It is wrong to fall in love with a man 50 years older than you?
2007-09-23 03:36:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We've known each other for 10 years. For the first 7 years we were intimate. We had an argument and I broke it off. Later, I found out he was back, and our feelings have not changed. They grew. he only problem is that my fmaily doesn't like him.
2007-09-23 03:46:04 · update #1
You see, that's the answer I felt I would get, "What he has money I bet" or "you can't possibly love someone that old" or "he can't please you".... because I'm not 20... it's not about money, and he can please me. Not everyone is an Anna Nicole.
2007-09-23 12:33:31 · update #2
im going through a similar thing im 55 my girl friend is in the phillipines and were planning to marry next year she is 25 , most people on the site are dead against our relationship and obviously you get the know all done alls ,i believe if your in love i see no problem with an age gap and go for iteven if you do have arguements (tell me who dosent whatever the age)but go for your goal and good luck
2007-09-24 06:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by joe1952 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are way over your head. What is he right now, 70? why would a 20 year old girl want to be with an old fart? He couldn't even please you to begin with. Is it that he is rich? Because i really can't think of a single reason why a young girl would like to be with and old man, he could be your grandfather. I am sorry, but I can't believe you are in love, it is just not feasible
What were you thinking? If it is the money, I really think you are not a nice person. I can't stand people who do things for their own beneffit. Any how, good luck on your endeavor.
2007-09-23 13:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What possibly on earth could a 50 yr older man give you to make you feel this way? He could very well be your father or even grandfather at that age. But then allthat really doesnt matter much if youre truly happy. Just be sure to increase his life insurance for short term cause I dont believe he will be around too long with a very young girl
2007-09-23 10:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is typically something out of your control...so it can't be wrong I suppose. But I think a 50 year age gap is not the best way to start any type of relationship. Of course if I knew more details it may change my opinion, but I doubt it.
2007-09-23 10:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by illinoismommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well- i would think so- what kind of life would u have? Do you think that just mayb ur lookin 4 a father fiqure instead of a lover? U need 2 analyze this situation for what it really is and c that there is no possible way this would ever work out- that is if ur looking for love- or like I said, some1 2 take care of u.
2007-09-23 10:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby is 16 yrs older. It has worked out, but 50 yrs older that's your grandfather' age. Do you have anything in common? Do you think you could be in a long term relationship w/him? I personally would not go for that big of a age gap. Good Luck!!
2007-09-23 10:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by metalwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may fall in love with anybody, but with THAT age gap, it won't go far. With his age, he may not succeed in satisfying you sexually for long, and then you will want to stray (nothing wrong with it, really, as you have sexual needs to be taken care of).
Why would you want to open a can of worms? There are plenty of other not-so-old blokes out there.
2007-09-23 10:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Calculus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying goes..." age doesn't matter"...it's right and I agree...as long as you love each other then why not? It's you who should decide..after all it is your life!
2007-09-23 11:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by paypet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats crazy! If you want to do that then go ahead but think about it before you hurt someones heart. God bless!
2007-09-23 11:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by cortez c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just plain weird. 50 years - come on......
2007-09-23 10:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋