my ex-girlfriend and i are still dating. and when we first broke up we were dating others too. then a few weeks ago we kinda desided it would be just us 2. but now she is talking to one of the guys she dated over the summer again. and not just "lets go to lunch" this just started a week ago. they doing to whole sneaking out and going somewere thing. normally i wouuld just leave. but i really like her. and i think its just that there is something missing she feels she needs him for. some very important info is she dont like to talk about these things. or about our relationship in general, she never has. its out of the question. and second thing is she HATES being told what to do. she like to feel at least someone in control. i want to atleast try to save this. i know she dont want a serious relationship right now. thats why we were not just going out. and p.s. she HATED me dating other people. she couldnt take it. thats kinda why we stoped dating other people in the first place.
2007-10-04 04:50:48 · 1 answers · asked by music man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Save what? Honest, what? All your saving is your F'IN HOPE THAT SHE'LL ACTUALLY LOVE YOU SOMEDAY!!! Thats it, relationship, hahahahha, really buddy, she has complete control and your just there when she feels she wants you there. You've been dump'd so be smart, treat this relationship for what it is, and just be glad when you get some sex once and awhile. Becuase her inability to talk about the relationship and the fact she is still searching for something, means she is purposeless and lost, and you want her incharge of your heart? Any heartbreck you recieve her, you'll never get over until you realize you f'd up, tell then welcome to heck on earth, enjoy! Love isn't enough, its how we use it, and she isn't using it for anything but against you....
2007-10-05 05:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋