well i get annoying..i dont like being quite i am the loud type..i want ppl to stop hating me for dat..i act the way i am..&& cuz of dat alot of guys think im annoying..i am quite and normal sometimes..but they think im so annoying..mah friends get much annoying && they dont tell them stuff..im in high school i am a fishy(freshman) am 15..the problem is dat every class i go to there is like 2 or 1 kid dat cant stand me..i have a tongue piercing and three star tattoo in my leg..&& they think i am a lesbian..im am straight && they dont get it..i love colorful stuff && they also dont get that..i wish a bomb fall on them,&& they could die n leave me da "f" alone....everything i do i feel like there is always someone dat need to tell me stuff even my family..wat can i do??
2007-10-04 10:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by Lil Skittles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be true to yourself thats all you can do....if people don't like it then screw them.....but if your true self says "dat" all the time I am going to go with everyone else becasue that is annoying.
2007-10-04 10:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1] high school frequently sucks. The kids are cliquish, the ones who aren't are still biased.
People this age frequently 'sort' others into a category, because it makes them feel safe if everyone has a label.
Immature, but it happens.
2] Don't worry about the kids who 'can't stand you'. Narrow minded people are frequently insecure, so they pick on others.
3] don't worry about being 'loud' but do it appropriately. Be loud when funny, not when controversial. You will always have people who like and dislike you [ and vice versa ], they just won't be as blatant about it.
4] be better than them. Don't talk about people [ gossip] if it is harmful, unless it is a conversation with person you trust.
5] if you can make parents happy [ good grades, chores, behave self ], teachers happy [ be a good student, behave in class ], the your peers are just gravy.
6] the BIG ADULT SECRET: peoplewho say high school is the best time of your life, are not winners! Nobody I went to high school with who was cliquish or belittled people, turned out well in the real world.
7] you are way ahead of me - I didn't get accused of being a lesbian until nursing school [ never dated, worked and went to school ].
PS: don't want to hurt feelings, but skip the dat stuff - regular laguage is much easier to get thru.
2007-10-04 20:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
am also a loud type try and make them understand dat dats how u are am also in high skool but 14 ma mates infact the whole skool hated me they say am annoying and rude but then i came out and said ma mind told dem to give me a chance and i would make it up to them it was embrasin but they did give a chance show dem who u re tell dem its ur nature dats how u re wish u best of luck hope i helped a lot
2007-10-04 17:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by A2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start changing little by little. Everyday, smile and say something nice to someone. It doesn't have to be something big, just something like, "Hey, I like your shoes, they're awesome." Everytime you want to say something loud or obnoxious, stop yourself and don't say anything. Always think about what you say before you say it. Before long, people will start to accept you for the new you and you'll start making more friends. Just try it!
2007-10-04 17:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say good for you for being yourself and not caring what those bone heads think. at least you have a personality unlike those loosers. are there some people who appreciate you? if so, i would just focus on them and ignore the haters. and believe me hon, your family will never stop trying to control your life. so get use to that. just love them anyway, and tell them, this is how i am so please try to accept me and stop criticizing me just because i'm not like you. this is what i told my mom and it helped.
2007-10-04 17:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people think I am annoying, too. I don't get it, I don't see myself as annoying, but I guess its the other people's problem. Move on, find friends that will accept you for who you are, and ignore the jackass's stares and insults.
2007-10-04 17:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Krista 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ppl say tht but me too just dont listen 2 thm they r prob thinking that there all cut but whatev.. dont listen to them... go to there bf and kiss him and they will not think that bout u...u sound cool! who cares if they hate u .... a lot of ppl hate me 2 and i created a list of things never to do to me... mayb u should... ppl tell me im uncool for not liking hollister and that i like being original... yah... ppl r stupid so just b urself!
2007-10-05 13:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. BooBoo Stewart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well heres the deal if u have friends then dont worry about it because if ppl can not accept you the way you are then they are not wroth caring waht they think about you
2007-10-04 17:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by Bailey T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋