my friend (sarissa) started being my friend in 5th grade and now were in 7th and since about 2 weeks ago i have been noticing she hasnt been acting the same like she yells at me alot for everything, she dosent listen to me and when were with our other friend (brianna) she only listens and talks to brianna ( wo i've been friends with since kindergartin) and she stopped answering my phone calls but she always answers brianna's but then somtimes she's nice! i dont no what to do!!
2007-09-23 03:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like this friend isn't acting like she should be. Maybe something you did made her angry at you. Friends sometimes separate as you go in middle or high school. Try talking about it, but if it doesn't help maybe you should consider other friends.
2007-09-23 03:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's this way because she doesn't know how to be a friend. She may have never really been taught on how to be a friend, she will soon do the same to Brianna.
Sarissa needs to learn the value of being a friend hopefully as she gets older she will learn how and what friendship is all about and maybe once she does she will be a better friend.
But for now if u want to continue to have her as a friend u need to tell her you do not like the way she treats you and the way she acts when she's around others. If she gets mad with u after that then u may have to end this so call friendship thing and don't worry about not having her as a friens because she never really was in the first place( right) so if u have to end it with ehr then do so and make friends with someone else who will not yell at u and act different when you all around others.
Good Luck
2007-09-23 04:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be trying to eliminate you from the friendship she has with Brianna. She also may be jealous of you because that happens in about the 7th grade. All of a sudden if she is not as pretty or as thin or doesn't have a great personality, she will try to get rid of all competition. That is maybe what happened. If so, just be nice. Quit calling her. Go find some new friends. You can always spend time with her anyway even if you have new friends. It's time to get some new friendships going in the 7th grade anyway because we all change as the years go by.
2007-09-23 03:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to carry on being friends with people you have known for years when you are changing and they to are changing to.
It happened to me, a friend i had for 10 years decided to move on and hang out with other people. It hurt at first but then i realised that we are different people and now she has her own friends and I have moved on to make new and lasting friendships with people i share things in common.
The advice i guess i am trying to give is that if your friend chooses to do this then simply let her and try and make new friends and if she comes back she is a true friend and if she chooses not to then it was not a true friendship after all and you would not have lost anything as you have moved on.
Good luck sweetie its hard but you will laugh about it in a few months x
2007-09-23 04:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by elizc_uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try first to think and see why she is doing that then either you face the subject with here or just ignore her and do the same for her...i had this problem with one of my friends when the third guy comes all attention go to him and even he or other friends when we are in group they'll follow him...people do change not every one can be still the same one you know. so my advice is think, check and act back, i know it might be hard for you at the beginning but this is the right thing to do. cheers
2007-09-23 03:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by gay00072000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume she is blowing you off. Maybe it would help to talk to her and tell her how you feel. Maybe she is mad about something and treating you this way for a reason. It is often harder for girls to right a wrong because so often times we don't speak up, we just assume that the other is acting catty. Could be a reasonable explanation behind her behavior. Talk to her.
2007-09-23 03:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by HBIC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, ask her questions you want to know like why are you not answering my calls anymore? and then if she tells you something mean then just don't be her friend anymore she obviously dose not want to be friends with you anymore so find some new friends to hang out with! do what is right for you! this is not about friend ship it is about knowing who your friends are! don't let her put you down!
2007-09-23 03:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by jason 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PAY ATTENTION!!!!!!! This is classic catty behavior the girls do all the time. It's CATTY and you should learn very quickly because you still have to go through high school and by that time the girls have perfected their CATTINESS.... Sweety...... SCRATCH BACK!!!!
2007-09-23 03:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to briana more and I'm sure something will come out of it and then you find out the soulution of who is what.
2007-09-23 03:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk honestly with her first and find out if she has anything against you. that should help clear the air.. and hopefully you'll find out what's bothering her. maybe she's upset with you but doesn't know how to tell you up front
2007-09-23 03:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by january 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋