Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

My ex wants me back. He hurt me deeply so I don't know if I can trust him again. I never thought I'd have to make this decision and I just don't know what to do.

2007-10-04 09:30:46 · 6 answers · asked by burghgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Or less than a person?
I do ALL the housework, while my man works...fix his breakfast, coffee, make his plate at dinner, etc.
What I get in return: He takes me totally for granted, and the only response I get is when something is wrong, or he wants to complain, or when he wants me to do something else for him.
Since when does housewife=servant?
Any other ladies out there in the same situation, and if you are, how have you dealt with it?

2007-10-04 09:29:39 · 44 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there is this girl i like but i have no idea on how to approach her. We know each other we pass by the hall ways and say hi a couple of times but thats about it. I want to talk to her but she is always hanging out with a group of her friends some times i may know them or not. Doesn't matter because i don't know who to approach her and if i do whats a good thing to say to her so i can have some more one on one time so i can talk to her more or just hang out.

Btw im 15 so yes highschool, also i have AIm she got mines from her friend, yes we used to like each other and i could have a shot at hooking up with her but , i dont know how to go about it. HELP PLEASE~!

she is very preety and doesnt have a bf and well i think she likes me and i sometimes feel like im out of her league.....thats why im scarred to go and talk to her! UGH! I FEEL LIKE A IDIOT!

2007-10-04 09:29:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ve been married for almost 10 years and have 4 children. My husband is in the army and currently not here.He cheated on me in our 7th year of marriage. We tried to work thru that and last year I found out that he had an affair with a soldiers wife. He lost rank and we were forced to move. He started going to church and alittle counseling, and has cried over and over telling me how sorry he is. Im scared to leave because of the children. He is a wonderful dad, friend, husband,provider, but it seems that when it comes to him being faithful thats where the problems lie. Do you think with him finding God that maybe he will realize his actions are soo wrong? Im tired of being hurt,but i really cant imagine life without him or just starting all over, and what about my kids? They love him very very much and how would I explain that to them? Why do men cheat, he said he thinks it boosted his ego? Do you think thts just an excuse? What should I do? Im sooo confused and hurt. Thankyou

2007-10-04 09:26:24 · 15 answers · asked by jenjen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when a guy tells you promise me
youll never stop seeing me ...does he love you or likes your company....especially if hes told you that in two occassions...
serious answers please

2007-10-04 09:24:32 · 19 answers · asked by Georgina 1 in Singles & Dating

we live just done the street from his grandmothers house were his sister lives at and i feel as i don't have any family time or privacy because they come down to use the computer or his nephew will come to the house and start playing the play station without asking. we went to subway to eat last night and they had to come too and on top of it he had to buy them supper because she was broke and said she would pay him back this weekend. she want pay him back. we are renting this house and there is no other house open. they are about to drive me crazy and he doesn't see my side of it. we go to his grandmas house to eat with them and i don't like going over there all the time. his mom is in jail for selling Rx drugs and they both have power of attorney over her stuff and they have to get together to do stuff for her. how would you handle this

2007-10-04 09:21:21 · 2 answers · asked by michelecmof4 2 in Family

do you wish they would chill out a bit more

2007-10-04 09:20:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and will we ever be as important to them?

2007-10-04 09:19:37 · 1 answers · asked by Petitecherry 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been seeing this guy for about a month now. Things are going pretty good, but he says he feels like we aren't getting any closer but that he wants to make this work because he really does care for me...any ideas on how to make that leap from friends to more?

2007-10-04 09:15:35 · 1 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Singles & Dating

The problem with yahoo answers is that you have young people asking young people for help with things and its retarded. Only an old man can tell you what to do and you won't find an old and wise man on the internet. So here's my problem:

My parents won't let me see my girlfriend because she's all I think about at school and I don't do any of my work. But it's not like I ever did any of my work before. So they think they can change my grades by getting me far away from this girl. I never did good before I was punished so what makes them think that I'm gonna do better being punished? Even if I was doing good in school, they'd still tell me I couldn't see her because they wouldn't want me to focus on anything but school work, and now they want to punish me, for what, to do worse because I can't see her anymore. If they wanted me to at least pass, I'd suggest they let em see her, but what would you tell my parents in this case?

2007-10-04 09:14:24 · 18 answers · asked by butanebird91 3 in Family

2007-10-04 09:13:12 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a few months before my dad died he told me when my mom found out she was pregnant he wanted her to have a abortion. He said that secret had been eating at him and he want to tell me so he could apologize. I was 15 at the time. i told him it was ok and i wasnt mad about it. But for some reason it has always stuck with me since he told me in 1995. my parents split in 89, from 89-95 my dad stuggled with alcohal abuse and being homeless. His family had told me that towards the end of his life he was diagnosed with being schizophrenic. So i dont know if it what he told me was true or the sickness. I'm just scared how she'll react. When i went to visit his side of the family a yr ago they told me a secret about his dad, i told my mom and she blow her top. she was so mad. cause my dad had told her the secret when they 1st got married but he never wanted us kids to know about it. So im scared she'll get even more pissed off cause it actually has to do with me. Geez family secrets huh!?!?

2007-10-04 09:09:19 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

if she's fat or skiny
good kisser or not
hot or not

2007-10-04 09:02:38 · 19 answers · asked by hottiesteffi774 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this girl i like but i have no idea on how to approach her. We know each other we pass by the hall ways and say hi a couple of times but thats about it. I want to talk to her but she is always hanging out with a group of her friends some times i may know them or not. Doesn't matter because i don't know who to approach her and if i do whats a good thing to say to her so i can have some more one on one time so i can talk to her more or just hang out.

Btw im 15 so yes highschool, also i have AIm she got mines from her friend, yes we used to like each other and i could have a shot at hooking up with her but , i dont know how to go about it. HELP PLEASE~!

2007-10-04 09:00:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 12 and in 7th grade. so when im with my frnds im pretty outgoing but w new people and in class im kinda quite and dont know wat to say. in class i never raise my hand and when i have to answer a question my face gets all red. like a week ago a teacher even used me as an example of someone who doesnt talk much and it was really embarasing!!! so is it bad to be shy and if it is how can i get over it????? i really wish tht i was outgoing but it honestly is impossible to be outgoing if u were always shy like me. i think i was born like tht.

2007-10-04 08:57:42 · 5 answers · asked by heyyyrachel93 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband recently came to me and told he that he has a "pedal pumping fantasy".

For some reason he gets turned on when he imagines me pushing down the gas pedal on my car and "punishing the car".

How would you react?

Thanks.

2007-10-04 08:56:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A bunch of my guy friends were talking about this subject... and the only ones that seemed to like the idea of marriage are in relationships... the rest found it horrifying! Why is that? It seems that guys want to be to be with someone, yet they don't... not painting every guy out there with the same brush, but there does seem to be quite a few guys out there that feel this way!

Is it not manly to commit???? Egads, this is confusing.

2007-10-04 08:56:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have always loved nice, straight white teeth. I don't think I could ever be attracted to someone w/ yellow teeth or a gap or chipped teeth. TEETH are probably the most important feature to me when it comes to the opposite sex (in physical terms).

I was just wondering what you all think is the most imporant feature??? Once again, PHYSICALLY. Please spare me the anecdotes about inner beauty. I know that's the MOST important thing. I'm just curious about your opinions on outer beauty. Thanks.

2007-10-04 08:53:39 · 31 answers · asked by ilovesunchips23 1 in Singles & Dating

Is giving her rides to that guy a crime to? And If She's pregnat at the age of 17 with him?

2007-10-04 08:52:33 · 25 answers · asked by rfasf 1 in Singles & Dating

What activities do you do together as a team? How much time do you spend together in both work and play? How long have you both been a team?

Please use detail. I got time to listen. Thank you for your input.

2007-10-04 08:50:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a hot girl is hitting on you do you try to make her to notice your ring by looking your hand while she's talking to you or do you actually tell her that you're married.

2007-10-04 08:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me n my boyfriend broke up 1 month ago after 7 months and during the past month weve talked to each other but things havent been that great and he would mess with my feelings by being nice and sweet one day but then blow me off another day and i finally told him that i couldnt do it anymore and that he had to make a decision and he told me that he still really liked me but that he wanted to wait a few more weeks n idk if i can take this for that much longer so i told him that i didnt want to wait, and for him to not talk to me anymore....its really hard cus we go to school together and im tryin to ignore him the best i can but its not easy...i still have strong feelings for him and im starting to have second thoughts about not waiting for him but idk wat to do...help please!!!

2007-10-04 08:49:38 · 11 answers · asked by italianchick09 1 in Singles & Dating

im a good girl, im 18, and still never been with a man,
do you think im being to old fashioned, and dose a guy respect a nice girl.

2007-10-04 08:49:38 · 35 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband comes home at 7 P.M every night last night he came home at 4 A.M and what did he say to me im sorry there was some trouble with the papers i said its ok and i gave him a kiss he smelled like perfume he was acting different 2

me and him got married young i was 19 he was 21 now weve been married for a year and a half we have a daughter and we never fight we get along pretty well i just really dont understand what happend to him.....................

please helppp

2007-10-04 08:48:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

recently. i told 1 of my female close friend that i've liked her since high school. however she she said "she treats me as a really really good friend". more importantly, she still has feelings for her ex. i was wondering how do i go about with this problem, and is still worth trying to go after her, after being reject? hope you guys can help me out.

2007-10-04 08:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by maninevo 2 in Singles & Dating

when ever we fight my husband brings up things i have done in the past like going to the casino, smoking and other things i have done 3 years ago and he seems to do this when he drinks that seems to be the only time we fight because i can't stand a drunk...or having him coming home late.he has went as far as kicking me out of his house as he calls it...my feelings are hurt and i'm mad i'm not even sure i love him any more because he has done it so many times......i have put so much in to this marrage as far as time money and energy in to the house.

2007-10-04 08:46:45 · 17 answers · asked by b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 08:46:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 08:45:37 · 29 answers · asked by andy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i don't know what to do i care about them both but if i had to choose it would tear me apart.

2007-10-04 08:44:54 · 11 answers · asked by mrs.mitich 1 in Singles & Dating

you tease a girl (like friendly teasing lol) it means you like her????...i know it might sound a bit primary school but iv always wondered if it was actually true or whether adults just used to say it.

2007-10-04 08:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating