what are the signs that your husband has another women?

Answer 1

There everywhere. You just have to look. I'm sure if your gut is telling you something than there is something going on.#

Answer 2

Changes in his schedule. Used to come home at a certain time and now having to work late or take trips for work. Phone calls that he has to leave the room to talk to the person and this isn't how he used to take phone calls. On the computer alot and when you walk into the room he shuts the screen down. Changes in his appearence, dressing a bit different, hair cut maybe done differently.. Seems to be happier in his own way. Defensive if asked where he is going and when he will be home. Changes in his attitude in general..The signs are usually there, but we tend not to want to see it so we ignore them. Look things over carefully, and do so more than just a day or so. And think about it long and hard before approaching the situation.. Could make a major change in your life that you may not be ready for... Good Luck

Answer 3

At the beginning of an affair the mate that is cheating is more attentive to his spouse. This is due to guilt that the cheater may be feeling at the time.

After the affair has been going on for a while the person cheating seems to find fault with the person he/she may be living with to try to justify the affair in their mind.

Cheating spouses may lose attention in the activities in the home. They don't show interest in the livelihood of you or the children that live in the home. Nor do they have any desires to do any fix-ups to the home (i.e. lawn care, house repairs, etc.....)

Intuition (gut feeling) that something is not right usually is a sign you may have a cheating problem "when in doubt check them out".

Cheaters may have a change in sex life (i.e. more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.

The cheater has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, especially the mate (i.e. if he/she didn't act the way they do, well then maybe I wouldn't be doing the things I do).

Another sign is "Finances". "If someone wants to play they have to pay" therefore keeping an eye on their monies (i.e. check stubs, bank account balances, credit card bills, etc...) would tell you whether their spending more money than usual.

Grooming habits will change. Cheaters will be more attentive to their person (e.i. the way they dress, frequent bathing, physical fitness, grooming of their hair, switching of colognes, etc...).

Physical signs to look for to determine whether or not someone is having an affair is lipstick on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume on a shirt/blouse, checking underwear for secretion stains. You can also check their wallets and/or the glove compartments of their car to see if they left receipts, pieces of paper with phone numbers, addresses, condoms, etc.

You may want to monitor your spouse for two weeks. During this time keep track of the mileage on their car. Monitor the time they leave for work and the time they come home. Keep a calendar and note the times, this should help you establish a pattern. If your mate claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify this overtime.

Be tuned in to home telephone calls when your mate has a tendency to whisper or gives a quick answer and immediately hangs up or when you answer the telephone and get an abrupt hang up.

Many cheaters use cellular telephones to communicate with their lovers. Should your mate have a cellular telephone you may want to get a detailed billing of the calls made from the cellular phone to determine whether a certain number has been frequently called. A good area to start looking is for the first number called when your mate first leaves for work and the same number called again right before they return home.

You may have already know what he is doing it.

Answer 4

I am one to assist you with this:
Men are what we consider Stupid (smile) they do the same things all the time. WE can cheat for years and no one will ever know unless we tell them.
First, locking or not allowing you to c his cell phone
Hiding the bill or putting a lock on the bill so you cant see it
Starting caring about how he looks more than often most of them don't if you have been together a while
Start agreements so he can leave
there you have it.
Some will even hint they are having an affair like joking around or something some are bold hunny!!!

Answer 5

#1 sign is he is distant from you. Has a hard time being alone with you. If his phone rings and he leaves the room and comes back with some excuse why he left, can't get in touch with him throughtout the day when you used to be able to, wants to spend time with friends, works late or odd hours. Remember this is the key **if he has another woman he wants to be with HER so his goal is to get away from you. He may also give more attention to his looks, cologne, clothes, etc.....

Answer 6

There are times when he can't be reached. He comes home smelling like soap. He has conversations on the phone that end quickly when you enter the room. He might even be nicer to you because he feels guilty. You find receipts for places you haven't been together. Unexplained amounts on credit card statements. He doesn't want sex as often, or he could want it more so he doesn't feel guilty. He comes home later and later from work. When you call he keeps it short and ends the call. He smells like a woman.

Answer 7

Is he gone all the time and says he is working late? Is he distant? Defensive? Don't be to paranoid though because there maybe a logical answer to how he is acting. If you can't talk to the one person that you decided to spend the rest of your life with, who can you talk to? Be honest and if what you think is true then get out of the relationship because most likely if he did it once he will do it again. You deserve to be happy, with him or without him. Good Luck

Answer 8

Well, if he starts to "work late", if he gets odd phone calls in the middle of the night. If he leaves for work too early. If he goes on new business trips for the weekend that he never did before. If he is starting to worry about his weight and starts exercising. If he is interested in his hair more or his clothes, or heck starts wearing cologne.
Just a few tips for ya. Hopefully he doesn't have another woman, but we girls usually have a good intuition about it. Trust your gut feeling.

Answer 9

Secretive behavior, like being on the computer late at night, hiding phone bills, taking up a new "hobby" that requires weekend trips away from home, losing weight or taking more care of his appearance. New clothes. Unexplained missing cash.

Answer 10

Working late more often
Is not as interested in sex with you
Hides his cell phone
Gets off the phone as soon you enter the room
He 'forgets' to put on his wedding ring
He starts picking fights over little things to make you look bad

Answer 11

None are concrete but here's a few I noticed.
Changing to a different/better underwear..keeping hygiene completely up and wearing cologone more... unexplained money shortages, "working longer at nights". unexplained gaps in time all come to my mind..oh and the same number called on the cell phone and you have no idea who it is at unreal business times as well.