Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

Okay the rumor going around about me is true but it wasnt supposed to get around but it has. How do i stop it?

2007-09-23 04:47:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I've been dating this guy who is a towering 6'3'', whereas I am 5'3''. Hugging him is so awkward because clearly he is much, much taller than me. My head reaches his chest so tiptoe-ing past his shoulder is impossible.

How can I position myself so that the hug won't be so awkward.
Thanks!

2007-09-23 04:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by natalie b 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 04:43:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been through a lot in the last 2 years yaking care of his parents(they lived with us) and they both died within 2 years.He didnt want to get intimate cause of them or he was tired or the job strain always a reason.Okay now 2 years later he doesnt have job pressure his parents are not here and his health is good and he is 47 yrs old with just me and a 14 yr old at home.Sex is maybe 3 times a year.I talked and begged and tried everything and the last straw was last night we where alone all night since our son went away and guess what he said his stomach bothered him and as of 1135 this morning he is still in bed.I am so hurt and frustrated.Please advise!!!!

2007-09-23 04:38:01 · 33 answers · asked by karen e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my friend always treats me good and calls me her best friend and all when we're together in classes in school.But whenever our other friend comes along she treats me like im invisible she doesnt say a word to me for the whole time she says she'd do a certain activity with me but instead she went and did it with her and didnt say sorry or anything..Basically i got the message she only treats me really good and is close with me when her other friends arent around so basically im second hand to her if her other friends are around i become invisible...that clicked into me yesterday i was wondering how stupid could i of been to let her just do that too me....so i gave her a taste of her own medicine and did that to her everytime my friends were around i treated her like she was invisible i wouldnt say a word or even look at her . im so sick of getting treated like that i wanted to give her a taste of her own medicine was i wrong?i would of felt like a follower if i hadnt done that

2007-09-23 04:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by mickey 1 in Friends

it was just a minor fight.but the thing is,i always send him messages in order for him to understand me more n xplained things to him detail by detail.but every time he txt me back,he always give simple n short message.and sometimes he dont even answer the most sensitive qstions i asked him.infact he give me another answer and saying that i dont trust him at all.and he told me that he dont know how 2 talk 2 me anymore.but kept saying sorry.i dont understand guys alot.....i knew he loved me.but,he nver get the initiative 2 text me 1st.why does it have 2 be me all the time?doesn't he care anymore?

2007-09-23 04:30:44 · 2 answers · asked by hey 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi

I am 25 and been seeing this lady of 35 from work for 3 months, she can be very hard work mood swings and snappy. Thats mainly because she has a low self confidence and had a ruff time in past with ex husband who cheated on her 4years ago, she having problems at work and is a bit depressed.

During these thre months she been up and down, which I don't mind I just try and help and support her. I have spent the last couple of months helping her out as much as I can, I do like her but recently went on a 10day holiday together.

During that time she was very whats the word not effectionate, I asked her whats going on. She said she fancies me really likes me, isnt using me and isnt messing me about. but didn't want to touch or kiss me on holiday and dosn't know why? but a few weeks before she did.

She said she wants me to hang on in there while she sorts her self out, but kissing some one is not a big deal no matter how down some one is and she did before we

2007-09-23 04:18:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 04:17:10 · 10 answers · asked by triggerman5483 1 in Friends

She has another partner and she works

2007-09-23 04:12:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im going through a divorce . i have not been able to see my kids in about three weeks and im just really depressed do i need profetional help or what i have spent the last 3 day in my house not wanting to do anything but mope and cry my ex wife acts like this crap is cool and im losing control of it all some one please help me before i lose it all togeather

2007-09-23 04:11:32 · 4 answers · asked by michael h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother makes me sick. He likes to annoy me when i haven't done anything to him. Especially when i'm in a good mood. He makes up absurd stuff about me to his friends, (?!?!?!) and when his friends complemented me that I was pretty, he went like "NO!!" to them. Meanwhile, when i've forgotten the stuff he's done, i try to be nice to him, stand up for him when my dad wrongly scolded him, try to connect with him... What the hell is wrong with him??!?!?! Now thinking about it, he really makes me sick to my stomach. i'm 19, he's 14.
Adolescence? Seriously. He takes up the entire living room freedom space because he parks himself in front of the computer every day and every movement I make, he judges it by slamming on his mouse, coughing, singing in a way that really is meant to annoy me. I tried to work around it, thinking I might have done something wrong, but in the end, it just reduces me to this helpless thing.. And he likes to pat my head!! ..wtf?!?!? i'm really sick of it.

2007-09-23 04:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 12 and i like older nude women and i like 3 older guys in the WWE and i like his boy in school wat can i do?

girls if u seem intrested in me contact me at plymouthlover011@yahoo.com or thebestplayer05@yahoo.com

2007-09-23 04:07:39 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't care how long you are with your boyfriend/girlfriend or fiance - if you're not MARRIED or seeking info on DIVORCE, place your questions in the "singles and dating" category. Silly of me to complain, I know, but it's irritating sifting through these questions!

2007-09-23 04:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by Empress1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He also has another kid with someone else whom he pays child support to, but i filed first. Does anyone have any idea how much i should be getting or at least an estimate or a website that has any answers?

2007-09-23 04:01:34 · 14 answers · asked by cutie-pie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He works 2 jobs and see's his little girl every other weekend, he pays child support every month. The mom lives with her parents and has a hard time keeping a job, she makes no effort in changing any of this. What can he do to see his daughter more, and if he tried could he get sole custody?

2007-09-23 03:56:13 · 6 answers · asked by Two peas in a pod 2 in Family

i had a problem in my family yesterday. After a long seriies of violent behaviors , i called the cops on my father yesterday because he came after me with a knife thretening to physically violate me .

they arrested him . Now my whole family is against me . You see i went thru depression , anxiety , panic attacks , social anxiety and everything for the past 5-6 years because of the way he brought me up . i started rebelling when i was 16. due to the dependence issues my parents caused ( excess love , thus causing me to attend to his needs as if I AM THE adult , has made me dependent , thus i was unable to leave)

but now i think i had enough . i send out 2 resumes yesterday . today probably i'll send out much more. but the thing is i heard my family talk about asking me to move out yesterday night
can they do that?
can they just go to court ( which we have to anyway )
and tell the judge they want me to be out and Do i have to move out ? after all wasn't He the one with the knife?

2007-09-23 03:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by sum142121 1 in Family

I recently had an argument with half my family about whether or not we have choices in life. They were saying that we absolutely "have" to do things and that we have no choice, just because we have responsibilities. I was saying that we don't "have" to do things, but we "choose" to be responsible. They were telling me that there is no such thing as choice. My family won't listen to others and won't try to understand them. If they think they are right, no one can tell them otherwise. To them no one else's opinion matters but their own. I know I'm not going to convince them, but I just need to know that someone out there understands what I am saying. It would even mean everything to me if someone were to even agree with me for once!

Can someone just reassure me and tell me that I am a human being, and that I have choice!!!

2007-09-23 03:50:05 · 21 answers · asked by Dave C 2 in Family

My husband just left on a 4 day business trip, and I´m lonely already.

What do you do when your husband is away?

I live in a foreign country and don´t speak Deutsch, so I don´t have any friends here.

2007-09-23 03:49:56 · 19 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

could be family member friend or imagiary person!!!! please answer and ill help you on your questions, too!!!!!!!

2007-09-23 03:49:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

And had been talking to someone via email and phone, how would you feel about this person if she had sex with you upon your first meeting?

2007-09-23 03:48:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this will sound very wierd, but I lost 45 pounds, and for some reason, I'm alot more sensitve then I was before, is that normal, or weird?

2007-09-23 03:48:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok im in my last senior year in highschool so is this girl. last year in grade 11 i had liked her for a whole semester, but was to nervous to talk to her until the like the last 2 weeks of school, that got me really depressed sad and stuff. i am close with her best friend so i endeed up telling her, my best friend and a few other good friends, they all tried to help me but no luck, until the last few weeks taht is, then i went and told her i liked her, she said she didnt like me, we r still friends and nothing is awkward. so i got over her come summer time, since i rarely saw her. but now 4 weeks into school, i am beginning to like her again, she talks to me way more she even left all her friends once to come talk to me and paly with my hair :S.
so then 6 of us ( all close friends to each other) went out to dinner then back to her house. there we talked a lot, we played ping pong and she laughed pretty much everytime we hit the ball, like she was laughing at what i did all night..

2007-09-23 03:47:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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http://neahin.org/programs/schoolsafety/gunsafety/statistics.htm

2007-09-23 03:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has been at the lowest point of his life for the past 2 years. I have been the "force" that the keeps my family together. I'm sure bec. of this he has kept to himself and has totally abandoned his sexual duties as a husband. I have sent feelers that my needs has to be addressed but all for naught. I have been harboring lustful thoughts that I want to get it from somebody else but I know that would just be getting into a bigger problem. I feel less of a woman now and I feel that my sexuality has reached the deadend. I feel that this is so unfair but at the same time think that it is just sex and that I would soon be pass this. Enlighten me.

2007-09-23 03:43:42 · 34 answers · asked by nuana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who was it wrote that book: "If I'm so wonderful, why am I still single?" Well, take heart. You are wonderful! Everybody goes through their unfair share of Mr Wrongs before meeting Mr Right. Being more self-aware will help.

2007-09-23 03:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's my boss (37/M) bday and i don't know what to give, he almost have everything. i want to give him something that he would appreciate. He is very nice to me, i want to give him something for his bday to show how much thankfull i am to his generosity and kindness. please help

2007-09-23 03:40:53 · 7 answers · asked by concerned_citizen 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend tells me that I require too much attention... do other girls want lots of attention from their significant other?

2007-09-23 03:38:29 · 17 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

It is wrong to fall in love with a man 50 years older than you?

2007-09-23 03:36:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 03:36:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 03:35:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating