it, I make $15.00 an hour to be a stay at home mom. But you know what, I would do it for nothing at my home. I wish I could keep my own house spotless, my own families laundry done, cook my own family a good wholesome meal everday. But because of the price of things I can't, so I will be a sudo stay at home mom, cause it pays....
But I cant wait till I retire so I can do all the things around my home that I would like to do and can't. Women who stay at home are lucky indeed. I love to do for my family, I just wish I could do more...
2007-10-04 06:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by sparky111_26003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if u have kids w/ the person and they plan to be a stay at home mom then the right thing to do is start paying her to baby-sit ur kids cuz its either that or day care and a stay at home mom is cheaper and they come w/ cleaning skills. I'm a stay at home mom and if I counted all the yrs I've been 1 and added up what my hubby owed me for EVERYTHING I have done I'd be rich!!
Oh ya I do work now BY MY CHOICE he wants me to quit but I won't. W/ the way u think that were lazy or whatever let me tell u ur gonna die a lonely old man
A stay at home mom works just as hard as any1 else if not more and were rarely appreciated for the things we sacrifice for our kids and hubby's but thats ok cuz we decided to put our families first and this is the job we wanted to take
2007-10-04 06:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by NONAME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your name says it all. I would love to see you stay home, take care of the house and children. You wouldn't last a day. I am a stay at home mom, run a daycare in my house, and work a part time job outside of the house. I have been in the work world for many years working at every sort of job. But by far taking care of my house and family is the hardest job I have ever had. I get no set breaks, I don't get a lunch hour, I am ALWAYS on call, and most days I put in 18 hours...oh and no weekends either I work 7 days a week 365 days a year. As soon as you work those kinds of hours for free then you can bi*tch about what other people do with their lives.
2007-10-04 05:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by aerofrce1 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
When i married my husband i was working and when i got pregnant "WE" planned that i would stay home for 2-3 years or until he went to school. Personally I felt i needed to stay home with my son because i want to be there for all his "first" instead of him doing it in daycare/baby sitters and me missing it.
Staying home with him has been great and i got to record every milestone he did and my husband was able to see it when he got home.
Not only that we also found this way would be better financially because we wouldn't have to worry about daycare cost, having to hire a maid or having to buy dinner or lunch because dinner will always be ready and so will lunch for my husband to take to work.
I know it's 2007 and i don't "leach" on my husbands money.... I do have a small side job selling on ebay ... do i need the extra money not really but i use it whenever i want to get a nice outfit or get my hair done once in awhile..
2007-10-04 05:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by ladyeve983 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is 2007. Have you not noticed that in the last 30 years that the morals in this world are declining? Nobody raises there own children anymore. Daycare center and baby sitters do. Why would you have a child if you do not want to raise it? There is no job that is more important then being a parent.
The average child under 5 spends 11.5 hours a day in daycare. Why bother having a child if you are not going to spend time with them.
What is your definition of a mother and father? Egg and Sperm? Driver to daycare and driver home from daycare?
I am sure that you would want the schools to serve your kids breakfast also!
Please make sure that you get a vasectomy. I would hate to see how your children would turn out.
Your are selfish, parenting is selfless!
PS: Maybe if your daughters mother was home she would not be servicing 3 boys at once!
2007-10-04 05:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Apparently, you don't make enough money to support a family, so you are complaining.
The traditional role of the woman is to tend to home and family - at home! Some people are traditional, and others are not.
I always worked, my choice..... but stayed home for three years because of a sick child. During this time, i was always busy... our house was painted, and all of the maintenance was taken care of... everything was nice, and clean and i didn't get behind on chores. The yard was impeccable too. Meanwhile, i had a sick child to attend to.
There are few real men left in this world, and you've just reinforced this to be true.
If you are fed up, date a man....
2007-10-04 05:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Dude let me tell you now your a homo if u actually want your wife to leave your kids in someone else's care then u really are a dirtbag.Having my wife stay at home is the best thing that could possibly have happened. My dinner is made every day my clothes are washed every day and my house is spotless and oh by the way i wont catch three guys pulling a train on my daughter. Wow thats gotta suck knowing she had three men inside her at the same time. The first guy put it in her mouth the second her clit and the third rammed it right up her ***.Thats gotta suck, no pun intended or maybe it was LOSER!!!!!!!
2007-10-04 09:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im a stay at home mom of three youngest 2yrs. My husband admires me for being unslefish and not putting my kids in daycare or pawning them off on someone else to keep while I make more money for the house hold or for myself. To tell you the truth stay at home mom do with out so thier kids can have. And it is a real job except no vacations, paydays, sickdays, bonuses and no clocking in and out Longer hours and did I mention NO PAY. I don't go get my hair done, or buy clothes (unless on clearnce and i really need it. talking holes in a shoe or something.)
Tell you what you need. you need a women who can make her own money buy her own stuff and leave you when she is DONE with YOU*
Better have a big heart or a big ***** cause what would she even need you for then.
2007-10-04 05:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Belinda J 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be better for you, in the long run, to hire a hooker and a maid. No woman with a SHRED of self respect would ever want to marry someone with your attitude.
You are either trolling for trouble on here....mission accomplished, BTW.....or you are suffering from head-in-a*s disease.
Why downgrade the couples who decide together that it's best for the mother/wife to stay home and take care of the house and kids?? That's the most undervalued job on the planet.
Everyone isn't entitled to YOUR opinion, you know.
2007-10-04 06:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are "sofa king we todd did!" There are things in life more important than your precious paycheck dude! How about a clean house, family sit down meals and kids that grow up with someone home to listen to them? If people have it within their means to live on one paycheck so that one can be home with their kids,they should. The kids are more important. Maybe you haven't got any kids yet, but when you do,you'll understand that they are worth your whole flippin paycheck and the BEST single thing you can give them is a parent who's home.
2007-10-04 06:24:11 · answer #11 · answered by helpmemama 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋