okay. i use to be into drugs and all that and the other day my girlfriend knew that i had smoked a little before going to her house. i told her the truth and all that and she wasnt that upset about it which relived me. but now she doesnt trust me. she told me that her self, even though i dont deserve her trust cause i know i messed up. but how do i earn her trust back cause i love her and i cant stand her not being able to trust me. i need help on this really bad cause its getting to me. and give me real answer not smart *** ones. and i cant talk to her about it cause she told me not to bring it up anymore. please help. thanks alot.
peace, love, and bliss
2007-10-04 12:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by shireycw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"peace, love and bliss" were that life were such in general! -You have to make that if you want it to happen, just as you have to regain/re-earn the girl's trust. That can only be done with time and proof - no more smoking, period, if you are serious about this girl
Goodluck honey...not easy, but doable!
Grace
2007-10-04 12:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she told you not to bring it up anymore, respect that and don't bring it up.
From now on, you need to behave yourself otherwise you might lose this young lady who means so much to you. Make yourself decide which is most important to you then stick to your decision. Is it her or getting stoned? You can't have both.
I think the best thing to do is prove to her that she can trust you. Actions speak louder than words.
2007-10-04 12:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really i've had 2 earn lots of trusts back (not cause of drugs) but what really works is 2 stand up a drugger or talk 2 her parents and any other ?s ill find them and help u
2007-10-04 12:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sam B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To earn trust takes time. There's nothing you can say at this point, or even physically do to make her trust you. If you don't screw up again, she will trust you, but over time.
2007-10-04 12:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by ~Josie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not being smart...but why dont you Quit ? Theres an ol saying that goes....." Action speaks louder then words " ....Show her she can trust you.....if its for real...but dont play games with her...she will only resent it the more.....being honest is always best...but honesty starts with you..First !!!!
2007-10-04 12:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude tell her you love her and that you miss someone to have around and you feel 1/2 without her and she compleates you without trust this relationship wouldnt be what it once was.
always works =]
2007-10-04 12:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by Al A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋