why is my boyfriend stubborn and does what is right for him why is he a BASTARDDDDDD
2007-10-04 02:12:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no i dont paticularly hate him i love him very much and when he says he loves me to and wants to marry but he just does thing when he wants and how he wants and i hate that
2007-10-04 02:47:07 · update #1
I think the real question is "Why is he your boyfriend?". If you feel so strongly negative to him, why are you still with him? "Hate" is an extremely strong word...if you "hate" him, end the relationship. It is not doing either of you any good.
~Kat
~Edit~
So, you gave everyone thumbs down. What do you want to hear? "He is a jerk, because all men are jerks..."? No. You are the one throwing a fit. Relationships are about COMMUNICATION. Clearly, with all the pent up anger you are expressing here, it doesn't sound like you two are talking. Sit down and talk to him....you need to clear the air, calmly and rationally, not using abusive language, name calling or "Hate".
If you want to save the relationship, work with him on the things that have you so angry. Talk it out, work it out.
2007-10-04 02:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound very upset hon.....have you told your bf how upset he has made you feel? If he isnt listening then he is stubborn or not worthy to have you. Everyone makes mistakes...and if you have been with him awhile, thats the time that you both find out more about eachother. Like newlyweds do. They fight and learn whats really in the heart of their loved one.
Dont give up too fast, some fights take time to heal. I have learned that telling your bf how you feel, why he is hurting you, if he could think about it, give him time then see what happens. If there is no change then he is not the one for you. no one deserves to be hurt over and over again. I wish you the best and that all works out between you two
2007-10-04 02:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is such a silly question.
Why didn't you just make a post asking for sympathy from other females?.........Well, in fact that's what you have done.
So, you boyfriend is stubborn.....Wont he abide by your whims & fancies all the time? Wont he allow you to rule the roost?
Leave. I'm sure he'll be happy about that.
2007-10-04 02:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way about him, maybe you should start referring to him as your "ex boyfriend".
2007-10-04 02:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are you with this person if you talk about him like that??
2007-10-04 02:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by ruebezahl2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hate him that much why are you with him?
2007-10-04 02:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lack of respect,
2007-10-04 03:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just is..like you said a bastard..maybe hes not serious about you?
2007-10-04 02:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by tara jcrest 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's your BOYFRIEND.........you aren't legally bound to him!
LEAVE HIM!
2007-10-04 02:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU FEEL THAT WAY WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM?
2007-10-04 03:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋