I was just curious if this is the norm. I looked at other questions and it seems to be, plus I asked my parents and talked to my friends. I've been in college since the end of August and my roommate is really nice. But we barely talk anymore. We were really close the first and second night we moved in together, but now it seems to have gotten so much more quieter. Plus, I feel like she is always eying me and being curious about what I am doing when I am minding my own business at my desk and my side of the room.
I talked to her about it and told her I was shy and I just run out of things to say and she said it was okay and that she had been really busy lately. But whenever I tried to bond with her, she always bails on me. Like, I figured we'd watch Desperate Housewives together when it premiered and she left. So the next day I just told her that Edie didn't die and she got all weird like, "Don't tell me! *Laugh* I haven't watched it yet!"
2007-10-04 02:07:44 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So yeah. We get along, but she is always so distant and when I do try to talk to her she always gives me short sentences like, "Oh," and "Yeah." Is this normal? I think she's nice and I don't want to move out because we have the best room in the whole dorm - no suitemates!
2007-10-04 02:08:53 · update #1
i think she like you , but something is stands between you two , some habbit of you is dislike by her better talk with her directly
2007-10-04 02:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Siva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 05:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by ritzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go thru life expecting everyone to like, or to compremise yourself for that reason, your on the rite track, get your education!!
2007-10-04 02:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and party together, having to help your stumbling roomate home is a bonding experience
2007-10-04 02:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by excelsiorgtr420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is a bit shy too.
2007-10-04 02:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by Severus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋