My boyfriend's mom is stupid. plain out. no way around it.
I'll just tell you the story form start to finish. Summarized of course.
He woke up late for school, jumped in the shower, got out of the shower, his mom told him "clean your ******* room" he said he would, got dressed, cleaned up his room, it was moderatly clean, nothing special,started doing his hair (he did a half-A** job) mom came in "I thought I told you to clean your ******* room!" He said that he did and that he had to go, mom said "your not ******* going anywhere until you clean your room!" he said "so you want me to be late for school to clean something that I already cleaned?" she said yeah, so he grabbed his keys and walked out the door, as she was coming out, go toward the car at a fast pace, he drove off. Yeah I know, this sounds bad, but look what she does because he didn't "clean his room" he tried to call me at lunch, couldn't, wounldn;t go through, after school started walking to his car, wasn't there,
2007-10-04 11:39:22 · 6 answers · asked by Little Green One 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tried to call me again, wouldn't go through, used his friends phone, called his brother, asked where his car was, he told him that his mom took it. So he walked home...here's where it gets good, he comes to the front of his house, finds all of his clothes ripped up, and on the floor, walks into his room and finds more clothes ripped up, all that's left? What he's wearing, a shirt, and his work clothes, took his i-pod, which really isn't his, and deactivated his phone.....Over a room that wasnt cleaned "her way?" something that he could have done when he got home?
Is it just me or is that way over the top?
Already suggested child services, or police. btw, she verbally abuses him, and is a foster mother.
What other options are there?
He can't run away (she'll let him, and take the car to) 10 mins later...she'll call the police report a runaway and a stolen car.
Help!
2007-10-04 11:44:33 · update #1
New news!!!!!
She just kicked him out of the house, he now has no clothes, btw, he's 17.
2007-10-04 11:51:22 · update #2
For those of you who are saying child services, she exagerates EVERYTHING!! they won't believe him, and it isn't just between him and his mom, I am involved, she has been acting like this recently, because of me, or what he did for me. He called off work for one day because he hasn't seen me for a month, and he always goes to work, that's the first time he's ever called off
2007-10-04 11:53:59 · update #3
can he live with a relative? he can call social services or something on her to get someone else involed to help.
2007-10-04 11:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sarahz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a "foster" parent, then this is not his mother. He needs to call the police to get his stuff back, if its his car, then she can't steal it. Then he needs to get div of family services involved and have himself removed from her care.
2007-10-04 12:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he should talk to the case worker in charge of his case and tell them what type of foster mom she is. Some people are in it only for the check every month sounds like she is one of them. Good luck I hope it all works out.
2007-10-04 11:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to help your boyfriend out then i suggest that you talk 2 his mother face to face....and tell her that she is wrong for being such a *****! that's not a mother she must have a problem.
2007-10-04 11:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by In love! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is between your boyfriend and his mom,There is nothing you can do about it.Just stay out of it.
2007-10-04 11:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....let him move in with you?
2007-10-04 11:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by hmmmm..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋