Last night i went to back to school night at my former high school(i now attend college). I just went to see old teachers, friends and that sort of stuff. Anyways I was talking to my former math teacher who i am very close to and she made me realize that i need to get away from the things at high school and start gettin involved at my college. Thing is with my busy schedual with my classes then going to work, I dont have any time to join extra activities to try to get to know other people. I really want to start getting my mind in college but its hard to let the past go. I really dont know what to do its verry hard for me to do this sort of thing. I am the kind of person who is laid back and does what she has to do in life. Thats really the way i was brought up, but im also the shy type. I dont know. When I talk to my friends about it they really dont seem to understand. All they do is agree. I just need someone to get me through this. Im afraid to ask for help because im afraid to be classified as someone who is juvinille or immatture. I dont know if this is making any sense but this is whats going on and I need some help.
2007-10-04 02:16:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your past is your past. You will always have it, but you can never bring it back. Its just a memory now. If you don't move on than this will be your memory. Is that what you want? You say your friends don't understand. From your message here it looks like you don't either. Move on. Keep your memory's, & make new ones too. #
2007-10-04 02:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just take their own time to find their "groove" Being laid back and shy is not a bad trait. Although it might not always "mesh" too well with certain types of college life. Plus college coupled with work can be quite tiring and it's no wonder you haven't found "where you fit in" just yet. If you are afraid you might be missing out on something just make up your mind and "do it" Don't over think when you don't have to. If you didn't like what you tried you can always be shy again ;)
2007-10-04 02:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tom L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you have time to visit your old high school, but not time to join a club? You see where I'm going with this right? You MAKE time for what's important. Your teacher is right, you need to get more involved.
Maybe even try Greek life if your campus has sororities and fraternities. You'll find such a diverse group of women, lots of different personalities, strengths and weaknesses. They can help bring out the best in you.
You're only in college once, so have fun and enjoy life for a while. You'll have the rest of your life to work.
2007-10-04 02:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with what you're doing. When it's your time to leave things behind you will, in your timing. Do what makes you comfortable but in between time keep your eyes open to meeting others, through work or in school. Little by little you'll see that things are changing. There are no rules to when or how old you need to be to change. The old teachers are the ones that are probably hinting to you to move on for their own personal reasons. Just remember go "where you are wanted..."
2007-10-04 02:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People suck. Social 'normality' is not all it is cracked up to be. Think about what you want to be doing after college, pick your classes and set up your schedule to do the best you can. If you have time, take something like bowling or underwater basket weaving to just have fun and meet people without much pressure for a grade. Maybe an internship on an organic local farm....;-)
Never went to college, and I'm stuck in the future. The past and present tend to be occupied by idiots. I can IMAGINE they will be smarter after the schools they attend, but I don't have much hope for it...
2007-10-04 02:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
College takes some getting used to after high school. It's a different environment. You will adapt. Find an activity that isn't time consuming or join a sorority.
2007-10-04 02:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by CC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 05:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by larrinaga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you grow older things will just starting falling in place on their own. why are you panicing over living that past?? if you still feel young at heart, do what the youngs do and later move on with time.
2007-10-04 02:25:31 · answer #8 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not stuck in the past. You need motive............ you need to move out of routine life............you think there isn't an time............actually, you are losing your time by thinking into the past. try to organize your time and make fun and active things as part of your calendar.
good luck
2007-10-04 02:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by My-E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking over your sholders, your future lays ahead of you!!!
2007-10-04 02:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by happywjc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋