i don't know what to do i care about them both but if i had to choose it would tear me apart.
2007-10-04 08:44:54 · 11 answers · asked by mrs.mitich 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive sort of pondered the same situation. Only i havent allowed myself to really date or love anyone else. Im afraid that if i start seeing another guy and falling in love with him, that my ex will come back.. and then ill have to choose. I couldnt stand hurting him, and it would be so aweful of me to toss my potential new guy aside... its just a terrible situation.
Id suggest for the both of us... that ex's ARE ex's for a reason. And there should be no such thing as semi-ex, or sort of an ex. once an ex... always an ex.
good luck girl
2007-10-04 08:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is called an ex for a reason and therefore you should keep it that way. If you are currently in love with someone now you should not jeopardize that for someone that didnt work out.
You should steer clear of her or him and make sure you let your current beau what is going on so they dont feel as if you want this other person. They would appreciate it if you are honest and make sure you let them know that the reason you are sharing this is because you do love them and you do not want to be with this other person and if they dont understand that you are trying to be honest then obviously they dont respect you at all.
2007-10-04 15:51:08 · answer #2 · answered by mom0f3boyz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your ex will probably not work out it also depends on why u 2 broke up to begin with. if it was a reason like distance well then maybe the ex but for the most part stick with the new guy. you havent gave him a chance yet unlike the ex good luck or u can ask them both to be with u. they might be ok with that
2007-10-04 16:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by whynot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont know what to do, dont do anything. This is a classic scenario from literature. Beginning with Eugene Onegin by Pushkin and also Woddy Allen's Manhattan it happens.
Maybe by reflecting on letterst answer you might have insight .? Or maybe you are enjoying the dual attention? Most guys do not want someone with another boyfriend so it may be decided for you
2007-10-04 15:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever love your ex the way you love the one your with right now? The fact is you moved on with your life and found someone better then your ex (if u didnt you would still with with him)
You need to chose before you lose both of them. Stay with the one your with. Like they said above me... your ex is an ex for a reason. Dont go back to him.
2007-10-04 15:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by applesauce 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were really in love with this person an ex coming back into your life wouldn't matter. You should start by reavaluating your current relationship and your feelings for this person.
2007-10-04 15:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kristian K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with an answer that says ur ex is an ex for a reason, and i really think that after breaking up with someone you have to be sure that it's totally over and that his reappearance in your life again won't change anything and ruin an existing relationship
2007-10-04 15:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a waste... Its not good to try and ride both sides of the fence, its selfish... You need to simply just make a decision and please remember that your ex is your ex for good reason... You will be lowering yourself to go back to what doesn't work and crush yourself to not get what you actually deserve with the new guy... Don't be a monster to yourself when you clearly know that your ex is a dead issue being that he is your ex...
2007-10-04 15:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Exactly, if things didn't work out before, can you be confident that they'd work out again unless whoever was the reason for the breakup did a major change? Other than that, it rarely works out, don't keep making the same mistake. Look to expierence something new with someone else in hopes that something good will come out of it.
2007-10-04 15:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You go no further in the current relationship until you deal with your feelings from your last one.
You never did and that's why you're feeling it now.
2007-10-04 15:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by desiresheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋