recently. i told 1 of my female close friend that i've liked her since high school. however she she said "she treats me as a really really good friend". more importantly, she still has feelings for her ex. i was wondering how do i go about with this problem, and is still worth trying to go after her, after being reject? hope you guys can help me out.
2007-10-04 08:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by maninevo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
............ Be as firend... It also happen to me now too. My one of female firend is my firend and she told my other firend that she like me ..... As firend.... not for real like as love.
2007-10-04 08:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by Zpider 20-0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want something you shouldn't give up, keep chasing after what you want. But for not just help her get through this time of difficulty. She'll see that your faithful and you stood by her when the hard time was hittin her and she'll reconsider. Its not called "rejection" really, because trust me "rejection" is much much more painful you got it easy, but right now just take care of her and what goes around comes around you be good to her she'll see what shes missing out and go after you
2007-10-04 08:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go after her anymore, it may scare her away completely, and you lose a possible love (if she will later on consider you), and a friend all in one fail swoop. Now that she knows where you stand, continue to be her friend and hopefully when she gets over her ex, she'll realize how sweet you are to have stayed around and were there for her for so long.
2007-10-04 08:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Do not try again because you are going to end up really hurt, if she still thinks about her ex then just keep the friendship but do not get yourself into something you will regret!
2007-10-04 08:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get over her because she aint worth chasing after if she gonna keep rejecting you and plus she still has feelings for her ex. and you should let her chase after you or find someone else."there's a lot of other girls in the world that would be your perfect match." hope you feel better...
2007-10-04 08:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by sAmOaN bRatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks liek she doesnt have those kind of feelings for you buddy. dont worry and hang in there someday she might get over her Ex and then the next person will be u. Girls see the small things most of us men dont see like caring for them, giving her medicines when she is sick, getting her food when she says to you that she is hungry, taking her out just for fun in parks. So just be urself and keep trying
all da best
2007-10-04 08:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, you guys will settle without finding out things for yourself. It's like your entire relationship is basically about yourself. So, talk to the girl and see if it's worth pursuing.
2007-10-04 08:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't interested, don't push the issue, especially if she still has feelings for someone else. (not that having feelings for an ex can be healthy in the long term.)
2007-10-04 08:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by ananvilhurtz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not very sure because i've never done that before looks like your on your own for this on sorry.... but if i was you i would leave your friends gf even if the sex is the best you have a wife and thats all you need!!!!!!
2016-05-21 00:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouln't go after her if she would like you then yes but if she has feelings for her ex then just wait if you rush it you could lose a possible girlfreind and friend, so just take it easy.
2007-10-04 09:03:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she made it clear that you were a friend so act like you have up until the moment you told her. She won't change her mind any time soon if at all.
2007-10-04 08:51:50 · answer #11 · answered by Christa K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋