Right, there's this woman you've known and liked for a while. Finally after months of flirting, you go out and have a great time and she kisses you. All good so far. She returns to her city...far from where you live and you chat few days later..she wants to meet up but you're pensive and no decision is made . Then YOU contact her few days later but dont mention meeting up or the kiss. Its very friendly thought and she's not asking to meet you or coming on strong. Say you're a very laid back man..what is the meaning of this behaviour. Does it mean you only want her as a friend or you're trying to digest the new status of your relationship? Do you have feelings for her?
2007-10-04 01:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by this girl wants to know 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she came strong on you, means she really likes you. but its up to u whether you got feelings for her.... or either you make ur mind up oresle will be too late....but it depends if thats the QUALITY you like. BEAUTIFUL...how she treat it you? i tell u...dont lead her on....u have to follow ur true heart....its all about communication.......talking about communication....if this woman keep on contacting u or chasing after u....there is ur answer....let her know if ur not interested in by email...or txt...be a man...!!!
Laid back man....easy go and easy come....Follow y
our heart...Does the kiss means anything?
you said you like her for while. but its sounds to me that there is a possibility that you might have feelings for her. I meant no one can make decision for you.....is how u feel in deep inside of your feelings....picture yourself in the future with this woman...love perspective criteria...word LOVE is a strong thing within partnership. For example....book of Solomon love song in bible >>>>Kiss me with the kisses of your mouth, because your love is better than wine, That's why the young woman love you. The smell of your perfume is pleasant, and your name is pleasant like expensive perfume<<<<<<<
ask yourself.... i think if you got feelings for her....(1st) flirting...(2nd) kiss....(3rd) coming on strong....because infact that .....she wil always be loyal towards u... she feels like she found the one she love... ......or either start with a friends to form a new relationship.take it slow..... if this means something dont rush it or u crush it... she chose u to be the 1....good luck.....wish for the best of decision making....
2007-10-04 02:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by ''Queen of Heart" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your jumping to far ahead talking about "the new status of your relationship". If hes a laid back kinda guy then hes probably not sweating it half as much as you are. Play it cool and don't make the same mistake all girls make by making a guy that likes to take things slow regret even hooking up with you because your trying to rush things to quickly. Just wait for the next time you guys are together and maybe bring up something like "Are you seeing anybody ?"
The last thing you wanna do is scare him.
2007-10-04 02:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man you describe has a balanced, calm outlook and personality. Rather than blasting her with texts and calls, he is letting things take a natural course. He is also accepting that night for exactly what it was, one great evening.
If he is interested in seeing this woman again, he will ask when the time feels right. If he is not interested in becoming committed or leading her on, he will simply let it fade away.
It is difficult to tell if he has interest in this woman (you?)
2007-10-04 02:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we go to the seaside, and we get changed into our trunks... do we just dive straight in, regardless of the consequences? NO, some of us are less reckless, and want to be sure of what were getting ourselves into.
sex, and relationships are the same.. yes, some folks hump five minutes after they meet... and even more dont.
this isnt reluctance, or being scared of women... believe it or not, some of us, DON'T see you all as sex machines...there for our amusement and instant gratification... some of us actually see woman as people...
and good relationships like wine, develop and mature.. coz when its good, we all want it to last forever...
my younger brother spends his life screwing around.... hes 45, got no family, got no kids.... and not much of a life outside getting wasted and working...
im 50, and have been with the same woman for 26 years, we have kids, and a life...
some folks are happy with cheap plonk, i want something with a little longevity and class...
and im sure so do an awful lot of other guys
2007-10-04 02:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like the question I keep seeing on here just worded differently.
If you are interested and it looks as though it is worth pursuing, go for it.
If not, forget it and find someone else.
2007-10-04 02:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Up Up Up, firstly I wouldn't have feelings for someone with whom I had only met on one occassion. Secondly sounds to me like this woman is putting a little too much into what was a little kiss to say thanks.
2007-10-04 02:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can truly understand your partner or the one you like is to talk openly to eachother.
Guessing and assuming will get you no where!
2007-10-07 02:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm well i would say thay he wants to take in wot has happened needs a bit of time.
2007-10-04 02:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are not trying to sound easy and wanna play hard to get
2007-10-04 02:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably dont wanna travel as costs a lot of money and time.
prob wants someone closer to home.
or just taking it slowly, no point rushing.
2007-10-04 01:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Paul S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋