What are the signs and symptons of the midlife crises?What age does this usually begin?My husband is 47.And some ways for me deal with the crisis the husband has to deal with.I need men opinions and nothing stupid please.
2007-09-23 02:46:59 · 7 answers · asked by lollypop 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some time around 45-55 yo a man may look around and say, what have I accomplished? A wife, kids a house in the burbs?
All his life he's acted as society said he should. Now he wants to know what might have been.
Some guys just buy an expensive toy, some have an affair, some never change anything.
Just be supportive. It will pass.
2007-09-23 02:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Colt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lollypop, a lot of men become emotional and at times may even break down or have tears for no special reason. Some like to go out and buy themselves big boy toys like motorbikes or fast cars. Others begin to question what they have accomplished in life and what their meaning was on earth. Sadly some begin to think they are God's gift to women and believe that the young attractive ladies they see all need and/or want them and then foolishly leave the ladies they have shared their lives with to be with these others who are about 30 years their junior. Health problems may begin to appear and denial that they are aging. Best advice is to approach this time of life with humour and be aware that they are not alone and that sooner or later it will happen to all guys, even them young studs that they work with and may try to look to as examples.
2007-09-23 09:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Madam, Iam the one who tried to contact you to know the Meaning '' Remarriage with God's eyes a Trucker '' but fortunately got you to know the actual fact.
Iam 48 Loner, Divorce, feeling from Yesterday that Iam not a Loner.
How is this riddle Madam, same like your question.
Middle crises in second Marriage is a communication gap which to be solved, by direct open talk, which gives impression to solve the crisis.
2007-09-23 11:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the man will have a difficult time saying goodbye to his youth. He will wear a ball cap everywhere if his hair is thinning or bald, he will want a Harley, and want all the toys a 20s guy would want like Xboes, 4 wheel quads to rip around on and he may even try to dress in clothes that younger kids wear, like skater clothes and tattoos. They are sometmes very philosophical and cry easily. Often times they will lose their erection before they have completed their job in bed with you. It will pass though. Just show him you love hi and keep a tight leash on him and you will both be together for the rest of your life.
2007-09-23 09:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one,Lollypop. I think for each man it's different. I feel every man wants to feel secure that the woman they are with truly loves him and only him. We often fail to acknowledge that as we are sometimes so busy with everyday life. I feel it's the little things that often speak volumes as to how we feel about someone and they really do go a long, long way. Leave a special card or note where he will find it when you are out working or shopping, have coffee for him when he gets up, if you are reading ask him to read to you because you love listening to him read, a special dinner at home once in a while...just you and him..nice music and candles, etc. I'm sure you can think of some things that are special for you and him. I feel as we get older we just want to be assured that we are still loved by our spouse because we tend to sometimes feel insecure that we are not as young and attractive as we once were. I guess it just comes down to "love him for who he is" as I'm sure you did from the start.
2007-09-23 12:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not old enough to REALLY know but I do have some friends that are. I think that we start wanting to do everything that we couldnt when we were younger. We are tired of being "practical" so we get sports cars (convertible) and we love younger women and partying etx.
2007-09-23 09:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
didn't you already ask this --I answered it already/
2007-09-23 09:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by contessa 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋