My husband recently came to me and told he that he has a "pedal pumping fantasy".
For some reason he gets turned on when he imagines me pushing down the gas pedal on my car and "punishing the car".
How would you react?
Thanks.
2007-10-04 08:56:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Has he metioned 'BDSM' to you before, Misstress ???
2007-10-04 09:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes fantasies are best left at that! Once in a while it works out to live out the fantasy. Tell your husband that you also have a fantasy about being penetrated by a big black man. And you want him to wait home while you are out with him. But then you could tell him that it's only a fantasy, and you would never really do that. Who knows what would become of that fantasy?
2016-04-07 04:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm sounds kinda strange, if thats what he means by pedal pumping fantasy.
But youre husband and wife. Nothing wrong with fantasy if you both agree.
Just remember that it will no longer be fantasy if you go through with it. In some cases, fantasy is better left fantasy. But its all up to you and how you feel about it
2007-10-04 09:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'd develop ball bearings in my ankle and hammer down on the pedal every time I drove.
I mean, when you think of all the oddball fantasies he COULD have (scat, bloodsports, infantilism, farting into balloons so he can sniff it), this is a pretty harmless, totally nondegrading one. I'd be all for it.
2007-10-04 09:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
first i would thank him for sharing this fantasy with me. (some guys will never tell you anything like that). then think about if fulfilling this fantasy compromises any of your values or if it would be demeaning to you in a bad way. if you are ok with it then i would fulfill his fantasy. does he see you in a certain pair of shoes or nylons? certain car? certain clothes? it really does sound harmless. have fun with it.
2007-10-04 09:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by adelaide 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe his next fantasy maybe he would want you to pedal his butt....lol it seems like an harmless fantasy, because it did not involve another person and you.
2007-10-04 09:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hmmmm...pedal pumping fetish? I think that might be a precursor for foot fetish or shoe fetish. Both of which are harmless. Just be happy your husband feels open enough to share with you.
2007-10-04 09:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Go for it. Keep your love-life exciting. It's better you, than someone else. It might just be his way of trying to spice things up. I give him an "Standing Ovation", because he's talking to you and telling you these things. That means he's comfortable enough to tell you that kind of stuff, so be comfortable enough to do it for him. But beware........there may be more to come, once he sees you're interested. Not like that's a bad thing......
2007-10-04 09:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps that is his way of telling you that he wants to do it in the car. Go for it, it will seem like being a teenager all over again.
2007-10-04 09:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Queenie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds a bit odd, but whatever gets everyone excited. Just be careful having sex in teh car, its not exactly the safest thing to do while driving, or easiest...
2007-10-04 09:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Koozie the chemist 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
HONESTLY....i'd laugh!!!! that's kinda funny dont you think???
then i would find out if he is using the car as a front...and what he really wants & means is he wants you to be aggresive & dominant with him....punish him!!!! push down on him.....know what i mean???
Talk to him ask him what he wants.....and if you feel comfortable with what he wants.....then go for it!!!!
Have Fun!!!!
2007-10-04 09:33:26 · answer #11 · answered by justbcuzitzfun 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋