2007-09-23 03:35:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well probably because they not down for the responsibility.
2007-09-23 03:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by not_ON_the_CRAK ;) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thats not true at all. I personally don't see any girl with a baby any less 'serious' then one that doesnt. Babys are wonderful things. I just think that some guys tend to not want to get too involved as they arent the babys real father, and if the child grows up thinking so, they feel as if they may have done the wrong thing.
Think carefully about getting into a relationship while you still have a 'baby'. Theres far more important things in life then members of the opposite sex ;)
2007-09-23 03:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your baby has to come first, which you know already.
But, you have needs which you would like to meet as well.
It's important to get to know a person over time, before getting involved with them, as you have a baby. You need to be in a stable place, emotionally, to raise your child, rather than getting your heart broken by getting into relationships with men too soon, if this is what is happening for you.
There are some lovely men out there, who would be happy to become serious with you. There are others who would like to think they would be serious, but the reality of it would change their mind. There are others who are just plain not interested, but if there's something on offer for them (sex) they'll have a fling and then back out.
So, it's just down to qualifying the men that you meet and getting to know whether they are sincere or not before you bring someone into your life in a serious way. This takes time, but it is worth it.
Good luck.
2007-09-23 05:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems guys don't want the responsibility of taking on two new people in their lives, rather than just one. There are guys out there that seem willing to take the responsibility, but it's much more difficult to build a relationship as you're always conscious about your child and their relationship with him.
2007-09-23 03:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by misspink 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, but if you have a baby right now, the baby and your future need to be a focus, not guys.
You'll probably meet someone when you least expect it. Meanwhile, take care of your life and the baby...
2007-09-23 03:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men aren't interested in the responsibility and changing nappies - but some of us are different.
There are only a few of us who accept that those particular women come with a but and that they are second. (the baby comes first)
You'll find someone!
2007-09-23 10:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I asked myself why i don't go for single women with children. And to be honest its the responsibility, i want you all to myself and bringing up another mans child, not your own.
It is the case for most single guys, you might want have more luck seeing a guy who has a kid. May be more respondant.
Sorry to say this, but its the honest truth :(
Stuart
2007-09-23 06:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Stuart L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just silly. Men have been bringing up other men's children since time began. We're a great deal more open to it, and better at it, than women are in a similar situation.
2007-09-23 03:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because there stupid and not the 1 for u. i had 2yrs of seeing nothing but dust wen a guy found out i had a baby, then i met my boyfriend and he thought he was gr8, just hang in there, the right person will turn up wen u least expect it!!!
2007-09-23 03:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all guys r the same the ones u r talkin bout u r probably meetin in bars
2007-09-24 04:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c they get scared of commitment and think you are trying to just find the kid a father. and they dont want to be put in that position so if your dating someone and they dont want to be serious, leave him.
2007-09-23 03:41:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋