She has another partner and she works
2007-09-23 04:12:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, it depends. The most important thing is for your son to have stability in his home.
You don't say if her partner lives there or not.
If the case is that you cannot afford the mortgage and the maintenance, and the house is joint ownership, then perhaps she can buy you out.
The other option would be to sell the house, provided that your son still has a decent home to live in afterwards. It would be callous to leave your son in a bedsit with his mum (worst case scenario) if she can't afford to buy another house.
Good luck,
2007-09-23 05:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that she needs to eiva leave - if the house is in your name - or share the mortgage payments. Give her a time limit, say 2 and a half months, to move out if the house is in your name. If the house is in both names, and she still refuses to pay, then do not pay her half, and wait until she sees sence. Try explaining to ehr that the living situation isnt healthy for ur son if she also has another partner and u 2 are not gettin along - if ther is any way of selling the house, u shud try that also put keep trakc of the amount of mortgage she is not paying so if u do happen to sell the house (and it does seem that ur going to need a gd lawyer) you can take that money from her share...
xx gd luk hope this helps xxx
2007-09-23 11:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the exact same situation except I am the ex living in the house with the children. I am buying my ex partner out, however, it has taken a while and whilst you may want your money - you have to understand that she has to be inthe rightposition to do this, and whilst you have been advised to push for the sale of the house, she has got your little one to house. It has taken just over a year to sort our situation out, solicitors, mortgage hunting after umming and ahhhing baout whether to stay in thi house or not, I decided I would buy him out. Now I have to get him to agree to a settlement sum - not as easy as it may sound!!
be reasonable, and if you are, she can have no reason to take you to the cleaners.
good luck my man.
2007-09-23 13:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by ally_2802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife still lives in the house we once shared and I pay the mortgage, she has a new partner, and so do I.
Why am I still paying..............
Because I still love her and she could not afford the house on her own.
2007-09-23 15:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sell the house, then.. talk to a family law attorney and see what you can do.
you should not have to pay the mortgage on a home you dont live in.
2007-09-23 11:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push for the sale of the house
2007-09-23 11:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a decent lawyer, because doesn't sound as though she is going to move. She should buy you out or sell up and give you half.
2007-09-23 11:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i ask her too buy your share if she wont tell her your selling up if the house is in both your names i am sure you have a right too sell
2007-09-23 11:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by lisa150180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do for you two to split? The mother will always get the home and child.
2007-09-27 06:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by trartswarts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her to buy you out
2007-09-23 11:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by peter c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋