Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

okay. i use to be into drugs and all that and the other day my girlfriend knew that i had smoked a little before going to her house. i told her the truth and all that and she wasnt that upset about it which relived me. but now she doesnt trust me. she told me that her self, even though i dont deserve her trust cause i know i messed up. but how do i earn her trust back cause i love her and i cant stand her not being able to trust me. i need help on this really bad cause its getting to me. and give me real answer not smart *** ones. and i cant talk to her about it cause she told me not to bring it up anymore. please help. thanks alot.
peace, love, and bliss

2007-10-04 12:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by shireycw 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend never gave me one,i told him i would like to receive some but he says he doesn't like them....
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more pics on the bottom of the page ty

2007-10-04 12:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 12:25:03 · 3 answers · asked by aflood2005 1 in Singles & Dating

my hubby did that and i was wondering if it was?

2007-10-04 12:24:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Husband came home late last night because of working late. His shirt smelled like sweet perfume and he denied it. After pressing him he said "Oh maybe my Boss hugged me and she wears perfume." After he took a shower- he became mean and distant. Right before bed HE brought it up again saying he couldn't believe that it bothered me. This is the first I noticed the perfume smell.

2007-10-04 12:21:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive dated this girl on and off for about a year now, when its on, its passionate and fun but when its off, there is basically no communication until one of us decides to put our pride to the side. we had a huge fight about a month and a half ago and i have just gotten over some of the things she has done. we are talking again and she says she loves me, but she is reluctant to let me back in. i love this girl and i dont wanna lose her as a friend or lover, and if we are going to be friends how come she doesnt want to see me, isnt that what friends do?? helpme

2007-10-04 12:19:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im overweight!
im 14 years old , 4'11", and weigh 120!
how do i loose weight fast! because my bf doesn't like me because im fat!
goshhhhhhhhh........
plz help!

2007-10-04 12:19:15 · 5 answers · asked by blahh blahh 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got a dog and have been walking him for the past 2 weeks. (Every morning at 7, and then afternoon.)

Then suddenly my parents are highly banning me from taking my dog outside to the park with is not even a block away. I'm 14, and my parents don't let me go outside when it's not even dark (like 4 pm.) and so many people are outside.

They say they watched the news and heard that this girl got kiddnapped when she was walking her dog. How idiotic is that? Sure, being protective is okay, but when it's being overprotective, it just tires me out. Isn't that unfair? What should I do? I tired, and you know sometimes I just want to fall alsleep.

2007-10-04 12:19:04 · 7 answers · asked by ll 3 in Family

Been married for 6 yrs have 2 boys.After I had our youngest I went on antidepressants which decrease my libido.We havent been intimate in about 3 mos.On Monday I found out he went out with another woman to a nightclub.He had invited me to go but many years ago I used to party and drink a lot and I try to avoid those kinds of environments.I dont want to fall into it again.Once in a while we go out but that day didnt seem right to me.That afternoon before I told him I wasnt going out with him,he was installing cable in a house and met this young lady;they exchanged numbers supposedly because he was going to refer her for a job.When he found out I wasnt going he invited her.He ended up attracted to her.They had a good time,he took her home and kissed her,supposedly no sex.They went out to eat another day and he told her about me and that he just wanted to be friends.Im dying inside.Today he said he made it up to see how I will react.Anyone else think this is bull?Why 3 days later deny it?

2007-10-04 12:17:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been taking care of my wonderful stepson since he was 2 yrs old. He's now 6. (The mom was on drugs at that time and wanted her son to stay with dad) We both knew she was a loser and we never demanded any money from her all these yrs. Since that time she has had a 3 yr old girl and I just have my new son. Last year my husband took the mom to court to establish custody because the mom had got on Welfare a couple of times without our knowledge. Anyway its stablished that they split custody, she get's him in the summer. We did not file for child support because she begged us not to cuz she needed to find a place to live. It's been a year since then! She still lives with her boyfriends parents. She had a job for a hot second and then quit. We told her, it's time to pay at least $100 so we can put him in karate. She couldn't even do that she sends $85. What do we do? I'm fed up! Now that I am not working I feel that she should get a job and pay.

2007-10-04 12:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by Journey 3 in Family

My pictures to the right. be honest. I've been feeling odly ugly recently.

2007-10-04 12:15:53 · 20 answers · asked by Devin M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 12:14:41 · 16 answers · asked by Mj C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for almost 3 years and living together for a year & a half. I have 2 children at home. He has 2 children who are grown. He was married for 18 years. 7 of which they lived in that home. Am I wrong to not want to live there? We are not engaged & this would not be MY home.

2007-10-04 12:13:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I know someone that was into the drugs, gangs, and all the "good stuff". he has a gf and a kid. So he finally got thrown in jail, a year and a half later... He came out, now he's this changed person, he watches cartoons with his kid, takes him to the park, helps his grandma with housework, and cooks for his gf. He doesn't like to party anymore, he doesn't hang out with his "gansta" friends anymore or people that are into that way of living.

Now, I suppose that I'm the only person that doesn't do all that stuff that he knows (drugs, alchohol, crime, etc). So he keeps calling me... all the time. he wants to visit or hang out and I'm busy with college like all the time. calls me almost every day and several time during the weekend, but I never talk to him or answer the phone.

Whats with this guy? I think it's great he's changed but dammit... I'm busy, I have college and money to worry about. what am I supposed to do?

2007-10-04 12:11:20 · 6 answers · asked by Mr M 3 in Family

My wife is a sweet humble lady but is really lazy and unorganized. I have a tough sales job having to put in up to 60 hours / week (including time on the golf course with potential clients or just with friends.)

Almost every time I come home from work, from golf, or the bar my food is cold and she hasn’t gotten some of her chores done.

She’s a stay at home mom with our 3 kids. She’s got it made. All she has to do is “play house” with the kids while I’m busting my butt trying to bring home the bacon.

What really gets under my skin is the nights that when I get back from the bar. I usually try to get in early no later than 1:00 am. I almost always find that she still hasn’t finished her chores and she’s asleep not even waiting up for me!!!!!

I’ve done everything that I can to get her organized. I even used MicroSoft power point and Excel to make some charts and check off lists for her. To no avail though she is always behind the eight ball.

2007-10-04 12:10:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 12:09:50 · 5 answers · asked by fashion girl10 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi

My wife and I have been married for a little over a year. During this time we have never lived together as husband and wife. We have spent three weeks together. A week at a time. One week during the honeymoon. A week in December and most recently a week in June. My wife has filed for a divorce. I do not want a divorce. I want reconcilliation and for God to save and restore my marriage. My wife lives in Canada and me here in the US. I was denied entry into the country becasue of an event that occured 20 yeasr ago. We needed $1000 to complete a form that would get me into Canada but I could not raise that money and my wife did not want to help me. As I said she wants a divorce. I have researcehd the scriptures on divorce and remarriage exhaustively. I do not want to spend the rest of my life a single man. I am in my early 40's and this is my first marriage, her's too. I want to be able to remarry if the divorce goes through. Can I remarry under biblical grounds? Did my wife and I have a real marriage in the eyes of God? I feel like I am an innocent man. I did not commit adultery, abandon my wife, verbally abuse my iwife. I have been faithful and true to my wife but she wants a divorce so she can find someone else. I have been called to ministry and will this divorce prevent me? I love my wife and want to stay together. What can I or do I do?

2007-10-04 12:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by gregctee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 12:04:19 · 4 answers · asked by concerned 1 in Family

my husband is a roofer and owns his own business with his best friend. he came home 2 1/2 hrs after dark and swears he was working the whole time but how do you roof a house when its dark out? i just dont know if i can trust him. please only serious answers or i will turn you in.

2007-10-04 11:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by April 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend just broke the girl I loves heart. She liked him, and I liked her. He just plain out told her that she had no chance what so ever. She seemed crushed. I feel really bad about this and want to e-mail her and apologize because I feel like I was part of it because I spoke with my best friend on AIM about it and he know that she liked him and I loved her and he wanted to help me. So, I feel extremely bad. Should I send her an e-mail saying sorry for his actions and I kinda felt like I was a part of it? Any advice or ideas will help. Thanks in advance

2007-10-04 11:58:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 11:55:16 · 11 answers · asked by anonimo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone ...a number from China keeps calling me. And when I pick up, they just say stuff in Chinese that I don't understand. And even when I reject the call, they leave voicemails and calls me like five times everday! And I even got a creepy email from China today too. I'm so scared what do i do? And, just know this, I don't know anyone in China. I don't have any relatives there either!

2007-10-04 11:54:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am on disability and living at home with parents . court ordered these but I have no money.I Live in PA

2007-10-04 11:52:51 · 3 answers · asked by linda h 1 in Family

2007-10-04 11:49:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, that sounds a little mean. But, there's this guy who I just met at school in the beginning of August, and now he's all over me. I haven't led him on or anything. And I'm really not looking to date anyone right now, especially this guy because he's just not my type. He's always asking if I'll study with him outside of school and he asked for my number. I couldn't lie or anything, so I gave it to him. He said he was going to call me tomorrow to study over at my house, even though I'm reluctant about the whole thing. The main problem is just that he's obviously trying to take this to another level, and I don't feel comfortable doing that. I don't know how to hint that I want to just be friends. Please help! It would be greatly appreciated. Thanks to all who answer! =)

2007-10-04 11:39:55 · 7 answers · asked by oh geez 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's mom is stupid. plain out. no way around it.
I'll just tell you the story form start to finish. Summarized of course.

He woke up late for school, jumped in the shower, got out of the shower, his mom told him "clean your ******* room" he said he would, got dressed, cleaned up his room, it was moderatly clean, nothing special,started doing his hair (he did a half-A** job) mom came in "I thought I told you to clean your ******* room!" He said that he did and that he had to go, mom said "your not ******* going anywhere until you clean your room!" he said "so you want me to be late for school to clean something that I already cleaned?" she said yeah, so he grabbed his keys and walked out the door, as she was coming out, go toward the car at a fast pace, he drove off. Yeah I know, this sounds bad, but look what she does because he didn't "clean his room" he tried to call me at lunch, couldn't, wounldn;t go through, after school started walking to his car, wasn't there,

2007-10-04 11:39:22 · 6 answers · asked by Little Green One 1 in Family

2007-10-04 11:34:14 · 30 answers · asked by chi_south_kid1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 11:32:21 · 18 answers · asked by jenniferk5683 3 in Marriage & Divorce

go inside a girl. I know what it feels like when a guy is inside me. But what does it feel like for you? I was told that it felt like warm melted butter. What do you think?

2007-10-04 11:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-04 11:28:09 · 14 answers · asked by MRS.KB 1 in Marriage & Divorce