Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

I was in touch with a man for 8 long months, in a few times we became very good friends and he used to call me daily. Then a time came when I was supposed to go abroad 4 6months but he proposed me a day ahead when I was supposed 2 leave. I told him that I donot know what love is but I do care from u from the depth of my heart n if my parents agree then u would b the man whom I would like to marry, since u r my best friend. After I went abroad I used to keep in touch with him and even he used to do the same, everytime I used to care 4 him, he kept on saying me that he loves me, n I told I cant go against my parents wish, but if they agree I would like 2 marry u, n hence4th say u ILU after marriage since these words r only my hubby, but every time I used to care 4 him n keep in touch. But after I came back from abroad, suddenly he stopped calling me, I think he has got other gals as his friends, nor responded to my call, recently he went abroad, but did not even took a pain to inform me.

2007-09-23 03:35:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in any situation.

2007-09-23 03:32:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i go out with the sweetest guy i have ever met and my mom and dad just think hes not the right guy im a freshmen and hes a senior. so what age is just another number and we really like each other.

2007-09-23 03:32:32 · 13 answers · asked by we make it good. 1 in Singles & Dating

Can a gal get pregnant if she has sex with a guy but he's wearing a condom but the condom breaks slightly on the mid side and he doesn't ejaculate?

2007-09-23 03:32:12 · 20 answers · asked by Bi 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my spouse had been through some bad times as well as good. We had got back together after a short separation. Now we are both living back together for the past 5 months and now things are starting to start out as they used to be before the separation. I have a feeling we are going to split again. It is mostly to due with how he is emotionaly abusing me. I don't think I want to continue the marriage with him like this. How can I make this change or should I just give up hope and make him leave the house?

2007-09-23 03:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What percentage of the women who presently find David Beckham attractive would still feel similarly if he.....
had never became a famous footballer?

You may feel free to elaborate, but I would prefer just a figure

I personally say 20 per cent, he is one of the most overrated looking guys of all time tbh, he is so feminine and geeky

2007-09-23 03:29:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when you're boyfriend says... "Can our relationship go any further?... Like in any way?..."

2007-09-23 03:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by SomeRandomPerson 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-23 03:26:17 · 6 answers · asked by pimpinbambam13 1 in Family

Last spring my parents had a small family get-together (just siblings). Near suppertime, we had decided to use paper plates, but my brother (who has small health issues) decided that he wanted a full spread, so he went and set the table with all the fixings and trimmings. Then, totally out of the blue, he called me a dirty little c***s****r for not helping him set the table. I was so totally stunned and heartbroken that I left without saying another word. Two weeks later my mother calls me and blames me for ruining the supper, because I shouldn't have left. She claims I have a bad attitude and I should have just forgave my brother. Well, its been several months and I thought that was all water under the bridge, but now with the holidays coming up, my mom does not want a family get-together again because of my 'bad attitude.' I don't know how to feel about this. Did I over-react in the first place? Is there something I can do to make this all better?

2007-09-23 03:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

This question is a repost of sorts, I have received some great feedback and I am looking for more. Here is the situation; I am a 33 year divorced father of 2 boys (ages 4 & 6) I have been raising them mostly on my own as my "baby mama" is a nut job. I was lucky enough to meet and fall in love with a wonderful woman. I had no intentions on looking for love after my divorce, I just wanted to be a daddy, but when you aren't looking love finds you. Anyway... We have been together for about a year and a half now and have only a few issues in our relationship. Most of them are the common everyday problems that arise in all relationships, we take great pride in our ability to communicate our concerns and solve the issues quickly.

The big one, a possible deal breaker is this: I have been very wishy washy when it comes to the number of children we would have if we were to marry. She has none of her own and at first I wanted no more. It caused us to split and she moved out of my house.

2007-09-23 03:23:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend (sarissa) started being my friend in 5th grade and now were in 7th and since about 2 weeks ago i have been noticing she hasnt been acting the same like she yells at me alot for everything, she dosent listen to me and when were with our other friend (brianna) she only listens and talks to brianna ( wo i've been friends with since kindergartin) and she stopped answering my phone calls but she always answers brianna's but then somtimes she's nice! i dont no what to do!!

2007-09-23 03:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

need solid Answers

2007-09-23 03:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by Dead Man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 03:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by Aiko 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works abroad...he wants me send him texts messages that could arouse him when he feels like doing it..he says it's a way of helping him release...Is it normal? Is it part of my responsibility as a wife?

2007-09-23 03:16:45 · 18 answers · asked by paypet 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 03:16:44 · 18 answers · asked by Aiko 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is deployed and has been through this entire situation. We got in a huge fight, he wanted a divorce. I said fine, whatever, and he finds himself a gf online. Now, they have never met because he's still out there, and now 4 months later he wants to get back together. Well, he has told her a few times as nice as he can that she needs to go away, and she doesn't get it. She still emails him, says how much she's so in love with him, how they are meant to be blah blah, she's basically psycho. So, we've resorted to ignoring her instead of telling her to go away every time she contacts us. She still does not seem to get the flippin hint. Anything else we can do?

2007-09-23 03:15:29 · 14 answers · asked by burnt_crawfish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been living together for 7 months. Due to family issues wth my children he's thinking of moving out and getting his own place but still see each other.

I feel this is a step backwards and out of the relationship. He says he's uncomfortable here with my daughter and her teenage ways and has tried but hates it here.

If you've been living together and then he moves out....what type of effect would that have on the relationship?

I feel like I"m losing my best friend and partner for support. I don't know if I can continue in the relationship if he moves out.

Why is that? Should I?

2007-09-23 03:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by xxxxi 1 in Family

I like this girl, but I think she has a boyfriend, and she acts like she likes me. How can I find out?

2007-09-23 03:12:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A female coworker asked me to go to dinner with her and a group of friends from work, I told her that I might be able to go but wasn't sure because I had other plans. When I told her I couldn't go, her facial expressions indicated that she was very disappointed that I wasn't able to go. Then ignored me for the rest of the day. How should i take this, I told her that I already had plans and there was only a chance that I could go. Should I apologize. I am a dude by the way

2007-09-23 03:08:30 · 6 answers · asked by mama a 1 in Friends

i hv been goin around wid my bf 4 10 months n 4 d past 6 months v hv been in a long dist relationship, nw he is a flirt..bt he says he loves me, there's dis chat grl he talks 2 n she keeps on sayin i love u 2 him n he still chats wid her, i've asked him 2 stop talkin n he says he hs..bt frm time 2 time i find him talkin 2 her n he says that she's just a chat girl n he loves me.....he myt b tellin d truth..bt he could b lying 2...

should i leave him if i agn find him talkin 2 her? or should i just take a chill pill as she's just a chat girl?

2007-09-23 03:02:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

did you ever notice how the single guys your husband hangs out with pick on him when he says that he loves you or calls to see if you need anything on his way home from work?

2007-09-23 03:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by gorf79 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's son will be Married soon. All my Nephews cousins are invited to the wedding but mine seeing they are not the age of 18. I am the youngest Aunt. Also I have 5 children ages 11 to 17. There are a few kids attending on the Brides side because they live out of town. I have A great Nephew the age of 11, And My older Brothers adopted son age 17 are attending. I have really taken offense to this and do not want to attend but do not want to hurt my sisters feelings. Should I stay home or Suck it up an go for my Sis. My Husband refuses to go, so I,ll have to go alone. What would you do. Please Help

2007-09-23 03:02:09 · 21 answers · asked by mary f 2 in Weddings

My sister in law went to jail, her husband my brother, is also in jail. He will get out in Feb and her in March. (Different cases, for stupidity like check deception and probation violation). Yes they are stupid and selfish. My sister in law had custody of her and my brothers kids and had another baby by her boyfriend. All she told me was how she hated her boyfriend, and how her mistreated the kids. It was known that when she went to jail I would take custody of all three of the children she had with my brother. When she went to jail she changed her mind and signed a statement that her boyfriend should take custody of them. CPS agrees he has no right to them but she signed the statement and now they told me I have to file a petition with the court. I have no lawyer and not alot of extra money. I am willing to take the kids so they dont go to foster care, because she has an open case. Her boyfriend is mentally impaired and abusive. Her family is not stepping up for the kids

2007-09-23 03:01:19 · 1 answers · asked by Mystie 3 in Family

And that man is your brother.... but you know your brother is in wrong.

2007-09-23 02:57:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if ido something wrong she scold at me like a baby.what should i do.

2007-09-23 02:56:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so my buddy has been with his gf for 3 years now.... and things have been great between them....
recently he's been going through a rough time... and he's under alot of stress...
He told me that he's having second thoughts about his relationship.... he loves her and doesnt want to break it off but at the same time... he wants to!.... he doesnt really know what to do.
I told him its just the stress and he should give it some time and think about it...
because what they have is amazing... and he said he doesnt want to just throw this away.....
i don't think i was of much help to him:(
any advice?

thanks alot

i asked this question a while ago but i needed a few more answers...
thanks so much

2007-09-23 02:51:36 · 10 answers · asked by lilwingACA 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 02:50:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I recently found out that my husband cheated on me at his bachelor party. We have been married for almost 5 years. He is not the one who told me however I know for a fact it is true. I have not been perfect either but he doesn't know that. I'm wondering if this is a conversation worth having with him.

2007-09-23 02:48:29 · 29 answers · asked by Butterfly16 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my girlfriend wants to talk to me morning, noon and night. She says she needs to talk to me to "build" our relationship, but she wont ever stop talking!!!!!! I CANT TAKE IT!!! I could be perfectly happy not saying a word to anybody all day, and she would be perfectly happy TALKING EVERY SECOND OF EVERYDAY ABOUT THE SAME STUFF OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!!! And when we stop talking on the phone (as in stop saying stuff) she proceeds with a stream of questions (i'm talking 15 questions per minute) and then i get pissed and yell at her (cause i cant deal with that much talking) and then she cries and we have a fight. She doesnt ever want to stop talking and i cant take it.......................What do you think of her dong this?.......AND....Can a relationship be killed by TOO much talking?..........P.S. We have a long distance relationship and we talk EVERY ******** day after school.

2007-09-23 02:47:20 · 16 answers · asked by Cody 4 in Singles & Dating

What are the signs and symptons of the midlife crises?What age does this usually begin?My husband is 47.And some ways for me deal with the crisis the husband has to deal with.I need men opinions and nothing stupid please.

2007-09-23 02:46:59 · 7 answers · asked by lollypop 4 in Marriage & Divorce