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I like this girl, but I think she has a boyfriend, and she acts like she likes me. How can I find out?

2007-09-23 03:12:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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thats a sticky situation.. About the only thing i can think of is to wait it out a little while.. because if you like her you sure dont want to make her b/f not like you because he will make her hate you. Even if they break up later on she could still hold a grudge for you getting them in a fight. just let her catch you throwing her glances and being nice to her. she will catch on later on and give you hints too. hope it works out for you.

-Will

2007-09-23 03:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by William 3 · 0 0

NewYardbirds you might want to approach this female and ask her point blank if she is seeing anyone at this time. She is either going to say yes that she has a boyfriend at present or no that she is single. If she responds with yes then you know for sure. If she says no you could ask her if she is looking to become involved in one or taking some time for herself before committing to a relationship. She may actually appreciate you asking and talking with her as often people want to speak but are too shy, embarrassed etc. Go for it and find out for sure on your own. Who knows you may end up with a valuable friendship that will last a lifetime even if you two don't get together as a couple.

2007-09-23 10:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0 0

a) She is just a naturally flirtatious person - she doesnt even know when shes doing it. (i've been told i'm like that, honestly you can flirt without even knowing)

b) She is flirting just for fun (girls can do that even when they have a boyfriend, because..well there's no law against it, is there?)

c) She does fancy you, which could kinda tie in with (b)

I mean there are a lot of thing's to take into consideration;

Is she happy with her boyfriend?
What is she doing exactly when she is 'flirting'?
What is she like around other guys? - is she flirtatious with you or just with them?

You see what i mean? I really cannot answer this properly as there is too little information, but i hope my advice on how to find out has hellped.

Of course there is the option of asking her, but that could mean her being offended or embarassed....

Hope i hellped good luck xx

2007-09-23 10:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by ~* Daydreamer *~ 2 · 0 0

Ask her, it implies that u sorta are curious about her which implies that u like her and ulll figure out if she has a bf at the same time, Also if she has a bf back off, just be there for her if she needs it, boys bothering girls when they're already in a relationship is a huge turn off

2007-09-23 10:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dhoopy 3 · 0 0

Talk to her, thats the only way. be friendly and flirt a little and ask if she is single. If the answer is a no, then go for it! If she does have a boyfriend you should back offf though. Good luck!

2007-09-23 10:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by apple513 3 · 0 0

all is fair in love and war if its only a boyfriend than your good you have the right to talk to her be direct ask her how she feels about him and about you She will respect you for your maturity in handling the situation

2007-09-23 10:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by robert k 2 · 0 0

Just ASK HER. Seriously, if she does like you then that would be great right? Right. If she doesn't you'll be okay and move on right? Right. Or if you don't want to do that, just ask her if she's seeing anyone or interested in anyone right now.
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Kassy

2007-09-23 10:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Kassandra♥ 3 · 0 0

You have a mouth, use it. You won't gain a thing if you don't ask. Just ask her, "I have an attraction to you but I don't want to step on a relationship, are you seeing anyone, would you be interested in spending time together if you are available"?

2007-09-23 10:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Barney 6 · 0 1

say how long have u and ur boyf been going out

if she says 3 months or wateva theres ur answer

if she says i dont hav one

say :O why and act suprised
like as in ur so y u dont got a boyf lol then hint to her ur singleness

2007-09-23 10:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0 0

If you're too scared to ask her, just have a friend or someone bring your name up when you're not around. See what she has to say about you. Will it be "Oh, I kinda like him" or "Man, he's f'n weird"

2007-09-23 10:56:10 · answer #10 · answered by ShezFly2 2 · 0 0

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