me n my boyfriend broke up 1 month ago after 7 months and during the past month weve talked to each other but things havent been that great and he would mess with my feelings by being nice and sweet one day but then blow me off another day and i finally told him that i couldnt do it anymore and that he had to make a decision and he told me that he still really liked me but that he wanted to wait a few more weeks n idk if i can take this for that much longer so i told him that i didnt want to wait, and for him to not talk to me anymore....its really hard cus we go to school together and im tryin to ignore him the best i can but its not easy...i still have strong feelings for him and im starting to have second thoughts about not waiting for him but idk wat to do...help please!!!
2007-10-04 08:49:38 · 11 answers · asked by italianchick09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stick to your guns girl if he thinks anything of you he'll come crawling back. If he doesn't, what have you lost and at least you'll have your dignity intact.
2007-10-04 08:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry for all that you are going through, but It seems to me that you did the right thing by telling him how you feel. You did not give much detail about how you broke up but from what you wrote it seem to me that your ex just wants to have the best of both worlds.
You cannot put your life on hold just because he finds your relationship timing inconvenient. If he desires to have a meaningful relationship with you then he would have been more clear in his explanations regarding your break. I find that its very much unfair to you that he leaves you hanging just like that.
Tell him to stop play around and come out straight with you. Let him answer the big WHY and if he cant in a reasonable way, then i would say its time to move on.
All the best
2007-10-04 08:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature and probably jerking you around. I would call this a form of abuse. Forget him.
Your best way to combat this crud is to move on and have a good time... "Living well is the best revenge".
Make sure you are seen in the company of good, positive people. You don't have to have a "special guy" on your arm, just be seen in good company.
Believe me, you will look back on this and laugh.
The second thing... start analyzing your relationships... ask yourself what each person brings to the table. Do they bring heartache or drama? A shoulder to cry on? Are they a mooch? Do they bring insight and wisdom? Are they positive or a drag to be around? Everyone has to bring something to the buffet. What do you bring to the table?
When you assess all of this and how each person makes you feel, you will know who to spend more of your time with... which sets the stage for a better life.
2007-10-04 08:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It's just High School, and you are wasting your most fun years of your life. Get out there and just have fun in groups. Don't worry about just finding a new guy. It will happen. One month is too soon to hook up with someone else. Those never work, and are even more painful to deal with.
He's messing with you so he doesn't have to see you happy with someone else.
2007-10-04 08:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life as he sounds like the type who plays too many games and you will get hurt by him.You will be surprised of how you will get over him in time.Don't be so quick to get too involved with someone unless you are serious to keep up the relationship.Anyone who messes with someones feelings is not worth it
2007-10-04 08:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by mamaw2305 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you. Move on! It sounds like he's wanting to test the waters while you wait in the shadows. Life's too short...have fun and start going out with other people. The sooner you move on, the quicker your feelings for him will subside. good luck!
2007-10-04 08:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by business as usual 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being pathetic.... Have a little more self-confidence and make decisions that are better for you in the long-run... Dump him... Stop talking to him... Find a new boyfriend....
2007-10-04 08:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Joey_Pit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When someone starts messing with your head like that it is time to move on and not look back. It will get easier.
2007-10-04 08:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Don't waste your precious time/.feelings with that jerk.
2. You need to ask yourself why it is you still want to be with someone who treats you so poorly and why you think that's okay.
Because it's not. Not at all.
2007-10-04 08:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by asphaltjesus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first instinct was correct. You need to move on. Someone who screws around with your emotions like that isn't worth your time.
2007-10-04 08:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋