Family & Relationships - 4 October 2007

Before u jump to the conclusion that i'm sleeping with them, I'm not, and havent kissed either yet....all I'm doing is going on dates with them at different times to get to know both (without either girl knowing of the other), because I really like both of them. Is this morally wrong?......to me it's like shopping around before u finally buy...in other words i want to make sure of the girl before i jump into a relationship...

2007-10-04 10:38:19 · 52 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

That way it's easier to keep the house and stuff.
(not me)

2007-10-04 10:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by joezen777 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and ma boyfriend have been together for about 3 1/2 years and i love him hes been ma first in everything im a virgin and i want him to be ma first but everytime all ma friends said they were ready they regret it and i want this to be the best thing to happen to me but i dont want to regret it i know im ready just want to be abousutly certain

2007-10-04 10:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by ricanchick1020 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is your personal way of dealing with an aweful mother-in-law? I love my man, but DANG she is so manipulative toward him and our relationship is suffering. How do you deal??

2007-10-04 10:33:50 · 12 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-04 10:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my bff Andrea just got a new boyfriend 2 days ago.She takes me everywhere.! Like wherever she goes at school like lunch,bathroom,class whatever she's allways like come on.! And then she waits for her boyfriend to come out of class because we get out before him and she just exepts me to come.Well i don't want her boyfriend to think i wait on her every second of the day like i'm her betch ? I just don't want him thinking i'm nosy.And i don't want Andrea to think that either.But i don't rele have a problem going with her everywhere cause hey.! It gives me something to do on my free time.But idk ... my friends are usually pulling me away from guys and Andrea just brings them with her.! lol so we're kinda crazy together and don't care about people around us.We push 'em outta our way.We also have our other people which are Racheal and Racheal.So its me,Andrea,Racheal and Racheal.Thats our "crew" lol well come on.! talk to meh

2007-10-04 10:25:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like if a girl wears a certain perfume.....or just has a certain smell (hair shampoo) or something, do guys find that attractive. Like guys out there that have a g/f or wife, what are your favorite perfumes or shampoo that your wives and g/fs wear.

2007-10-04 10:21:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our colors are pink and brown!!! Need ideas for decorations and favors any ideas???

2007-10-04 10:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband has another woman in our home sleeping with her.
He moved her in 3 days after I went to see my daughter for a visit.I talked to a lawyer and he says I have to catch them in bed.Well i'm going to bust in there one morning so I can catch him.Should I take an officer with me in case he gets violent?

2007-10-04 10:09:33 · 25 answers · asked by RS47 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Not only does my mother-in-law buy/spend way too much for my kids for Christmas and their birthdays, but gives them presents all the time throughout the year. Every time we see her we're coming home with a bag of toys (she lives in town and sees the kids 2-3 times a month). I dread the holidays and the kids' birthdays because they are all one month apart, and I have way to many new things to find a place for.
My mother-in-law is not rich, and has actually put their family in thousands of dollars worth of debt multiple times with her uncontrolable spending.
She probably spends twice as much on the kids as we do for the holidays, and WAY more than my parents who are very poor.
I think I may be able to put up with it if half of the presents were clothes, but they are not. The kids are in need of clothes throughout the year, and she never asks about what they need.
Is it wrong to put a limit on her spending for the holidays and such?

2007-10-04 10:08:35 · 9 answers · asked by megansmom112902 2 in Family

well i get annoying..i dont like being quite i am the loud type..i want ppl to stop hating me for dat..i act the way i am..&& cuz of dat alot of guys think im annoying..i am quite and normal sometimes..but they think im so annoying..mah friends get much annoying && they dont tell them stuff..im in high school i am a fishy(freshman) am 15..the problem is dat every class i go to there is like 2 or 1 kid dat cant stand me..i have a tongue piercing and three star tattoo in my leg..&& they think i am a lesbian..im am straight && they dont get it..i love colorful stuff && they also dont get that..i wish a bomb fall on them,&& they could die n leave me da "f" alone....everything i do i feel like there is always someone dat need to tell me stuff even my family..wat can i do??

2007-10-04 10:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by Lil Skittles 3 in Friends

I live with my babyfather grandmother and i have 1 child who is five months. I pay her 180.00 a month and buy my own food. Me and my babyfather was going to get an apartment together but that didnt work out because we had spilt thats when my daughter was 3 months. I dont understand the bull **** because everybody know what going on with me and i dont even know half the people that she be telling my business too.Shes a very sneakie person, when i get on the phone she listen to everything thst im saying but never get the story right.

2007-10-04 10:04:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The couple next door have a strange relationship. He works 60+ hours a week then when he comes home begins work again on the house. It is absolutely pristine/state of the art and he does it all for her. She does not work, drives around in the car he's paying for, he's paid for her new breast implants, hair, nails ... When he attempts to make love to her she cruelly rejects him - I believe he's given up on that altogether. I hear him rowing with her begging to know "who is it?" She always accuses him of being paranoid. However I regularly see a big handsome black man coming round at lunch times for about an hour a couple of times a week. Two days ago I put my ear to the wall and heard passionate, raunchy sex, groans squeeky bedsprings etc. I am taken aback I cannot believe the ordacity of her behaviour. What should I do, I feel I want to let him know or is it non of my business????? Opinions please!!!!! They have a 14 yr old son, been together for 15 years.

2007-10-04 10:03:55 · 41 answers · asked by jules61 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive asked a couple of questions about rude in-laws.My mother and sister-in-law want to take our children when me and my hubby are gone on our 7 day get away. We've told them NO on about 4 occassions (because of different circumstances). Weve offered to pay for the trip (airfare and lodging) to come see the kids while were gone. My brother and his wife +their 3 kids are coming. My brother's mil might come as well (were paying for their rental car and gas). My mother and grandmother are coming as well. My mil got mad at me especially since my hubby laid it all out there for them. I send them pictures of the kids, and they talk on the phone with our eldest child. Weve NEVER denied her access to our children. Well NOW, she (my mil) is talking about getting a lawyer and seeking court appointed visitation in her home in a different state. Can she legally do this?

2007-10-04 09:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by navywife_2001 3 in Family

Getting married soon, and struggling with a song for the recessional. We have an instrumental piano for the processional.
I am thinking something along the lines of "Angel" by Sarah McLachlan, minus the dark theme of drug addiction or whatever it is about.
Any ideas? Umm and no I don't think we will go with "Another one bites the dust"

2007-10-04 09:54:58 · 8 answers · asked by GW 1 in Weddings

2007-10-04 09:52:27 · 2 answers · asked by simple as me 1 in Weddings

2007-10-04 09:45:45 · 11 answers · asked by purplepansymama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 37, married... unhappily. My husband and I have been and continue to be total opposites! Even our jobs are so totally opposite. I met this guy that works in my field,and we have so many things in commom, but live about 100 miles away. I think about him a lot. I enjoy his company so much and I really respect him as a person, in his job, etc.

Part of me feels like it could be "that person I was meant to be with". We just click so well. I could see us fitting so comfortably.

It feels like he keeps making excuses to call me, and see me. And the excuses are all work related. I have even had other people tell me that he has complimented me ALOT to other people. Including my boss, he called to tell her what a great person I am and how good of a job I do.

I am worried that if I got the chance to cheat, that I would take it. And neither of us are the type to do that. But I keep seeing this happen, should I take the chance? Should I address it with him?

2007-10-04 09:45:27 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a very high sex drive...its never enuf i want it all the time but i always feel guilty afterwards and find reasons not to enjoy it when i get going? why is this? y cant i just enjoy it ??

2007-10-04 09:42:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have lived on my own with my child for 7 years.......

I then meet someone that I really feel I could live with and love for the rest of my life, let him move in little girl loves him but 4 months down the line I can't take it any more.......living with someone that is!

Am I strange or is anybody else that set in their ways that it becomes impossible to let anyone in!!!

I've asked him to leave and the relief is tremendous because I am back to being on my own again -

What the hell is wrong with me??????

2007-10-04 09:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by EMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

if im not there, so im always affraid
I am 21 years old now and his alcoholism is affecting our family. I am a third year college student and im also prelaw. I love school, howver find it very hard to concentrate when all i can think about is that at home he might be drunk again.

When he used to drink and get upset he got violent with my mom a couple of times, and the next day didn't remember a thing, well that is all behind us now and he swears up and down that he is done drinking for good. this last about 3 weeks at the most, and then its back again. Im always walking on eggshells to make sure that they don't fight, to consol my mom and to make sure he's not angered because I knwo what that leads to.

Im writing this with tears in my eyes because i simply don't know that to do anymore, I want him to stop but am afraid to even bring it up when he is sober because I don't know what he will act like. I sit at school with fear that at home they will fight or that he will drink.

2007-10-04 09:42:00 · 21 answers · asked by jm 3 in Family

so my fiance is a skateboard guy and id like to know where i can find unique wedding cake toppers? thanks!
or where can i get a costum made one -

2007-10-04 09:40:17 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i really like this guy in school and.... im not sure if he likes me back. I mean he has given me some signs but overall not much. but i will still always like him cuz he is nice to me and hes smart and ohh gosh dnt even get me started about how cute he is. Well at lunch today, one of my best friends(we r rely close) told me that she thinks he likes her. that i guess i was ok with until about 10 mins later she said to me...I hope he likes me. and i said why? and she said, I like him back. I just sat there trying not to cry b/c she nos how much i like him. I got my stuff, got up and walked over to sit with my other friends at a different table. I couldnt STAND to be near her any longer.I didnt care that she might feel bad now.. that wasnt enough. I was soo FURIOUS... later i wrote a nasty letter to her and put it in her locker. I hoped... that she would feel terible after reading it. Is this wrong for me to feel like this????????????

2007-10-04 09:39:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the second the phone rings and you start chatting to yr mates the kids start acting like ferral cats going wild jumping all over well just misbehaving lol why do they do this ??

2007-10-04 09:37:45 · 24 answers · asked by robertboozychic 4 in Family

my gf and i are on this tiresome ldr and i would relaly wanna make it work. one of the thing that i came accross the internet was that both of us have to have some relationship goals. please let me know what do you think should be my goals. thanks in advance,

2007-10-04 09:37:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How should I do it so that I don't have any
problems? How can I sneak a black woman?

2007-10-04 09:36:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Awhile ago my wife of three years and I decided to have a child, I always have dreamed of starting a family and from what she has told me over the years it seemed like she did aswell. So it had been several weeks into the pregnancy and I had to do one more small business trip and then I would be taking several months off to support her. When I got back from the trip though, my wife confessed to me that she had an abortion while I was away. ( Before this she had never mentioned anything about getting an abortion or even being depressed about the pregnancy. ) I was very disturbed that she would do this to our child without even talking to me about it. I have tried to not let this effect our relationship but I havent been able to look at her the same way since she did this. She has also been very cold to me since I have gotten back. Did I do something wrong? :(

2007-10-04 09:36:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

probably cause he has my genes lol....I'm very sweet!

2007-10-04 09:34:13 · 4 answers · asked by foxxybabe0430 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-04 09:33:53 · 16 answers · asked by BubblegumFighter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Every time he's out with his wife she ignores him. They can be grocery shopping or taking a walk at the park and it's usually her suggestion, but she tries walking faster than him. One time they were in the store and she was walking ahead of him so he asked her to slow down and she turned around and screamed, "I DON'T KNOW YOU, THAT'S MY PURSE!" and he was arrested and was forced to spend the weekend in jail. He loves her intently, and she loves him too, but every time they are outside of their apartment she pretends she doesn't know him! EVERY TIME!
Of course he doesn't help with the situation because he likes to walk around pecking his head like a chicken (and even periodically crows like a rooster), but that's just one of his "tics" that he can't help. She knows that!
What can I suggest to him?

2007-10-04 09:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce