My husband works abroad...he wants me send him texts messages that could arouse him when he feels like doing it..he says it's a way of helping him release...Is it normal? Is it part of my responsibility as a wife?
2007-09-23 03:16:45 · 18 answers · asked by paypet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do one better. Go on Instant Messenger on Yahoo or another if you want. Get a webcam and really get him turned on with voice and video of you. He will love that.
2007-09-23 03:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
It really depends whether or not you can do it. Some people are no good at stuff like that anyway and would just end up making the "receiver" laugh! If your going to do it , it has to be really quite dirty.
If your husband feels he needs you to do this then maybe you could try and help him out, but you certainly don't have a responsibility as a "wife".
2007-09-23 03:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by andy n 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How long have you guys been married? I would definitely take it as a compliment. He could do a bunch much less tasteful things while away and if you shrug it away as some childish request, he will sincerely take that insult to heart and feel 'justified" in finding some other avenue for the mental release of his sexual urges. Don't help develop that kind of boldness in your spouse. say things that will reflect you are his goddess and you own him, don't disown him and leave him wondering about his unhappily found new sense of freedom. Keep him in the belief that he is crazy about you enought to want to and is expected to report in from a far about his sexual urges concerning his sexy goddess. Ask him how he is managing over there all kinked up inside for you. Tell him he must be in a desperate, swollen state, and what is he going to do about it? Don't tell me, you say, you've got something you wish you could show me, etc...
2007-09-23 03:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Steve C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a husband and wife do is there business. You suck his D-i-c-k, but you question a sextext....... comeon now.... grow up!!!!! You don't want the man coming home gay do you?
2007-09-23 03:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that is a strange request from your husband, But yes you need to show him that you care about his desires. If you have no idea what to write to him you can get ideas from the web. He won't know that you are getting ideas there... Good Luck!
2007-09-23 03:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Gypzee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'll do it rather than other woman doing it for him. After all, you are husband and wife. There's nothing wrong right, my dear.
Good Luck.
2007-09-23 04:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Charlyn Lim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh...yes. do it. just send him some little dirty/sexy texts telling him what you would like to do with him, or what you are doing with yourself...have some fun with it, but make sure he has some fun too!!
look at it this way, you can do it, or, he could call some 1-900 number and talk to some huzzie
2007-09-23 03:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is still your responsibility and it's ok.
Good for you coz he's still longing for you and not for anyone.
You should have dancing for joy for this.
It would be better if you do it at the same time.
Good luck.
2007-09-23 03:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Angel 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do it if not he will start having wondering eyes. Think about it as spicing up your sex life. Have fun with it. Good Luck!!
2007-09-23 03:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by metalwife 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure, It's fine and healthy. He is saying he misses you and wants you. If you don't or won't there are plenty of lonely women out there who will.
2007-09-23 03:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋