Ok so my friend always treats me good and calls me her best friend and all when we're together in classes in school.But whenever our other friend comes along she treats me like im invisible she doesnt say a word to me for the whole time she says she'd do a certain activity with me but instead she went and did it with her and didnt say sorry or anything..Basically i got the message she only treats me really good and is close with me when her other friends arent around so basically im second hand to her if her other friends are around i become invisible...that clicked into me yesterday i was wondering how stupid could i of been to let her just do that too me....so i gave her a taste of her own medicine and did that to her everytime my friends were around i treated her like she was invisible i wouldnt say a word or even look at her . im so sick of getting treated like that i wanted to give her a taste of her own medicine was i wrong?i would of felt like a follower if i hadnt done that
2007-09-23 04:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by mickey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
7 years? lol im in highschool i'll be an adult in less than 7 years hahaa.Yeah i feel that i acted soo childish..
2007-09-23 04:56:37 · update #1
but i thought i look like a freakin idiot letting her do this too me i wanted to let her know how it feels
2007-09-23 04:57:48 · update #2
NOPE not at all i would of done the same!
2007-09-23 04:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by kimber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you did and why you did it. Maybe you should have just told her what you felt rather than go act in the same childish manner. Still, what's done is done. I don't blame you. I'd have been *** off too at her bad behaviour. Now go and tell her why you did it, that you still want to be friends but that you don't want her to treat you this way in future.
2007-09-23 04:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try for joint custody.. Actually, she doesnt have to tell you anything when he is with her, and you do not have to tell her anything. You can even take the child to a church of your choice and she cannot say anything.. But no sense in playing games, it will only hurt the child. Just stop asking her. If there is something about his dr visit you should know, I am sure she would not keep that from you.. However, you do have the right to medical and school information, so if he needs a check up, you take him too.. And by all means go to school events, keep up with the school on your own.. its your right..
2016-05-17 04:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was good. Show her what it feels like. Even thoguh youre being treated invisible, she knows your there, and she still cares about you, but she pretends not to. But, for some people, they can be mean and ignore you, and they know it's bothering you, but when you ignore them back, they don't care. so...... If it's really bugging you, then just find a new friend.
2007-09-23 04:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by kingkwakawak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, you weren't wrong, but there was a better way to have gone about it. you could have approached her about how you felt regarding the situation, she may not have been concious of what she was doing or how you felt about it. if the instance persisted, thats when you should have taken those actions. I just hope she got the point of what you were trying to do, because she may just develop the same type of resentment to you, being that she didn't now why you did what you did
2007-09-23 04:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by the champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you took that line of action did you at any time asked her why she was treating you that way?
I would have done the same thing just to find out how she feels about it.
2007-09-23 04:40:50 · answer #6 · answered by dicovi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong? hell no. Revenge is a sweet thing if u know how to do it properly. Ive just experienced the same thing with my so called best mate and ive done the best thing i could possibly do to get my own back and by hell it feels good and now shes suffering for it because of her own miss judgement of my friendship. Good on u lass x
2007-09-23 04:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I probably would have done the same thing but it does not mean its right. So tell her why you did it and how you feel. If you don't you could lose a good friend.
2007-09-23 04:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you weren't wrong,I'd even go a step further and become friends with one or two of her friends.She sounds very shallow and needs more than a taste of her own medicine,give her a new brand....Your's........:)
2007-09-23 04:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; You did the right thing because friends don't treat each other like that.
2007-09-23 04:36:57 · answer #10 · answered by Twilight Elk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't sink to her level. But she sounded like she deserved it.
I'd say, just keep going about life as you always have. Be mature, and if she needs company, you can offer it, only if its convenient for yourself.
2007-09-23 04:39:12 · answer #11 · answered by tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋